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- S2 Ep 8: Dating as a Therapist
In this exciting (and slightly jaw-dropping) episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to date as a therapist. From the struggle of turning off our “therapist brain,” to the expectations we bring with us into relationships, to debunking the biggest myths about dating a therapist—we’re getting into all of it. Plus, you might hear a few firsthand stories from people who’ve dated us. Trust us… You don’t want to miss this one.
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Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola
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56 min - S2 Ep 7: Common Controlling Behaviors ft. Dustin Barnes
In this powerful episode, we’re joined by the one and only Dustin Barnes, Founder and Lead Clinical Social Worker of Dustin Barnes Therapy. Together, we unpack common controlling behaviors that often appear in our relationship dynamics—sometimes subtly, sometimes overtly. We dive into how to identify early warning signs, understand the impact of these behaviors, and explore practical ways to manage and shift our patterns if we recognize them within ourselves. It’s an honest and necessary conversation about accountability, awareness, and building healthier connections.
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Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola
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44 min - S2 Ep 6: Do We Give People Space to Grow—With or Without Us?
Sometimes, relationships shift, and growing apart can be one of the hardest changes to face. In this episode, we explore the subtle (and not-so-subtle) signs that a relationship may have run its course. We also dive into how to hold space for someone’s evolution while still honoring your own boundaries and emotional well-being. It’s about change, acceptance, and learning when to release with love.
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51 min - S2 Ep 5: Why Do People Avoid Therapy ft. Funmto Ogunbanwo
In this exciting episode, we welcome our first guest to the Do We Have Your Attention? space—the incredible Funmto Ogunbanwo, founder and lead Clinical Mental Health Therapist at Ibi Ayo Therapy and Wellness Limited. Together, we unpack some of the most common myths about therapy, explore why people often avoid seeking support and share practical steps for navigating therapy—whether for yourself or when supporting a loved one. It’s an honest, empowering conversation about mental wellness, community care, and normalizing the journey toward healing.
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Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola
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51 min - S2 Ep 4: Is Closure Overrated?
In this episode, we're unpacking the ever-elusive concept of closure, especially in the context of relationships. Do we need it to move on, or is it overrated? We explore the different ways people seek and experience closure, challenge common beliefs around it, and reflect on whether healing always requires a final conversation. Tune in as we dive into the gray area between letting go and needing answers.
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44 min - S2 Ep.3: Communication Differences Between Generations
Why do communication clashes between generations seem so recurring—and so hard to resolve? In this episode, we dig into the root causes of generational conflict and the biggest barriers to meaningful connections across age groups. From unspoken expectations to shifting cultural norms, we explore what’s getting in the way—and how we can begin to bridge the communication gap with empathy, curiosity, and intention.
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45 min - S2 Ep.2: Why Do We Struggle With Giving Ourselves Compassion?
Why is it so hard to show ourselves the same grace, kindness, and respect we freely give to others? In this episode, we explore the deep-rooted reasons behind our struggle with self-compassion. We unpack how our upbringing and early conditioning shape the way we prioritize our wellness—and often, how they hinder our ability to treat ourselves with care. Tune in as we reflect on what it means to extend compassion inward and begin rewriting those internal narratives.
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51 min - S2 Ep.1: Do You Want To Be Right or Do You Want To Be Happy?
Welcome back to Do We Have Your Attention? for the premiere of Season 2! In this episode, we're diving into a topic that hits close to home: why do we often prioritize being right over being happy? We explore what happiness truly means, how ego can cloud our decision-making, and the inner tug-of-war between holding firm to our boundaries and learning when to let go. Tune in as we unpack the balance between self-protection and emotional freedom.
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Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola
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48 min - Ep 16 - The Many Faces of Existential Burnout
In this episode, we discuss the impact of existential burnout and the factors contributing to someone feeling existential burnout. From careers, relationships, and even ourselves, we identify helpful strategies that can be considered when navigating our lives better
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47 min - Ep.15 - What Happens With Our Unresolved Trauma?
In this episode, we explore the true meaning of unresolved trauma while attempting to understand how it affects our mental health and emotional well-being. From our personal to professional experiences, we identify coping mechanisms and tools for managing unresolved trauma.
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Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola
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About Do We Have Your Attention
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Get ready for unfiltered discussions with Paula Bamgbose-Martins and Aisha Popoola, two cultural hybrid licensed mental health therapists, on a mission to dive deep into the topics that touch us…
all as humans. Here, we invite you to join our candid, heartfelt conversations on mental, emotional, and physical health, as well as the shared challenges we face in this journey called life. This is the podcast where we ask, 'Do we Have Your Attention?' as we explore what connects us all.