Dr. Judy WT"Freud"

In our divided world world, our last battle is within the fight to become more humane. The only, quote, cure to mass disconnection is human connection. Join the human race. Healing Global disconnect. And please heal individually through our healing from narcissistic abuse. Webinar starting November 4th with Christiana Davidson so that we can heal globally.

in a divided world, we cannot afford to be isms. It's important that we come together as a united humanity and use our differences to enrich each other culturally, politically, socioeconomically, economically. War is expensive. Lives cannot be retrieved. Right. And we we have to think of a better way so that we're all flourishing. Because if we're not all flourishing, we're going to perish.

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If you're still in a narcissistic, abusive relationship, look at the secondary gains. Also know that it's very difficult to extricate yourself from a family, especially a family where you have children involved and you have financial deals enmeshed with each other. So sometimes people just cannot break free of this because it's too complicated, it's too emotionally exhausting, and it's it's too traumatic to split up the family.

And so one thing that you could do is psycho educate yourself so that at least you create the correct boundaries and you don't get sucked dry from the system that you're in and that you learn to heal childhood wounds that got you in this hot mess in the first place. So for those of you who are still suffering from narcissistic abuse, check out my new video. Healing from narcissistic abuse. And call 3107394491. So that I could design your personalized plan for healing.

Narcissists like to leave you with their bag of laundry. There's so good at masking up and creating a false positive sense of self that by the time you wake up and leave gone, if you ever do wake up, they will have poisoned everyone around you to think that you're sick and crazy and bad for leaving such a wonderful person because they appear wonderful on the outside and mask their evil and disconnected ways, they make you appear Like you should be ashamed of yourself and guilty for leaving this massively enlightened, generous, kind, intelligent and empathic person, even if you know that not to be true. The image that the public sees is that it is true. So please don't buy into the public view of these people and keep your sanity and have an enlightened witness stand by you so that they can echo the truth of who you are and who they are.

take a moment to self-reflect and self-correct and see what you're getting out of being connected and choosing narcissists into your life. Often times when you tell the real truth about it, you will find that you're getting some secondary gain, like being with a good looking or rich person or a famous person.

On the surface, it might be fun to be with somebody who appears as though they are a winner and special and by attaching to a special person, you might feel more special and need to feel more special because you have been brought up to feel that you're not at the end of this journey, you will probably unmask a lot of truths about the situation and find out that why you're really in it is because you've been real to try to fix the system gone wrong that you were embroiled in from childhood by repeating it with somebody who will.

Hopefully he'll you. But it never works. Get out while you can because it's expensive on all levels, mind, body and soul and your finances.

Being the golden child is not all that golden. There's a huge price to pay. And the payment is in the form of serving and doing and pleasing the king and the queen, a.k.a. usually mother and father. If you comply with their wishes, needs, desires and agendas, you will be deemed the golden child.

If not, you might get kicked to the curb and become the scapegoat. If you're lucky, you escape. If you're not so lucky, you're trapped in this system for way too long. And when you are trapped in a system gone wrong, then it will play. It will wreak havoc on your mind and your body and your psyche in order to heal the hole in the soul and interrupt the multi-generational transmission to the next generation.

Heal thyself. And then we could put the healing from narcissistic of abuse. Mind map journey now available.

Signs and symptoms of narcissistic abuse. The most obvious sign is that you feel absolutely drained psychologically, emotionally, physically, even financially drained. The key to helping you to stop the drainage is to heal thyself. If you want to make sure that you don't pass the psycho virus to the next generation, heal thyself so that you can give your next generation a better blueprint. Narcissistic abuse abounds and people who are people pleasers and more likely than others to get embroiled in such relationships. If you get to the root cause of why you even selected to be in these relationships, you will be able to foolproof yourself against future narcissistic relationships and heal the wounds that created your hole in the soul that led you into these systems gone wrong.

Word and say narcissists use all kinds of manipulative tactics to pull power and control over you. It's important to understand your vulnerabilities so that you don't give them opportunities to get insights into your psyche and steal your sense of power and control over yourself. Manipulative tactics can involve overt manipulation as an example, giving you something in exchange for you doing something for them.

This works only when they know that you are vulnerable and needy of that something or coworker tactics which breaks Apple may involve acting as if they are a victim and playing on your soft heart so that they can borrow money or pick your brain or have you wipe away their tears and do other things to make them feel better, usually at your expense.

Don't fall for these manipulations, please. Psycho. Educate yourself and heal your own childhood wounds so that you can foolproof yourself against narcissists.

When divorcing a narcissist, be prepared to take off your rose colored glasses and assume the worst. It's not going to be pretty. Expect to be demeaned, devalued, destroyed, discarded. Expect that there will be plenty of flying monkeys that they will enlist to, um. To weaponize against you. Please realize that you are part of this system gone wrong.

If you've been groomed to people, please. If you've been groomed to think that the world is all good, you have some work to do when divorcing a narcissist. Make sure that you stay in power and control of your money, that you keep a strong paper trail and that you lawyer up with the best attorney that you can muster up.