Desire on Fire

Often in sex and relationships, we can restrict our own pleasure by stifling our erotic expression. But what would happen if you embraced your sexuality and the fluidity of how you express it? In today's episode, pleasure instigator & transformational leader, Kayla Yoder, shares her erotic healing journey and all the juiciness of her kinky life. We discuss sexual edges & exploration, leaning into the feminine, and the vulnerability it requires to be truly seen in your sex and relationships.

We dive into:

• Kayla's erotic journey from exploring kink in college, to her first time with a woman (and what she had to say about sex without cock)
• Sexual exploration, female pleasure & experiencing pussy shame
• Masculine and feminine dynamics within all relationships and how wounding can show up here
• Exploring the taboo in your life & sex (and why Kayla regards herself as kinky in all things)
• And more!

Connect with Kayla:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bykaylayoder/

Website: https://kaylayoder.com/

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

What is beyond desire? Can we hold both the full honoring of the feminine and respect for the masculine? We are answering these questions and more in today's episode! This week we invite wife and mentor, Claudia Lucida, to share her wisdom and passion for helping alpha women cultivate a passionate and polarized partnership that lasts a lifetime. Ready to fall more in love with the masculine, the sanctity of marriage, or your own desire for a relationship? Let's dive in!

We dive into:

• Claudia's unique journey to awakening - and the catalyst that brought her to this work
• Falling in love with the masculine and how that looks inside relationships
• Discovering the blindspots in her relationship and what she learned
• What can happen if we go too far down the women's empowerment path (or any ONE path!)
• Finding a partner that is doing self-development work (and why it might not matter!)
• Some advice if you are struggling with dating or your relationship
• And more!

Connect with Claudia:

Join her Facebook group "The Luxury Love Lounge": https://www.facebook.com/groups/magnetizeyourman

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/claudia_lucida/

Website: https://www.lucid-angel.com/

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

This is the moment you were born for, sisters! Time for you to tap into your deepest desires, remove the barriers in your way, and birth your next chapter. In today's episode, we invite our dear friend and Purpose Girl, Carin Rockind, to share her beautiful journey as a bad bitch CEO, new mama, and empowerment goddess. We discuss how she turned her pain into purpose and how you can have it all (with help, of course!) and experience the full range of your womanhood - the crying, screaming, celebrating, beauty of it all.

We dive into:

• Carin's POWERFUL journey to following her deep desire to empower women
• Acknowledging her desire to be a mom & her 5-year fertility struggle
• Getting "cancelled" and how to move through it
• Why having expanders in your sisterhood circle is SO powerful
• Carin's motherhood journey so far - and how she is balancing being a bad bitch CEO
• And more!

Connect with Carin:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/carinrockind/

Website: https://carinrockind.com/

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

Desire on Fire is celebrating hitting a million dollars in revenue for 2021! Look at how much is possible when women tune into their desire and work to heal their wounds and trauma around money, sex & pleasure! In today's episode, we are sharing the lessons, portals & resistance that came up and how we are holding the frequency and abundance of reaching this 7-figure milestone. Tune in for the celebration, growth & gratitude - we are so thankful that you're here!

We dive into:

• The journey to a million dollars for Desire on Fire - the resistance & expansion it took to get there!
• Aimee's original desire around hitting this goal (and how she was powerfully seen in this vision before it was even clear to her!)
• How Aimee went from posting a secret desire in January 2021 to actually manifesting it!
• Leader care and why it is vital to becoming the vessels we need to be for the women in our containers
• The resistance that comes up for Ellie before our retreats (and how we work through it!)
• Ellie's powerful lesson in surrender during our recent retreat
• And so much more!

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

This week we are diving into part 2 of the juicy conversation with Rinsha Ballani all about learning to trust yourself and your desires! We go deep into working through the resistance to her transformation, building the fortitude to trust herself and listen to her inner voice, and how she ultimately blew up her life to follow her truest desires.

We dive into:

• Why after expansion there is typically a period of contraction (and what this can look like)
• What happened when Rinsha took the first step to blowing shit up and put in her 2-week notice
• Listening to her inner voice and ending her relationship (and what happened when her partner expressed the interest to change)
• Rinsha's cross-country drive to L.A. to start a new life (and the resistance she felt along the way)
• And so much more!

Connect with Rinsha:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rinshaballani/

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

Do you crave a new path or transformation in your life, but feel a lot of resistance to it? If so, you have something in common with today's guest! This week we dive into part 1 of a powerful conversation with our beautiful friend and project manager, Rinsha Ballani. We get into her initiation to feminine embodied work, acknowledging that transformation doesn't come all at once, and realizing that the bigger the desire - the bigger the resistance!

We dive into:

• The catalyst that led her on the path to feminine embodiment work
• Why she ghosted us after she signed up for a program (and what happened afterward!)
• One of the BIGGEST things Rinsha has learned from doing this work
• Acknowledging her "good girl" conditioning
• Realizing a dream at a Desire on Fire retreat (and what happened when she got back home)
• And more!

Connect with Rinsha:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rinshaballani/

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

We are getting into a taboo topic today (surprise, surprise!) and it's one that has a lot of fear and charge around it - money! In today's episode, Jenna Black, energetic wealth & embodiment mentor, dives deep with us into wealth consciousness, empowering women to live abundantly, and the connection between wealth, abundance, jealousy, AND our sensuality. Let's dive in for a deeper conversation around money - with the Abundance Queen!

We dive into:

• A deeper conversation around money, abundance & jealousy, and its connection to our sexuality & sensuality!
• How burnout led to Jenna's spiritual awakening and a reclaiming of her body and health
• The roots of money wounding & scarcity and embracing an attitude of approval
• High sensation topics like money and how to identify and expand our capacity for these feelings in the body
• The connection between emotionality and scarcity/abundance
• Why jealousy can be such a POWERFUL tool for desire
• Some of Jenna's favorite tips for dropping into safety around money
• And so much more juiciness!

Connect with Jenna:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennablack.co/

Website: https://jennablack.co/

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

It's no secret that masculinity gets a lot of criticism in our culture. So, this week we are getting into it and discussing one of our favorite things - men! In today's episode, we invite coach, counselor, and founder of Evolving Man, Ben Goresky, to share his wisdom on masculinity, vulnerability, and his mission in the world. We dive deep into what it really means to look inward for answers, finding your mission and not getting distracted from it (like his mission to make men's work as common as yoga!), and the powerful change that men's work can bring to relationships and the world.

We dive into:

• Why we are seeing such a hunger for men's work right now
• The impact of men's work on Ben's life and relationships
• Why Ben ignored the disconnection between his head, heart & genitals - and what came from it
• Finding a healthy relationship to anger (and how this relates to boundaries)
• How dominant and submissive energies play out in Ben's relationship with his partner
• The policing of social media - and how it has affected his online presence
• Some insight if you wish your man would get involved in self-development work
• And more!

Connect with Ben:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/evolvingman/

Website: https://evolvingman.com/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/evolvingman

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

Do you crave more connection, more business success, or a more fulfilling sex life? You can create ANYTHING you want if you are in touch with your desire. In today's episode, incredible coach and teacher, Cailin McDuff, shares all about her powerful journey to connecting to her desire and living a life on fire. We get deep into what it takes to fully claim who you are, and why connecting to yourself in times of transition (especially when you hit rock bottom!) can reveal your truest and most authentic self.

We dive into:

• How a question about sex and consequences had Cailin realizing how tender her sexuality was (and the transformation that came afterward!)
• The layers of shame she had to shed around her sex (and how she got to 32 years old without an orgasm!)
• Receiving a multiple sclerosis diagnosis and choosing connection to herself during times of transition
• The powerful gateway that allowed Cailin to step into her feminine (and how this goalless practice could help you do the same!)
• Discovering her bisexuality and exploring polyamory and BDSM
• Why she is so grateful for getting called out on her unhealthy patterns with men (and the changes that came after!)
• Uncoupling our worth from how much money we make
• And more!

Our favorite resources to learn more about BDSM:

https://omrupani.org/

https://www.amazon.com/Prerequisites-Ecstasy-No-Nonsense-Really-Create-ebook/dp/B072SV468H

Connect with Cailin:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cailinmcduff/

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

Imagine planning your wedding by taking the most direct path to your desires. What would that look like for you? What would it feel like? When you're really on the path and following your desire - planning a wedding doesn't have to feel stressful or tight. In today's episode, I invite author & women's empowerment coach, Stacy Trujeque, and women's leadership & business mentor, Victoria C. Lützhøft, to talk all things weddings and marriage! We discuss each of our wedding journeys (including cancellations and surprise pregnancies!) and how to become the woman who can have the wedding you truly desire.

We dive into:

• How to plan a wedding from desire - and the growth that can be found here!
• The juicy BTS of planning our weddings (pregnancies, cancellations, and so many "shoulds"!)
• Why your partner may have resistance toward your big desires - and what to do about it
• What it really means when you start negotiating with your desires
• The concept of "nothing extra" and how to use it to plan the wedding of YOUR dreams!
• And more!

Connect with Stacy:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stacydoreen/

& https://www.instagram.com/theexaltedwoman/

Connect with Victoria:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_mamavic_/

The Revolutionary Woman, a beyond business next level leadership mastermind: https://www.wellcuratedwellness.com/therevolutionarywoman

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Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie