Expedition Marriage with Chris & Jamie Bailey

Ep. 149: The Different Decades of Marriage — Every Season Has a Purpose


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Marriage is a lifelong journey that evolves with each decade—and every season comes with both its own challenges and its unique purpose. In this episode, Chris & Jamie walk through the different decades of marriage—from the idealistic 20s to the legacy-filled 70s—and share biblical wisdom and practical encouragement for every stage. Whether you're dreaming big, building hard, questioning what's next, or leaving a legacy, this episode will help you embrace your season with grace, faith, and intentionality.

🧭 What You'll Learn:

  • What characterizes each decade of marriage and the purpose within it
  • How to strengthen your relationship through every season—from early dreams to late wisdom
  • Why your current season matters and how to fully show up for it
  • Biblical encouragement and reflection questions for each stage

💡 Episode Highlights:

🧡 The Idealistic Years (20s) • Time of big dreams, passion, and possibilities • Don't let others stifle your optimism—dream and plan together

🔨 The Industrious Years (30s) • The building decade: careers, parenting, responsibilities • High-stress years—easy to feel like co-workers instead of lovers

🔥 The Intense Years (40s) • Questions of success, identity, and "Have we done enough?" • Increased financial and physical stress; watch for resentment

🕊️ The Influential Years (50s & 60s) • A time of wisdom, mentoring, and dreaming new dreams—together • Warning: high divorce rate in this age group; stay connected

🌳 The Indelible Years (70s & beyond) • Storytelling season—your words and life hold deep meaning • Grandchildren watch how you finish the race

💬 Reflection & Encouragement:

• No season is wasted—each one has a God-given purpose • Ecclesiastes 3:1 – "To everything there is a season…" • Talk with your spouse: What season are you in? What do you need most from one another right now?

🎯 Call to Action:

  • 📥 Download your free resource: Marriage Through the Decades Reflection Guide at https://expeditionmarriage.org/podcast/ep-149-the-different-decades-of-marriage-every-season-has-a-purpose
  • 👥 Share this episode with another couple—especially one in a different season than you
  • ⭐ Leave a review if this episode encouraged you—it helps more couples find hope
  • 🌐 Visit ExpeditionMarriage.org for more free tools, blog posts, and resources

Closing Reminder: A great marriage isn't found—it's built. One intentional season at a time. Until next time—keep showing up, keep leaning in, and keep trusting God with your journey.

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