Comedian/producer Chris Spencer joins Matt & Alona to unpack how humor can be a bridge to connection—or a wall that hides our real feelings. From a “hickeys & frozen spoons” teen moment 😳🥄 to laughing through grief, to intimacy cramps that turn into days of belly laughs 😂—this episode gets real about emotional safety at home. We also explore culture, presence, and why simple, steady communication keeps families close (and kids honest). 

A few spicy moments that might challenge you (in a good way):

1. Are you using jokes to dodge vulnerability? When humor masks discomfort, kids learn to hide too. 
2. Can you name hard truths with warmth? From a daughter’s outfit to a parent’s “famous” casserole, honesty + care > people-pleasing.
3. Are you present enough for joy to happen? Consistent, in-person time (meals, hangouts, movie nights) quietly builds trust—and makes the jokes land for the right reasons.

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• Nudge 1: I often crack jokes when things get tense with my family. Help me unpack when my humor connects—and when it shuts people down—and coach me to try one vulnerable sentence in the next tough moment.
• Nudge 2: I want to be more honest without shaming. Coach me on how to speak a hard truth (about behavior, clothing, or habits) with respect, and role-play what I’ll say and how I’ll repair if it lands badly.

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