Gemma and Seraphyna explore the intoxicating depths of psychological edge play—where fear is fabricated, confusion is a crucible, and desire and dread might be the same thing. Unlike some BDSM and FemDom play, psychological edge play goes beyond control or power. It’s about penetrating the submissive’s deepest sense of self, reframing the ego, and challenging core assumptions.

Together, the hosts explore shadow play, fear play, and mindfuckery as tools a Dominatrix wields to expand limits of trust and identity. From evoking genuine terror to questioning reality, psychological edge play walks the razor’s edge between the conscious and subconscious. And the reward for those who face it? Catharsis. Liberation. Self-revelation. A bond forged in radical trust.

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00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast

00:25 – What is psychological edge play?

06:40 – What is subspace?

10:20 – Is psychological edge play linked to trauma?

18:40 – Types of psychological edge play

24:10 – How male subs mindfuck themselves

27:00 – Story time: psychological edge play

31:32 – Outro

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast

00:25 – A new perspective: Gemma’s pup

03:38 – What makes humiliation enticing

06:26 – How psychological and physical intensity differ

10:20 – Total power exchange

13:30 – Protocols and rituals in the dynamic

15:17 – CNC: monitoring, tracking, financial control

18:49 – How Gemma makes pups better

20:49 – Pups’ motivations for serving Gemma

23:19 – How submission and motivation are related

26:00 – The hardest part of serving Gemma

29:47 – Advice for subs looking for lifestyle D/s dynamic

34:00 – How was trust built in their dynamic

37:14 – How the dynamic contributes to pups’ life

38:33 – What’s the most fulfilling part for Gemma

40:50 – Has pups ever questioned their dynamic

42:38 – Outro

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CHAPTERS: 

00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast

00:25 – Sex work and the world

01:32 – What is sex work?

02:22 – The legal frameworks of sex work

08:00 – SESTA/FOSTA: US law and adult content

10:02 – Oklahoma’s proposed ban on porn

11:06 – The executive order on gender

12:46 – Back to the past: Legalizing discrimination

14:44 – How laws decide the legality of BDSM practices

16:04 – International models: Belgium and NZ

16:50 – International models: Germany, Switzerland, UK

19:03 – The Nordic Model: Norway, Sweden, Ireland

21:22 – How tech and AI can make sex work unsafe

23:01 – Digital safety and privacy in sex work

28:28 – Outro

In this episode, Gemma and Seraphyna explore the sacred intersections of religion and BDSM—two worlds steeped in ritual, hierarchy, and worship. A FemDom scene becomes a holy ceremony. The Dominatrix, a living deity. The submissive, a devoted disciple. And laid bare at St. Andrew’s cross, every moan is a prayer.

Through these parallels, the hosts reflect on their religious pasts and how early frameworks of faith, guilt, and omnipresence shaped their practices in power exchange. Together, they unpack how intentional power can transform shame into liberation.

But like any true faith, submission demands more than lip service. Salvation requires confession, surrender, and unwavering devotion. So—are you ready to kneel and confess?

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast

00:25 – Childhood experiences with religion

05:05 – Parallels from God and Domme to religious law and protocol

06:45 – How D/s dynamics deconstruct purity to explore the taboo

08:53 – Unity and devotion between a Domme and sub

12:35 – How confession and accountability surface in kink

14:43 – Gender and power in religion: Nuns and drill sergeants

20:37 – How Gemma rediscovered her power in the feminine

22:22 – Must a submissive man give up his masculinity?

24:23 – How the spiritual reinvented Seraphyna

25:54 – Gemma’s ideal devotion to her divine feminine

28:00 – Are Dommes allowed to feel? How care and affection surface

32:40 – Outro

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CHAPTERS: 

00:00 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast

00:25 – Fantasies and styles of dominating

06:36 – Early signs of dominance and understanding the submissive mind

12:06 – Gemma’s first fantasy of dominance

15:50– How Seraphyna became Goddess: Religious explorations

19:10 – Tiptoeing the edge, Gemma’s ultimate fantasy

20:50 – Kink empathy and shared experience

24:50 – How submission and service continue outside a scene

26:35 – What are Domspace and subspace?

29:35 – The breadth of human experience

31:57 – Bondage as a symbol of surrender

32:50 – How immobilization can free you

36:20 – A public humiliation fantasy

This episode Gemma and Seraphyna unravel the provocative, often overlooked history of Femdom and BDSM. From an ancient goddess to today’s online Dominatrix, the story of female dominance is not one without challenges. It’s a tale of cunning intellect, deep understanding of humanity, and a craving for unabashed acceptance. Whether humiliating an ancient Greek philosopher or winning a landmark Supreme Court case after wrongful incarceration, women have carved their space—and fiercely defended it. These victories aren’t free. They demand sacrifice. And this is only the beginning.

As Gemma and Seraphyna recap the evolution of the kink scene, they’ll reveal its undeniable grip on pop culture. Be it film, fashion, or music, kink commands attention. It's impossible to look away.

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CHAPTERS: 

00:00 – Episode teaser

00:09 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast

00:35 – The earliest record of female dominance

07:15 – A famous Greek philosopher is humiliated by a woman

11:12 – How a horse made a Dominatrix famous

15:05 – How a provider was incarcerated and won at the Supreme Court

17:36 – The kink scene of the 80s and 90s

18:43 – What’s Club Kid and how did it influence fashion decades later

23:21 – What makes the modern kink scene different from other eras

27:23 – The challenges BDSM practitioners and providers face today

28:05 – Balancing risk and expression through sharing kink

29:35 – Is kink sexual or intellectual?

31:45 – Outro

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Episode teaser, Seraphyna’s first Domme experience

00:44 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast

01:10 – An Interview with Seraphyna

02:12 – What excites her most as a new Domme

03:55 – The cute little monster with a really big shadow

05:08 – What is one’s darkness and is it bad?

06:19 – The origin of the accidental Dominatrix

10:54 – Is a Dominatrix born or made?

12:17 – The kind of submissives Seraphyna seeks

14:39 – What Seraphyna hopes to learn as a pro Dominatrix

15:54 – Societal pressures in Seraphyna’s life

17:50 – Grappling with expression, perception, and authenticity

19:33 – An encounter with light pink polka dots

21:56 – Dominance: Is it masculine or feminine?

23:57 – Is kink born from trauma?

30:05 – Finding the inner child

31:07 – What kink surprised Seraphyna

35:50 – Outro

This episode of DOMMED, Seraphyna interviews internationally acclaimed Dominatrix Mistress Gemma Li. From stories of consensual BDSM edge play and psychological surrender to a submissive's most vulnerable confession, see how Gemma wields her enchanting style of new-age Femdom to challenge misconceptions. Her practice isn't rooted in pain or degradation. It's vulnerability. Trust. Surrender. Transformation.

Hear the traits that define a good sub, and learn how Gemma embodies power—not just to break, but to rebuild—uncovering whispered shames and awakening self-discovery. This is not performance. It’s psychology, intimacy, and truth—laid bare.

This is BDSM with depth.

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 – Episode teaser, making a sub cry

00:50 – Welcome to DOMMED Podcast

01:15 – Interview introduction

02:25 – Misconceptions of being a Domme

04:40 – Building connection with a sub

07:45 – Can a submissive be masculine?

09:43 – What makes the perfect submissive?

13:11 – Gemma’s style of new-age femdom

18:09 – Meaningful, vulnerable moments in D/s

20:37 – Favorite gestures in a D/s dynamic

22:40 – Gemma’s edge play stories

29:10 – A surprisingly enjoyable kink

32:16 – Outro

Step inside the world of BDSM, FemDom, and power exchange with the premiere episode of DOMMED—a podcast hosted by professional Dominatrices and lifestyle kinksters Mistress Gemma Li and Goddess Seraphyna.

In this debut, your hosts share how DOMMED was born, reveal their personal journeys into kink and domination, and set the stage for future episodes that blend real-life D/s experiences, kink psychology, and societal perspectives on FemDom. You'll get a taste of what’s to come: unfiltered conversations about submission, taboo desire, BDSM myths, and the complexity of conscious power dynamics.

Whether you’re a seasoned or curious kinkster, or just craving depth beyond the mainstream, this is your invitation to witness kink through a radically honest, nuanced lens.

Are you ready to be DOMMED?

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 -  Welcome to DOMMED

00:25 - Meet your hosts

02:25 - How DOMMED began

07:53 - Seraphyna's start as a Domme

09:59 - How Gemma became a pro-Dominatrix

12:36 - Outro