Ep 121 // Divorce, Disappointment, and the Deep Work of God: A Redemption Story with David Smith

In this vulnerable and redemptive conversation, Megan Nilsen welcomes David Smith—pastor, coach, and founder of Kingdom Coaching Institute—to share his powerful journey through ministry, heartbreak, and healing.

David opens up about the disorienting experience of divorce while planting a church, the dismantling of ministry as an idol, and how God used it all to bring him into deeper freedom and purpose. From charismatic roots to construction sites, from shattered dreams to Spirit-filled calling, David's story is a testament to God’s grace in the rubble.

If you’ve ever felt like your story disqualifies you—this episode will remind you: God wastes nothing - especially not your pain.

Memorable Quotes:

"I didn’t want my pain to be wasted. I asked God to use it for His glory—and He did."

"Ministry had become an idol. God had to dismantle that so I could just walk with Him."

"Divorce is not the unpardonable sin. God is a redeemer. He doesn’t waste anything we surrender."

"There’s a being call and a doing call. Your purpose is about becoming before doing."

"God said to me, ‘If you give this to Me, I’ll turn it into something of gold.’ And He did."

Reflection + Journaling Questions:

1. Am I trying to run from my pain, or inviting God into it to do His deep work?
2. Where have I built identity on roles or performance rather than God’s love?
3. What “ministry motivations” might need to be surrendered?
4. How might God be using my current hardship to shape something new in me?

Connect with David Smith:

• Kingdom Coaching Institute (coach training & certification): kingdomcoachinginstitute.com
• Master Builder Coaching (personal coaching): masterbuildercoaching.com
• Instagram: Team Kingdom Coaching Institute
• Facebook Page: Master Builder Coaching

Connect with Megan Nilsen:

Connect with Megan:

• Instagram: @megan_nilsen
• Facebook: @megannilsenkingdomlifecoach
• Email: [email protected]
• Website: https://meganbnilsen.com/
• Ready to explore the desires of your heart and see what God has for you in the next season? Schedule a FREE discovery call to discuss what Kingdom Life Coaching could UNLOCK for you!

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