When chronic illness enters a marriage, it doesn't just affect one person—it touches everything. Routines shift, intimacy changes, energy drops, and even the way you see each other can be altered. In this honest and hope-filled episode, we talk about the silent grief couples carry, the changes they face, and how to begin healing and reconnecting in a new, grace-filled way. We even share our own personal story.

 

Whether you're the one facing health challenges or the one walking alongside, there is hope for restoration—not necessarily of the "before" life, but of connection, intimacy, and partnership in the "now."

 

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• The unspoken losses chronic illness brings into marriage—and why it's okay to grieve them
• How to rebuild connection and intimacy in new and meaningful ways
• Practical steps for healing together and making space for honest conversations
• Encouragement and Scripture to remind you that you're not alone in this journey

 

Key Takeaways & Scriptures: 💬 "When chronic illness enters a marriage, it doesn't just affect one person—it touches everything. But it doesn't have to define everything." 📖 Romans 12:15 – "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." 📖 1 Corinthians 13:7 – "Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." 📖 Ecclesiastes 4:9–10 – "Two are better than one… If either of them falls down, one can help the other up."

 

Links & Resources:

• Download the Couples Conversation Worksheet  (Ihttps://expeditionmarriage.org/podcast/ep-155-healing-your-marriage-after-chronic-illness)– Use this free guide to start meaningful conversations about healing and connection in your marriage after chronic illness.

 

• Check out Jackie Hill Perry's teaching on In Defence of Hope. We know it will be an ecnouragement for you. https://youtu.be/pdXu23RLCE8?si=ymhPjOd2V8XKr107

 

• Need more support? Visit ExpeditionMarriage.org for coaching, resources, and tools.

 

• Share this episode with a friend or couple who's navigating chronic illness—they need encouragement too!

 

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