The Baby Sleep Connection: Holistic help for tired, responsive parents who don't want to sleep train

Ep 22: Mindfulness, The Nervous System, & Sleep with Dr. Nerina Ramlakhan


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Heather Boyd speaks with Dr. Nerina Ramlakhan, a physiologist and sleep therapist with a passion for supporting people and organizations using Western medicine, Eastern philosophy, consciousness, evolution, and feelings of safety for our nervous systems.

In this episode, Dr. Nerina and Heather explore:

  • How our nervous systems developed through evolution to support surviving and thriving.

  • The resourcefulness of our nervous systems to protect us through freezing, fighting or fleeing (sympathetic nervous system), and maintaining safety (ventral vagus nerve)

  • What “safety science” is and how it relates to gauging our environments as safe or unsafe so we can react appropriately

  • Co-regulation and its role in feeling safe

  • Oxytocin’s role in helping a mother create safety for a newborn

  • How intuition supports you physiologically

  • How to listen inwardly in a noisy outward world

  • Morning habits that support your ventral vagus nervous system

  • Self-talk, the “shoulds”, and the resulting dysregulation

  • Calming the inner voice 

  • Using breathing techniques to regulate

  • Why we might do well to replace the word “sleep” with “rest”

  • Hunter gatherers, bimodal sleep, and polyphasic sleep

  • Fear, love, and grief

  • How to move from "must do" to a state of safety/love

  • Dr. Nerina's 5 non-negotiables for more restful sleep

  • Cultural differences in night and daytime sleep (and the many factors that impact this

  • and more

  • Mentioned in this episode:

    • Stephen Porges, developer of the Polyvagal Theory
      • ⁠The Little Book of Sleep by Dr. Nerina⁠ 
        • ⁠Finding Inner Safety: The Key to Healing, Thriving, and Overcoming Burnout by Nerina Ramlakhan | Goodreads⁠
          • Dr. Nerina’s course to reset your nervous system: ⁠https://drnerina.com/awakenyourpotential/⁠

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            🎵 Music Credit: Jordan Wood


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