In this episode, I challenge the trap most people live in: judging your life by outcomes you can’t fully control. Results are noisy. They’re influenced by timing, other people, the economy, the algorithm, injury, weather, luck and variables you’ll never master. When you build your self-worth, motivation, and discipline on results, you become emotionally fragile. You win and feel fine. You lose and spiral. That’s not high performance, that’s gambling with your identity.

Instead, we go behaviour-based. Behaviours are controllables. They’re the daily standards you can execute no matter what happens. The goal is not to ignore results. The goal is to stop using results as your scoreboard for who you are. Results are data. Behaviours are the driver.

I break down a simple framework: define the identity you want, convert it into non-negotiable behaviours, then measure consistency, not mood. You’ll learn how to set process goals that stack into outcomes, how to build momentum when progress feels invisible, and how to stay locked in when life punches you in the mouth. We talk training, business, relationships, and mental health, because the same principle applies everywhere.

You’ll hear practical examples: chasing scale weight versus hitting protein, steps, sleep and training; chasing revenue versus making the calls, shipping the content, and following up; chasing a perfect relationship versus showing respect, listening, and keeping promises. I also cover the excuses that sabotage people: “I’m not seeing results yet,” “I’ll start when I feel motivated,” and “It’s not working.” It is working. You’re just addicted to feedback.

Your challenge is simple: pick three behaviours for the next 14 days, track them daily, and judge yourself only on execution. If you miss, don’t negotiate. Reset and execute the next rep. Pick your standards. Track your behaviours. Let the results catch up.

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