Welcome back to another episode of the “Parent Like a Psychologist” Podcast. In this third part of my series on managing children’s behaviour, the focus is on how to encourage positive behaviour proactively.

I’ll break it down into a few important parts. I’ll discuss why it’s so important that your child knows what you expect from them. You can’t just make up rules on the spot. Be clear about what you want and stick to it. Keep the rules short and simple, and consider linking them to values like being kind or helpful.

Children learn from watching you. So, if you want them to behave well, you need to model that behaviour yourself. I’ll explain the importance of staying calm and managing frustration, as they’re more likely to do the same.

I’ll also highlight the importance of building a strong relationship. Spending quality time with your child helps encourage better behaviour. It doesn’t have to be long — just regular. Bedtime can be a great opportunity to talk and connect.

It’s incredibly important to respond to their behaviour. When your child behaves well, let them know you’ve noticed. Instead of just saying “good job,” explain what you liked about their actions. Younger children might enjoy rewards like stickers, while older ones may prefer privileges such as extra screen time.

If your child has ADHD or autism, I’ll be discussing why you might need to adjust your strategies. Keeping things consistent, using visuals, and breaking tasks into smaller steps can help them succeed.

So, let’s dive into today’s episode and learn how to encourage positive behaviour in our children!

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