Ep 104 // Dismantling Idols and Finding Your Voice in Marriage and Motherhood: Wisdom with Shayla Huber

Join us as Shayla Huber shares her powerful testimony about finding freedom in her identity and within her marriage through God's transformative love.

Shayla, an author, rodeo wife, and mother from a picturesque farm life in Iowa, brings valuable insights from her journey to discovering her true identity in Christ. She passionately helps women embrace their God-given purpose in marriages and families. With her book titled "10 Things I Hate About My Husband," Shayla offers a compelling exploration into relationships, healing, and spiritual growth, all inspired by divine moments she experienced firsthand.

Dive deep into an open and candid discussion about wounds, idols, and love, and discover how uncovering one's identity as a child of God can lead to a life of trust and transformation.

Here's what you can look forward to in this episode:

• Shayla's Journey: Hear about Shayla's transformative experience as she stepped out of an orphan spirit mindset and embraced her true identity as a daughter of God.
• Marriage Insights: With candor and grace, Shayla discusses the challenges she faced in her marriage, revealing the pivotal moment where she realized that her husband couldn't be her savior—only God could fulfill that role.
• Parenting Wisdom: Get deep insights into how Shayla applies her personal growth in her parenting journey, emphasizing emotional intelligence and pointing her children to Jesus as the ultimate guide.
• Overcoming Idols: Learn about the subtle idols that can take root in everyday life, from money to personal success, and how Shayla found freedom in surrendering these to God.

Reflection/Discussion Questions:

• Shayla Huber discusses her experience growing up as a child of divorce. How did these early experiences impact her understanding of God and her identity?
• Shayla and Megan talk about the concept of the 'orphan spirit.' How does they define this, and how did recognizing it help them in their personal and spiritual growth?
• Shayla and Megan explain the idea of using one's true voice versus a counterfeit voice. How do they differentiate between the two, and what role did this understanding play in marriage, mothering, etc?

Quotable Quotes:

"Jesus is the only one who can love us perfectly on this side of heaven. Not even a parent can love you perfectly and a spouse can't love you perfectly."

"If other people in my life were in pain, I would start to think it was my fault."

"If you want to be free and fully alive and used as my vessel, you have to give me your pain and we have to process it together and really heal."

Connect with Shayla Huber:

Website: shaylamariehuber.com

TikTok: shaylahuber30

Instagram: @shaylamariehuber

Facebook: Shayla Marie Huber

Connect with Megan Nilsen:

Website:meganbnilsen.com(learn about coaching, books, speaking all in one place!)

Instagram:@megan_nilsen

YouTube:@MeganBNilsen

Facebook:@MeganNilsenKingdomLifeCoach

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LinkedIn:Megan Nilsen

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Megan is a Kingdom clarity coach, author, and speaker who helps God’s people move past CONFUSION and gain CLARITY. To align with God’s voice and get activated into their divine destiny! Join her to have conversations on reframing life, love, and calling to live the life God has so purposefully created for you.

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Extra Resources from Megan/Books:

Untangled Faith book/journal study→ Check out this 10-week guide to learn how to hear God’s voice and cultivate open communication with Him for deeper revelation! →untangledfaithstudy.com

Untangled FaithBook//Untangled Faith: How Honest Conversations with God Lead to Deeper Connections, Clarity, and Peace and companion journal (*available on Amazon)

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