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EP105 Manipulation or Desperation? How to Tell the Difference & Respond Effectively
Heather explores the complex topic of manipulation in the context of addiction and family dynamics.
When your child is using substances, it’s common to experience behaviors that feel manipulative or self-serving. However, Heather emphasizes the importance of stepping back to see these actions through a compassionate lens, which can empower parents to respond with clarity rather than react out of frustration or hurt.
Heather covers:
What manipulation is and isn’t, and how labeling behaviors as manipulative can reduce loved ones to harmful stereotypes.
to distinguish when behaviors stem from true manipulation versus desperation or an attempt to meet a basic need.
Shifting from a “victim-perpetrator” mindset to a more empowered approach, recognizing manipulation as a universal human behavior rather than one solely tied to addiction.
Responses: Tips for responding thoughtfully, using the CRAFT approach (Community Reinforcement and Family Training).
With insights drawn from her own experiences, Heather shares the importance of language, self-awareness, and finding less charged ways to label challenging behaviors. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate difficult behaviors with compassion and maintain peace of mind in the face of addiction.
Resources From Heather Ross Coaching
In Person WeWomen Retreat Information https://wewomenretreat.com/registration/
Guide about enabling -
If you've ever worried about enabling, this guide is for you!
https://heatherrosscoaching.com/perspective-about-enabling/
If you want answers and support to help you and your child Sign up for a 45-minute $17 Road to Recovery call
with me using the link below https://heatherrosscoachingcalendar.as.me/RoadtoRecovery
GROUP COACHING PROGRAM - Join the waitlist - Be the first to get details.
https://heatherrosscoaching.com/peace-of-mind-community/
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Heather explores the complex topic of manipulation in the context of addiction and family dynamics.
When your child is using substances, it’s common to experience behaviors that feel manipulative or self-serving. However, Heather emphasizes the importance of stepping back to see these actions through a compassionate lens, which can empower parents to respond with clarity rather than react out of frustration or hurt.
Heather covers:
What manipulation is and isn’t, and how labeling behaviors as manipulative can reduce loved ones to harmful stereotypes.
to distinguish when behaviors stem from true manipulation versus desperation or an attempt to meet a basic need.
Shifting from a “victim-perpetrator” mindset to a more empowered approach, recognizing manipulation as a universal human behavior rather than one solely tied to addiction.
Responses: Tips for responding thoughtfully, using the CRAFT approach (Community Reinforcement and Family Training).
With insights drawn from her own experiences, Heather shares the importance of language, self-awareness, and finding less charged ways to label challenging behaviors. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to navigate difficult behaviors with compassion and maintain peace of mind in the face of addiction.
Resources From Heather Ross Coaching
In Person WeWomen Retreat Information https://wewomenretreat.com/registration/
Guide about enabling -
If you've ever worried about enabling, this guide is for you!
https://heatherrosscoaching.com/perspective-about-enabling/
If you want answers and support to help you and your child Sign up for a 45-minute $17 Road to Recovery call
with me using the link below https://heatherrosscoachingcalendar.as.me/RoadtoRecovery
GROUP COACHING PROGRAM - Join the waitlist - Be the first to get details.
https://heatherrosscoaching.com/peace-of-mind-community/
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