Eager to Please Podcast

What's up Eager to Pleasers?! Just wanted to check in on you to see how you're doing and to see what you've been up to lately.  

What changes have you been making to bring yourself closer to finding balance and peace and feeling more in control of your life?

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Change can be scary, but sometimes it's necessary, even essential, if you're just going through the motions, not enjoying what you're doing or how you're living life.  

And when you've been living your life for everyone else but yourself, it can be confusing knowing where to start.  The first step in becoming whole again is getting to know what matters to you - what values drive you.  I invite you to take the values profile quiz offered by MaryBeth Hyland, mindfulness speaker and life coach. Then you can begin setting healthy boundaries that are most true to you and in alignment with your life.

Because remember: expectations - agreement = disappointment

Doing more of what's in alignment with your values creates an environment of balance, peace and clarity - not stress. And at the end of the day, isn't that what we're all searching for?

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As humans, we innately crave connection, belonging and purpose.

But when we base our self-worth on outside factors, like productivity, financial success or what others think of us, we quickly lose sight of what truly fulfills us.

Join us on this episode as we chat with MaryBeth Hyland, a values-based mindfulness coach, who reminds us that values come from within; and if we are not in alignment with those core values, our life quickly becomes chaotic.

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Setting boundaries can be difficult if you don't know how to set healthy ones or how to communicate them effectively. 

In this episode, we are blessed to sit down with Grammy-nominated, songwriter-singer and educator, Steve Seskin, as we take a deeper look at why it's important to set boundaries (even for men!) and why we chose to write Boundaries in the first place. 

It's an episode you don't wanna miss!

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New Month. New Theme. New Song.  Let's talk about boundaries!

I don't know about you, but I always viewed boundaries as a barrier between two objects, usually put up for safety or establishing lines.

In this episode we debunk the common myth that boundaries are a negative thing, rather than a healthy way of communicating and establishing effective, loving relationships.

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Also check out our new release Boundaries!

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Wanting to be perfect goes hand in hand with people-pleasing.

Join me in this episode as we take a closer look at advice from Reshma Saujani, founder and CEO of Girls Who Code. In her book "Brave, not Perfect" she shares her journey from being a perfectionist to acceptance of being perfectly imperfect in order to live a more fulfilling, authentic life.

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Adulting his hard and complicated; but we are ultimately responsible for holding ourselves accountable for living authentically and by our truest selves. In this episode I am so fortunate to sit down with Nashville-based therapist Megan Flores, to talk more in depth about  

Megan shares her thoughts on the common trauma responses: fight, flight, and freeze and this "newer" term we both just learned about called fawning (or appeasing) and how “people pleasing” can be considered a response from trauma.

We also talk about the Karpman Triangle, a model of dysfunctional social interactions that we all tend to fall in and out of at some point in our lives during conflict: the victim, the rescuer and the perpetrator (persecutor). 

The biggest piece of advice from Megan you'll walk away with is this - we're all human, we all make mistakes, but taking time for self-discovery and understanding that the things you choose to do are moving you forward.  Take ownership of your happiness and stay curious.

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In this episode, we take a closer look at the story behind "Close to Home" written by Natalie Otto, John Salaway & Nick Serro.

Do you feel like you're living in deja vu? Sometimes history does repeat itself; and in my case, it was a marriage that was failing, but sometimes in order to find balance you have to learn to let go of the things that are not working.

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New month - new topic - FAMILY MATTERS!

How big of a role does your family play in shaping the person you become as an adult? We take a closer look at family dynamics, relationships and generational influences to answer this question.

Huge shout out to Music City Productions for producing this month's theme song, Closer to Home.

Written by Natalie Otto, Nick Serro & John Salaway

Produced by John Salaway & Joshua Koskela

Engineered by Joshua Koskela

Drums, Bass, Acoustic Guitar, Electric Guitar & Piano by John Salaway

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People pleasers tend to say "yes" even when they mean "no".  Learn why the power of saying "no" can help you set healthy boundaries so you can continue to show up for yourself and others at your fullest.

Join me in this episode as we take a look at what advice Vanessa Patrick, PhD has to say about the subject in her book "The Power of Saying No".

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