Do We Have Your Attention

Do We Have Your Attention

By Paula.B.Martins & Aisha PopoolaHealth & FitnessMental Health
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Do We Have Your Attention episodes

  • Ep.14 - The Psychology of People Pleasing

    In this episode, we examine the habit of people-pleasing and its common root causes. We also discuss the short-term and long-term consequences of prioritizing others over one’s well-being. 


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    45 min
  • Ep.13 - The Impact of Parental Trauma on Our Mental Health

    In this episode, we discuss “parental trauma” from understanding how it manifests to identifying common behavioral patterns we might inherit from parents who have unresolved trauma. Our goal is to highlight ways in which we can approach conversations with our parents to encourage healing 


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    46 min
  • Ep.12 - Understanding Forgiveness

    In this episode, we discuss the impact of forgiveness and the lack of forgiveness in our daily functioning. By examining some of the myths around forgiveness, we identify practical steps that can be helpful for those who may struggle with forgiveness. 


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    47 min
  • Ep.11 - Cognitive Mind Traps

    In this episode, we discuss common distorted thinking patterns, also known as “cognitive mind traps”. From personalization to jumping to conclusions to overgeneralization and filtering. We examine the various ways in which they influence our quality of life and identify ways in which we can address these mind traps.  


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    44 min
  • Ep.10 - Vulnerability: A sign of courage or weakness?

    In this episode, we examine the importance of vulnerability in our overall well-being and the well-being of our relationships. We discuss what it means to be courageous in showing vulnerability and the impact of societal pressure on our willingness to be vulnerable. 

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    41 min
  • Ep.9 - Conflict in Relationships

    In this episode, we attempt to understand conflict better through the lens of the 5 most common conflict styles, such as competing, collaboration, compromising, avoidance, and accommodating 


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    43 min
  • Ep.8 - Why Consistency is Important

    In this episode, we share our knowledge of the importance of consistency. Using the three 3C’s confidence, competence, and consistency, we identify how implementing small disciplines on a daily basis can improve one’s mental health and wellbeing 

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    40 min
  • Ep.7 - I Am a Woman and My Health Matters Too

    In this episode, we use our real-life experiences to explore the disparities and disadvantages experienced with healthcare of women from sociocultural factors, underdiagnosis, disbelief, and undertreatment of women’s pain, etc 


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    Host: Paula Bamgbose-Martins & Aisha Popoola 


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    41 min
  • Ep.6 - Do We Attract What We Are

    We ask the question “Do we attract what we are” by exploring the connection between our societal expectations and the types of relationships and opportunities we attract in life. 


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    44 min
  • Ep.5 - Workplace Toxicity

    In this episode, we define workplace toxicity and the impact it has on mental health wellness. Using their individual experiences Aisha and Paula identify ways in which we can strengthen our mental health regardless of our work environments 


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    50 min

About Do We Have Your Attention

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Get ready for unfiltered discussions with Paula Bamgbose-Martins and Aisha Popoola, two cultural hybrid licensed mental health therapists, on a mission to dive deep into the topics that touch us…