Desire on Fire

We got more than we bargained for in this week’s episode! I invited business coach and serial entrepreneur, Jamie White, to have a conversation about pleasure and business - and we got lost in some kinky, juicy stuff! Join us as we dive into some of the hottest ways to increase pleasure during sex, the burnout Jamie experienced and how he overcame it, and the ripple effect pleasure work can have on all aspects of your life. 

We get deep into:

• Jamie’s 6-year experience in all-boys boarding schools (you might find some of this surprising!)
• The fixation on climax and how to detach from it!
• Relationships by design - how to do it and why they are so powerful
• Why women sometimes crave ejaculate from a male partner
• The story of how we met at a play party
• My results from a BDSM quiz (I am damn proud of - by the way!)
• How porn could be detaching you from your truest desires (and what you can do about it)
• And more!

Connect with Jamie:

Instagram: https://instagram.com/jamiewhite?utm_medium=copy_link

Website: https://jamiewhite.com/

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Were there dysfunctional dynamics in your upbringing? Maybe you experimented in nightclub life, drinking and drugs, or felt stuck in unhealthy relationship dynamics? If so - then tune in for this week's episode! Emily DeBouver comes on the show to share her powerful story of transformation. We discuss her journey from her gogo dancing club days to the magical healing she found when she said fuck yes to following her desires.

We get deep into:

• Emily's upbringing dealing with abuse and reconnecting with her father
• How mentors and teachers have supported Emily along her journey
• A magical moment during Covid when Emily had a full-body fuck yes!
• How emotional turmoil can manifest into illness (and the healing work that it takes to get out of this cycle!)
• Finding approval for her desires through Pleasure Mastery
• And more!

Connect with Emily:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/em.debouver/

1:1 coaching: https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/4a3t1j173tc9

Blissed Out Membership: https://app.moonclerk.com/pay/3ir5zwn0um7b

Connection call: https://app.squarespacescheduling.com/schedule.php?owner=21936835

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

You are in for a treat this week as I invite another powerful couple on the show! In today's episode, I speak to women's rightness expert, Ana Del Castillo, and connection and intimacy coach for couples, Ken Blackman. They share their wisdom on how to show up powerfully in your relationships, how women's empowerment intersects with intimate coupledom, and the transformative experience of sharing your vulnerable truths.

We get deep into:

• Ana and Ken's relationship journey and a peek into their sex!
• Ways to experience deeper connection with your partner
• How societal conditioning could be impacting your ability to be fully expressed in your life and partnerships (and what to do about it!)
• Ken's advice to help men have deeper connections inside a partnership
• Why saying the vulnerable truths is the KEY to intimate coupledom (and more fucking!)
• Some helpful tips to help you communicate more deeply and effectively with your partner
• And so much more!

Connect with Ana:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ana_del_castillo/

Website: https://www.adlifedesign.com/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz3D51akUtgzy9To7tR_-rg

Connect with Ken:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kenblackmancoach/

Website: https://kenblackman.com/

Where I write: https://medium.com/straight-talkers

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Imagine if you had all the answers to life's big questions - inside of you. In today's episode, I invite my dear friend Vicky Aldana, coach and guide, to talk all about the special journey that we've shared together and her path to healing. We discuss our first meeting and the profound practice of orgasmic meditation, how our friendship changed forms over the years, and the many gateways and portals that she went through on her spiritual and sexual awakening journey.

We get deep into:

• How orgasmic meditation helped heal Vicky's shame around her body image
• Why sobriety can play such a role in spiritual and sexual healing (and why some use drugs and alcohol as a tool for spiritual experiences)
• How our relationship has changed forms over the years and the portals that we went through along the way
• Vicky's spirituality journey and trusting in a divine plan
• How to identify the places in your life you need to explore for further healing (hint: it's about feeling free!)
• And more!

Connect with Vicky on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vickylizette/

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Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Having challenges in the bedroom? If you and your partner are struggling with sex - you are not alone! In today's episode, we are diving in with sensuality coach Carli Jo and her husband Jose Cabrera, to talk all about their sexual partnership. They get vulnerable about the challenges they have faced in the bedroom, honoring each other's process for healing, and finding their true path to pleasure - together.

We get deep into:

• Carli Jo and Jose's story - from the first kiss to the challenges and turning point in their sex!
• The end of the honeymoon phase and the challenges they were starting to see in the bedroom
• Finding out that they had two TOTALLY different definitions of sex (and what this meant for their intimacy)
• How trying to conceive changed their sex life!
• A BIG turning point for Jose at a kink retreat
• How to ask for adjustments in a turned-on way (so your partner can receive them!)
• And so much more!

Connect with Carli Jo + Jose Cabrera:

Carli Jo's website: www.carlijo.com

Carli Jo's Instagram: www.instagram.com/cannabissensualitycoach

Jose's Instagram: www.instagram.com/areofilm

Learn more about Kink/BDSM teacher Orpheus Black: https://orpheusblack.com/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

When you think about dropping into healing work, transforming your life, embracing your feminine - is there some resistance there? In today's episode, I invite my beautiful friend of 15 years, Ilana Seewald, to share her journey from resistance to finding true healing and powerful growth. We get into some juicy stories from our younger years, the transformation that can come from saying the deeper thing, and how to trust your own unique journey so you can have a life filled with more pleasurable sex, orgasms, and relationships!

We get deep into:

• Ilana's resistance to transformational work and her path to healing
• Some juicy FIRSTS that we experienced together in our younger years
• Hitting rock bottom and acknowledging her abandonment wounds and harmful patterns in her relationships
• The BIGGEST shifts that came out of Ilana's time in Landmark
• How understanding relationships and men have transformed her leadership and career
• A recent growth edge Ilana found when entering a lovership with a polyamorous man
• How Desire on Fire and transformational work have impacted her romantic relationships
• And more!

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

I have had many adventures and magical moments with today's guest, Kendall Wallace, and in this week's episode, we share some juicy, heartwarming (and hilarious!) stories from our years of friendship. We discuss Kendall's passion for adventure and the founding of her travel adventure company, how our relationship to pleasure has evolved our lives and sex, and the impact that sisterhood can have on your transformational journey - wherever you find yourself on the path!

We get deep into:

• Kendall's passion for adventure and founding her company Authentic Travel Adventures
• How sisterhood and pleasure have impacted her life and projects
• A sneak peek at my Hawaii Bumble profile (it's pretty juicy!)
• Why learning to receive is SO important (especially in dating or sexual partnerships!)
• A breakthrough moment for Kendall when she asked for a desire!
• Why Kendall peed her pants (2x!) during a trip we took to Italy
• The weekly self-pleasure call we've had together for the past year and a half
• And so much more!

Connect with Kendall:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendallwallace123/

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Ready for the reckoning? In today's episode, I invite Monica Jayne - certified erotic blueprint™, accelerated evolution, and queer competency coach - to talk about her work helping others reckon with everything they are taught so they can live in their authenticity. We dive into her upbringing as a Catholic in a Mormon area, the conditioning she had to release to live as her authentic self, and the journey to getting unstuck from the past and living your dream life - unapologetically!

We get deep into:

• Monica's upbringing and how it sparked her personal development journey
• Some ways that accelerated evolution is put into practice (and what it is!)
• The shocking story of her introduction to sexuality in high school (and how it played a role in her beliefs around her own eroticism)
• Why children of alcoholics typically take on 1 of these 3 roles
• A realization Monica came to during a journaling practice in a queer competency course
• The 4 pillars of her teaching that she uses to help her clients recover their authentic selves
• Societal conditioning around the "typical female" (and how times are changing - finally!)
• And more!

Connect with Monica:

Website: https://monicajayne.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iammonicajayne/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/monica.jayne.me/

Take the Erotic Blueprint™️ Quiz: bit.ly/bpquizfun

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

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Not sure where to start with a conscious sex conversation? Naming your desires, communicating boundaries, asking a lover to get tested - you are not alone if you feel some resistance or fear around talking about these things with a partner. In today's episode, I invite Kevin Hart - my dear friend, former lover, and sex and intimacy coach - to talk about conscious sexuality. We discuss the role it played in our sexual relationship, why the RBDSM conversation is so powerful (and advice for how to have it!) and the beauty that comes from a fully conscious sexual experience.

We get deep into:

• Kevin's journey from the tech world to becoming a sex and intimacy coach in Bali
• Noticing sexual energy between us and having our first conversation about being intimate with each other (and why I was nervous!)
• A deep dive into the RBDSM conversation so you can get more comfortable having it with a potential sexual partner (or a current partner!)
• Helpful tips for what to ask in a safe sex conversation and examples of what it might sound like
• A sexy little story from Kevin about when I made his jaw drop
• Why it might feel like a conscious sex conversation could ruin the mood (and why you should still have it!)
• Some advice for finding common ground with your partner around your individual desires
• And more!

Connect with Kevin: [email protected]

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

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And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Do you feel empowered in the bedroom? Are you getting everything you desire with your partner or in sexual play with a new person? Altering that connection in the bedroom and understanding each other's bodies can be confronting, but there are tools to help! In today's episode, I dive into my TOP THREE practices to enhance the pleasure potential in the bedroom and get you the sex you truly desire.

I get deep into:

• An empowering exercise to help discover what you and your partner like (this is especially helpful if you have a difficult time sharing what you like)
• Why taking penetration off the table can take your pleasure to a whole new level (and your partner's too!)
• How the practice of edging (or peaking) can stimulate sexual and orgasmic energy
• Some of my tips for giving feedback in the bedroom (and what you have to be willing to do for this to work well!)
• And so much more!

Join our Pleasure Challenge! (Use code: WITHPLEASURE for a discount!) https://www.desireonfirelive.com/?r_done=1

Subscribe to my email list and learn more about a desire-led life: https://www.aimeebatuski.com/

Come and join our fb community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

And my retreat company instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/