Don't Blame The Mom

Don't Blame The Mom

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  • Ep182 : Terrorised To Death? - The Tragic Case Of Mica Miller

    30 year old Mica Miller & her husband John Paul who was the local pastor of their church in South Carolina, had separated in 2024. 


    But sadly for Mica this parting of ways was anything but amicable. Infact she would allegedly be subjected to months of harassment as she was hounded & tormented by her estranged husband.


    So much so that her family believe she was driven to the point of desperation & after living in fear of the daily threats she took her own life.


    Videos of John Paul's strange manner whilst announcing her death in church soon leaked out to the media. Along with shocking details of the abuse & threats he subjected Mica to in the lead up to her death.


    Many in the community were shocked to learn that a pastor of seemingly good faith on the surface had been tracking & threatening Mica to the point where she was terrified he would kill her.


    John Paul has been charged with cyber stalking & making false statements & his trial is fast approaching. 


    Whatever the outcome, Mica's case about the tragic death of such a bright young woman continues to shine a light on some very important questions.


    Questions that like in many abusive relationships, have been lost in a grey area for far too long. 


    How far can one be pushed & terrorised by a partner until they finally crack under the pressure? 


    How long can one be tormented by a coercively controlling ex before they feel the only way to escape the fear is to take their own life?


    And at what point does one become culpable in the death of another through their abusive actions , even if they did not pull the trigger themselves ? 



    This is episode 182 : Terrorised To Death? 

    The Tragic Case Of Mica Miller


    Crime Talk Time Stamp: 9 mins 56 seconds


    Sources: Komonews / Court TV / Independent.co.uk / WMBF News / WBTW.com / Unilad / BBC News / the Sun / Rayo / Justice.gov / WDBJ7.com / Newsnation.com / Time / People

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    1 hr 36 min
  • Ep181 (2/2) A House of Horrors- The Wicked Crimes Of Michelle Knotek

    Michelle Knotek systematically tortured & murdered two people who lived at her farmhouse in Raymond, Washington between 1994 & 2003.

    She is also believed to have ordered the murder of her 17 year old nephew Shane who was killed by her husband David during that time.

    But her shocking crimes don't end there as this evil matriarch known as 'Shelly' is also the suspect in at least one other death, bringing the total of lives lost at her hands to four.


    From the outside, she looked like the very definition of kindness & compassion however in reality this was far from the case ....


    Because behind the doors of their home a very different, far more deadly kind of reality existed. At the centre of it all was Shelly whose carefully crafted warm persona could vanish in an instant. 


    Thus revealing a woman who was manipulative, extremely sadistic & capable of extraordinary cruelty to all around her. The depths of depravity her torture methods went to go beyond even the scenes of a horror film .


    The people she claimed to love would become trapped in her twisted web & before they had time to escape would be subjected to a nightmare of psychological & extreme physical abuse, systematic prolonged torture, & ultimately, murder......


    Her sadistic crimes were only uncovered in 2003 thanks to her brave daughters finally breaking away from their evil mothers control & exposing the four deaths that she & David were responsible for to the world .......


    This is episode 181: (2/2) A House of Horrors - The Wicked Crimes of Michelle Knotek Part 2


    **Crime Talk Time Stamp: 8 mins 21 seconds


    Sources: Book - If You Tell by Gregg Olsen / Wicked Attraction Season 3 ep2 / All that's interesting / Wikipedia / New York Post / 

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    1 hr 18 min
  • Ep180 (1/2): A House of Horrors - The Wicked Crimes Of Michelle Knotek

    To the outside world, the Knotek family who lived in a rural farmhouse in Raymond, Washington, appeared to have it all.

    The charming matriarch Michelle 'Shelly' was always willing to open up their home to those in need & her husband David was also more than happy to oblige.


    Not only did they welcome in their teenage nephew Shane when his family could not care for him. But also friends & acquaintances facing difficult times could find refuge there too.


    From the outside, Shelly looked like the very definition of kindness & compassion however in reality this was far from the case ....


    Because behind the doors of their home a very different, far more deadly kind of reality existed. At the centre of it all was Shelly whose carefully crafted warm persona could vanish in an instant.


    Thus revealing a woman who was manipulative, extremely sadistic & capable of extraordinary cruelty to all around her. The depths of depravity her torture methods went to go beyond even the scenes of a horror film .


    The people she claimed to love would become trapped in her twisted web & before they had time to escape would be subjected to a nightmare of psychological & extreme physical abuse, systematic prolonged torture, & ultimately, murder......


    Her twisted crimes were only uncovered in 2003 thanks to her brave daughters finally breaking away from their evil mothers control & exposing the four deaths that she & David were responsible for to the world .......


    This is episode 180: (1/2) A House of Horrors - The Wicked Crimes of Michelle Knotek 


    **Crime Talk Time Stamp: 9 minutes 20 seconds


    Sources: Book - If You Tell by Gregg Olsen / Wicked Attraction Season 3 ep2 / All that's interesting / Wikipedia / New York Post /

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    1 hr 17 min
  • Ep179: The Survival of Jennifer Holliday & Murder of Ana Franklin

    What started as a typical drive in March 2005 for cousins 18 year old Ana Franklin & 27 year old Jennifer Holliday, quickly deteriorated into a terrifying ordeal .


    As they realise their car is being followed by a mad man in Lufkin, East Texas, their attempts to get away from him fail, leaving Jennifer doing everything she can to escape with her life .


    Thanks to her astounding bravery & ferocious will to survive she managed to manipulate killer Eric Parnell's erratic behaviour to her own advantage . 


    Jennifers story highlights that even in the darkest of moments you can sometimes discover your biggest strengths...


    She is not just a brave woman whose capacity to stay calm when faced with evil allowed her to navigate her way through a nightmarish ordeal. 


    But she is also an incredibly resilient woman who refused to give up & so she lived to tell her story ...


    The case you are about to hear shows how Jennifer became an inspiration to many & a voice for all those who have survived the unimaginable .But also a voice for those who didn't get another chance at life


    Jennifer's story is proof that if sometimes you can draw strength you didn't know you had- even in the most dire of situations . 


    She somehow did just that ,and lived to share her experience & educate us all on the realities of getting through a real life nightmare ...


    This is episode 179: The Survival Of Jennifer Holliday & Murder Of Ana Franklin  



    **Crime Talk Time Stamp: 8 minutes 30 seconds



    Blurredbylines.com/ I Survived Tv Series / was/ darkdialoguenetwork.com/ Wikipedia/ ktre.com/ 

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    1 hr 6 min
  • Ep178 (2/2): The Rise & Demise of Lost Prophets Frontman Ian Watkins


    He rose to fame as the frontman of the band 'Lost Prophets' & at the height of his career Ian Watkins was one of the biggest names in British rock music.


    By 2006 he had sold millions of albums & built a devoted fanbase. He was literally the image of a successful rock star & some might say he was living the dream.


    But actually behind the celebrity facade was one of Britain's most depraved child sex offenders.


    His wicked crimes against children lead to his epic downfall.


    He received a 28 year prison sentence as he was revealed as one of the most predatory paedofiles in modern British history.

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    However Watkins would never leave prison alive after he was murdered by 3 inmates in his cell in 2025.


    Todays case shines a light on how child predators often become prime targets themselves in prison.


    And the interesting reaction from the public when prolific paedofiles are targeted & killed behind bars.


    Because Watkins was one of several infamous inmates murdered in the UK prison system in the past two years.


    This is episode 177: The Rise & Demise of Lost Prophets Frontman Ian Watkins Part 2


    **Crime Talk Time Stamp: 13 mins 50 seconds



    sources: Www.judiciary.uk/  www.bbc.co.uk / Wikipedia/ westyorkshire.police.co.uk/ www.sciencedirect.com/ www.skynews.com/

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    56 min
  • Ep177 (1/2) The Rise & Demise Of Lost Prophets Frontman Ian Watkins

    For years Ian Watkins was one of the biggest names in British rock music. As the charismatic frontman of the band 'Lost Prophets' by 2006 he sold millions of albums, topped the charts, toured the world, & built a devoted fanbase.

    To the public he was the ultimate image of a successful rock star—famous, wealthy, & seemingly living the dream.

    But behind that carefully crafted image was a secret so horrifying it would shock not only his fans, but the entire music industry.

    Hidden beneath the celebrity facade was one of Britain's most depraved child sex offenders.

    A man whose crimes against children & babies would eventually lead to his epic downfall.

    Exposing one of the most infamous criminal cases & one of the most predatory paedofiles in modern British history....

    This is ep177: The Rise & Demise of Lost Prophets Frontman Ian Watkins.


    **Crime Talk Time Stamp: 9 mins 10 seconds



    Sources: Guardian / Last.fm / Vice.com / IMDB / www.judiciary.uk/  www.bbc.co.uk / Wikipedia/ westyorkshire.police.co.uk/ 

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    1 hr 3 min
  • Ep176: Don't Look Inside- The Disappearance Of Denise Huber

    23 year old Denise Huber had enjoyed a fun night out with a friend as they attended a Morrissey concert on 3rd June 1991 in Inglewood, California.


    When it was time to head home in the early hours of the morning she got into her car & set off on a familiar route driving towards her family home in Newport Beach. 


    After this Denise simply vanished.


    For 3 long years her heartbroken family would move heaven & earth to search for her & to raise awareness of her disappearance, refusing to give up hope that she would one day be found alive.


    But months turned into years with no answers until one day a random 911 call from a curious couple in Arizona led police to an address. 


    Little did they know what had started as a standard call out would end up cracking this cold case wide open revealing the dark, secrets of a dangerous predator.


    A twisted man who had been determined to keep what he saw as his trophy.


    And the horrific truth of what had become of Denise Huber 3 years before would finally come to light...


    This is episode 176: Don't Look Inside- The Disappearance Of Denise Huber


    **Crime Talk Time Stamp: 12 mins 07 seconds


    Sources: Documentary - Denise Huber - Death of the Party Series 1 Episode 1 / Medium / Findagrave.com/ oxygen.com/  vocal.media/ Murderpedia.org/ LA Times articles /

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    1 hr 14 min
  • Ep175 (2/2): The Maritime Murders - The Shocking Case of Chris Farmer and Peta Frampton

    British couple 25 year old Christopher Farmer & 24 year old Peta Frampton were brutally attacked & forced to endure a terrifying 36 hour ordeal in the middle of the ocean during their travels around the world .

    After setting sail with an American man Silas Duane Boston & his two young boys in 1978 on his boat from Belize, it should have been the adventure of a lifetime. Instead they suddenly vanished without a trace.

    For years, their families were left with unanswered questions, forced to imagine what might have happened out on the open sea. The truth, when it finally emerged, was more horrifying than anyone could have imagined.

    This is a heart breaking story of violence, betrayal, & an unwavering determination to discover the truth.

    In this concluding episode, we explore the murders of Christopher & Peta, the horrifying circumstances surrounding their disappearance, & the investigation that spanned decades & continents.

    Through an unbelievable tragedy what prevailed was the strength of those left behind who refused to let their loved ones be forgotten.

    Instead they fought a long quest for justice for the two bright, young, innocent victims who had so much to offer the world before their lives were so brutally taken.....

    This is episode 175: The Maritime Murders - The Shocking Case of Christopher Farmer & Peta Frampton.


    **Crime Talk Time Stamp: 8 mins 05 seconds



    Sources: Book 'Dead In The Water' Written by Penny Farmer / BBC.co.uk/ Metro / The Sun / Penny Farmer.co.uk / Manchester News /Vault.fbi.gov/ bbc.co.uk/ www.findagrave.com/ manchestereveningnews.co.uk/ justice.gov/ charleyproject.org/ Vince Boston/ Paradise Podcast

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    1 hr 9 min
  • Ep174 (1/2): The Maritime Murders - The Shocking Case of Christopher Farmer and Peta Frampton

    Young British couple 25 year old Christopher Farmer & 24 year old Peta Frampton were travelling the world, embracing the freedom & excitement of a trip that should have been the adventure of a lifetime.


    Instead after setting sail with an American man Silas Duane Boston & his two young boys on his boat from Belize, they suddenly vanished without a trace.

    For years, their families were left with unanswered questions, forced to imagine what might have happened out on the open sea.


    The truth, when it finally emerged, was more horrifying than anyone could have imagined. It is a real story of violence, betrayal, & a decades long search for justice.

    In this episode, we'll explore the lives & untimely deaths of Christopher Farmer & Peta Frampton, the circumstances surrounding their disappearance, the investigation that spanned decades & continents.


    And the unwavering determination of their devastated loved ones who refused to let the story of the bright, young couple who had so much to offer the world ever be forgotten....

    This is episode 174: The Maritime Murders - The Shocking Case of Christopher Farmer & Peta Frampton.


    **Crime Talk Time Stamp: 7 mins 30 seconds


    Sources: Book 'Dead In The Water' Written by Penny Farmer / BBC.co.uk/ Metro / The Sun / Penny Farmer.co.uk / Manchester News /Vault.fbi.gov/ bbc.co.uk/ www.findagrave.com/ manchestereveningnews.co.uk/ justice.gov/ charleyproject.org/ Vince Boston/ Paradise Podcast

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    1 hr 3 min
  • Ep173: Secrets From The Grave- The Murder Of Nicole Van Den Hurk

    When 15 year-old school girl Nicole Van Den Hurk cycled to her holiday job early one morning in October 1995 she had no idea that it would be the last journey she would ever make.


    Nicole's savage sexual assault & murder sparked huge media interest in the Netherlands.


    People weren't used to seeing crimes of this nature in the considerably safe city of Eindhoven & were fearful of another attack.


    Police appealed for information from the public as pressure mounted for them to find her brutal killer .


    Instead the leads dried up & what followed was years of uncertainty for her family, wrongful arrests, shocking false confessions & a murder that remained a cold case for so long many believed it would never be solved .


    Thanks to the love of a family member who refused to let investigators give up, & advancements in DNA technology the exhumation of Nicole's body offered new vital clues & a suspect.


    Some might even say it was almost like Nicole had helped to avenge her own death from beyond the grave....


    This is episode 173: Secrets From The Grave- The Murder Of Nicole Van Den Hurk


    Crime Talk Time Stamp:

    Sources: NL Times / Wikipedia /Ipswich Star / CBS NL / Dutchreview.com / Vocal.media / AD News / Omroepbrabant.nl / Stuff.co.nz / All that's Interesting / Medium /

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    1 hr 7 min

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