Expedition Marriage with Chris & Jamie Bailey

Ep. 161: The Lost Art of Sacrifice


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Remember when you were dating—those extra drives across town, late-night phone calls, sweet notes, and the way you rearranged your whole schedule just to be together? Back then, sacrifice felt natural. But somewhere along the way, many couples lose that intentionality.

In this episode, we dive into what it means to rediscover sacrificial love in marriage—not as a duty, but as a reflection of Christ's love. From everyday acts of kindness to laying down pride and preferences, we'll unpack why sacrifice is foundational for intimacy, trust, and unity.

💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode

  • Why couples often lose the art of sacrifice after marriage
  • How sacrifice builds trust, intimacy, and a "we" mindset instead of "me vs. you"
  • Practical, everyday ways to reignite sacrificial love
  • The difference between being a doormat and choosing sacrificial love
  • How reflecting Christ's love through sacrifice impacts your marriage, your children, and your witness to the world

📖 Scripture References

  • John 15:12–13 — "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends."
  • Ephesians 5:25 — "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her."
  • Romans 5:8 — "But God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."
  • John 13:35 — "By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."

🛠️ Practical Takeaways

  • Put your phone down and give your spouse your full attention
  • Do an errand your spouse dislikes
  • Give up a preference to honor theirs
  • Lay down pride and be the first to apologize
  • Pray together even when life is busy

Challenge for the Week: Choose one intentional act of sacrifice—big or small—for your spouse and see how it impacts your connection.

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