NEW Announcement: Australian Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King & Wendy Brewer. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. familyhopesupport.com (Australia Only)

Feeling completely worn down by your loved one's addiction? You're not alone — and you're not failing.

Sleepless nights, constant worry, and emotional exhaustion are painfully common for parents and carers of someone struggling with substance use. When you're running on empty, it's nearly impossible to support someone else — let alone take care of yourself. This episode dives deep into what burnout really looks like in addiction-affected families, and how to begin reclaiming your strength.

1. Hear honest, relatable stories of burnout from both hosts’ personal journeys.
2. Discover simple, practical ways to calm your nervous system and break the cycle of survival mode.
3. Learn why self-compassion, boundaries, and support from people who truly get it are essential — not selfish.

Tune in now to discover how even one small act of self-care can start restoring your energy and resilience.

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Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself

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This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse disorder, offering insights from addiction recovery experts, family therapy, and support groups like Al-Anon and Family Drug Support, with a focus on understanding how to help and support loved ones dealing with addiction, including heroin addiction, through counselling and treatment options.

DISCLAIMER 

Every family is different — if you’re supporting someone through addiction, please make decisions that are right for you, ideally in consultation with qualified professionals and appropriate support networks.

NEW Announcement: Australian Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King & Wendy Brewer. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. familyhopesupport.com (Australia Only)

What if empathy — even when you're being blamed — could be the key to diffusing conflict with your loved one?

When families are caught in the chaos of addiction, conversations often become battlegrounds. This episode offers a new path: using empathy to soften tension, de-escalate arguments, and create the safety your loved one needs to truly open up. If you’ve ever walked away from a fight thinking, “There must be a better way,” this episode is for you.

1. Learn how to respond calmly when you're being blamed — without letting things spiral.
2. Discover how naming emotions can interrupt anger and create meaningful connection.
3. Hear real-life examples of how empathy can shift long-standing communication patterns.

Listen now to learn how empathy can transform even your most difficult moments into opportunities for healing.

🌱 Family Hope Support — Special Offer for Podcast Listeners (Australia Only)

Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself

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If our podcast has helped you feel a little less alone, you can now support our work through Ko-fi. Your contribution helps us keep creating this show and reach more families who need hope and guidance.

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This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse disorder, offering insights from addiction recovery experts, family therapy, and support groups like Al-Anon and Family Drug Support, with a focus on understanding how to help and support loved ones dealing with addiction, including heroin addiction, through counselling and treatment options.

DISCLAIMER 

Every family is different — if you’re supporting someone through addiction, please make decisions that are right for you, ideally in consultation with qualified professionals and appropriate support networks.

NEW Announcement: Australian Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King & Wendy Brewer. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. familyhopesupport.com (Australia Only)

Are you actually listening—or just waiting for your turn to talk? Discover how one simple shift can transform your conversations with your child, especially during high-stress moments.

When your child is struggling—maybe with addiction, emotional overwhelm, or just pushing your buttons—it’s natural to want to jump in, fix things, or give advice. But what if the key to helping them isn’t what you say, but how deeply you listen? This episode introduces the counseling skill of active listening, and how it can give parents the tools to stay calm, connected, and present—even when things feel out of control.

1. Learn the true meaning of active listening and why it’s not just repeating back words.
2. Hear real stories of how staying silent and reflecting emotions helped build trust and open communication.
3. Get actionable tips on preparing yourself emotionally so you can respond with presence instead of panic.

Listen to this episode now and start practicing the skill that can instantly strengthen your relationship with your child—even in the toughest conversations.

🌱 Family Hope Support — Special Offer for Podcast Listeners (Australia Only)

Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself

💛 Support the Podcast (Worldwide)

If our podcast has helped you feel a little less alone, you can now support our work through Ko-fi. Your contribution helps us keep creating this show and reach more families who need hope and guidance.

👉 https://ko-fi.com/familyhopesupport

This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse disorder, offering insights from addiction recovery experts, family therapy, and support groups like Al-Anon and Family Drug Support, with a focus on understanding how to help and support loved ones dealing with addiction, including heroin addiction, through counselling and treatment options.

DISCLAIMER 

Every family is different — if you’re supporting someone through addiction, please make decisions that are right for you, ideally in consultation with qualified professionals and appropriate support networks.

NEW Announcement: Australian Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King & Wendy Brewer. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. familyhopesupport.com (Australia Only)

Are you living with a child whose challenging behavior leaves you feeling helpless, reactive, or even hopeless?

This episode dives into the emotional and mental toll of parenting a difficult child — especially one who resists parenting altogether. If you're feeling overwhelmed, misunderstood, or stuck in cycles of conflict, you're not alone. Learn how to shift from blaming your child to transforming your own role in the family dynamic.

1. Discover how separating your child from their behavior can help you respond with compassion instead of control.
2. Learn the power of managing your own thoughts, feelings, and actions to reduce chaos and increase peace at home.
3. Hear why self-care isn’t selfish — it’s essential for holding space, influencing your child positively, and staying grounded.

Press play now to uncover practical insights that will help you parent from a place of calm, clarity, and connection — even in the most challenging moments.

Beth is a certified life/parent coach for parents of struggling teens and young adults.

After her fifteen-year-old son attended wilderness therapy in 2018 for substance use and anxiety issues, Beth experienced intense fear, anxiety, and a desperate need for guidance. This pivotal experience inspired her to create the parent support she had always wished for. Beth is a double-certified Life and Parent Coach, an Arbinger Living With an Outward Mindset seminar facilitator, and an Unshaming Way process-oriented facilitator.

Beth brings a rare combination of empathy and lived experience to parents of struggling teens and young adults, whether they are home, transitioning home, or currently in treatment.

Beth coaches parents privately, in small groups, and in online workshops. She facilitates group coaching for parents with kids in treatment programs. Beth is also a dynamic and captivating public speaker. She has presented at national and local conferences on parenting struggling teens and influencing change within ourselves and others.

Email: [email protected]

Website: https://bethhillmancoaching.com/

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Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit paulking859763.substack.com

🌱 Family Hope Support — Special Offer for Podcast Listeners (Australia Only)

Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself

💛 Support the Podcast (Worldwide)

If our podcast has helped you feel a little less alone, you can now support our work through Ko-fi. Your contribution helps us keep creating this show and reach more families who need hope and guidance.

👉 https://ko-fi.com/familyhopesupport

Do you ever wonder why your child lies to you when they’re using substances—and what it really means about their relationship with you?

If you're a parent dealing with the chaos of a child's substance use, you’ve likely faced the heartbreak of dishonesty and the struggle of not knowing whether to trust them again. This episode dives deep into the why behind the lies, and how understanding addiction's impact on behavior can be the first step toward healing your relationship.

• Learn the psychological and emotional reasons behind why your child lies when they’re in active addiction.
• Discover how trust can begin to be rebuilt, even after repeated deception.
• Hear practical, non-judgmental strategies for creating a safe space where your child might finally tell you the truth.

Listen now to understand what’s really going on behind your child’s lies—and how you can become part of their healing journey.

🌱 Family Hope Support — Special Offer for Podcast Listeners (Australia Only)

Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself

💛 Support the Podcast (Worldwide)

If our podcast has helped you feel a little less alone, you can now support our work through Ko-fi. Your contribution helps us keep creating this show and reach more families who need hope and guidance.

👉 https://ko-fi.com/familyhopesupport

This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse...

This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit paulking859763.substack.com

NEW Announcement: Australian Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King & Wendy Brewer. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. familyhopesupport.com (Australia Only)

What happens when you're 70 or 80 years old and still losing sleep over an adult child who's using drugs?

If you're a parent of an adult child struggling with addiction, the fear and worry can feel endless — especially as the years stretch on and little seems to change. This episode offers a lifeline for those who feel trapped in an emotional loop of guilt, helplessness, and fear for the future.

• Understand why long-term worry can quietly take over your life and how to break the cycle.
• Learn practical ways to stay emotionally grounded and present, even when your mind races to the “what ifs” of the future.
• Discover how to care deeply for your loved one while protecting your own life, relationships, and wellbeing from being consumed.

Listen now to find calm in the chaos and take your first step toward emotional peace — even if your child is still struggling.

🌱 Family Hope Support — Special Offer for Podcast Listeners (Australia Only)

Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself

💛 Support the Podcast (Worldwide)

If our podcast has helped you feel a little less alone, you can now support our work through Ko-fi. Your contribution helps us keep creating this show and reach more families who need hope and guidance.

👉 https://ko-fi.com/familyhopesupport

This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse disorder, offering insights from addiction recovery experts, family therapy, and support groups like Al-Anon and Family Drug Support, with a focus on understanding how to help and support loved ones dealing with addiction, including heroin addiction, through counselling and treatment options.

DISCLAIMER 

Every family is different — if you’re supporting someone through addiction, please make decisions that are right for you, ideally in consultation with qualified professionals and appropriate support networks.

NEW Announcement: Australian Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King & Wendy Brewer. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. familyhopesupport.com (Australia Only)

How can you be a good role model for your child when you're surrounded by chaos and stress?

When life feels overwhelming—especially for parents supporting a child with substance use—being a consistent and positive role model may feel impossible. But how you show up in those hard moments can make the biggest impact. This episode explores how to stay grounded and emotionally regulated, even when everything around you feels out of control.

• Discover practical ways to stay calm and present in the midst of emotional chaos.
• Learn how small habits like gratitude, breathing, and intention-setting can shift your energy—and your influence.
• Find out why emotional self-regulation is one of the most powerful tools you can model for your children.

Listen now to uncover how small, intentional actions can help you lead with calm, clarity, and care—even on the toughest days.

🌱 Family Hope Support — Special Offer for Podcast Listeners (Australia Only)

Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself

💛 Support the Podcast (Worldwide)

If our podcast has helped you feel a little less alone, you can now support our work through Ko-fi. Your contribution helps us keep creating this show and reach more families who need hope and guidance.

👉 https://ko-fi.com/familyhopesupport

This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse disorder, offering insights from addiction recovery experts, family therapy, and support groups like Al-Anon and Family Drug Support, with a focus on understanding how to help and support loved ones dealing with addiction, including heroin addiction, through counselling and treatment options.

DISCLAIMER 

Every family is different — if you’re supporting someone through addiction, please make decisions that are right for you, ideally in consultation with qualified professionals and appropriate support networks.

NEW Announcement: Australian Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King & Wendy Brewer. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. familyhopesupport.com (Australia Only)

How do you support a loved one using meth while protecting your own mental and emotional health?

Methamphetamine (ice) use is on the rise, devastating families with its powerful psychological grip and erratic behavioral impacts. Parents often feel helpless, swinging between desperation and the urge to control their child's behavior. But managing this crisis requires a different approach—one that prioritizes safety, boundaries, and emotional clarity.

• Learn why meth is uniquely challenging and how it mentally affects your loved one.
• Understand how to set and communicate boundaries that protect your well-being during escalation.
• Discover why self-care isn't selfish—it's one of the most powerful forms of support you can offer.

Tune in now to hear practical, compassionate strategies for navigating meth use in the family while staying grounded and safe.

🌱 Family Hope Support — Special Offer for Podcast Listeners (Australia Only)

Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself

💛 Support the Podcast (Worldwide)

If our podcast has helped you feel a little less alone, you can now support our work through Ko-fi. Your contribution helps us keep creating this show and reach more families who need hope and guidance.

👉 https://ko-fi.com/familyhopesupport

This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse disorder, offering insights from addiction recovery experts, family therapy, and support groups like Al-Anon and Family Drug Support, with a focus on understanding how to help and support loved ones dealing with addiction, including heroin addiction, through counselling and treatment options.

DISCLAIMER 

Every family is different — if you’re supporting someone through addiction, please make decisions that are right for you, ideally in consultation with qualified professionals and appropriate support networks.

NEW Announcement: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. familyhopesupport.com

Can you ever truly find peace when your adult child continues to struggle with addiction?

For some parents, the worry never ends—even into their 80s. This episode shares a powerful story of a mother still in deep distress after decades of her son’s substance use. It's a wake-up call about the long-term emotional toll and the urgent need to care for your own wellbeing, no matter where your loved one is on their journey.

• Understand how long-term guilt and grief can keep you stuck—and how to start letting go.
• Learn why acceptance is key to reaching emotional peace and what that journey really looks like.
• Discover practical ways to cope with stigma, shame, and isolation through support and self-compassion.

Listen now to hear how finding acceptance and letting go of guilt can change your life—even in the most heartbreaking situations.

🌱 Family Hope Support — Special Offer for Podcast Listeners

Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

Family Hope Support offers one-to-one support sessions grounded in real lived experience.  Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 

🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King.  — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself.

This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse disorder, offering insights from addiction recovery experts, family therapy, and support groups like Al-Anon and Family Drug Support, with a focus on understanding how to help and support loved ones dealing with addiction, including heroin addiction, through counselling and treatment options.

DISCLAIMER 

Every family is different — if you’re supporting someone through addiction, please make decisions that are right for you, ideally in consultation with qualified professionals and appropriate support networks.

NEW Announcement: Australian Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session with Paul King & Wendy Brewer. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. familyhopesupport.com (Australia Only)

Is your relationship breaking under the weight of your child’s addiction? Discover how to stay united when everything is pulling you apart.

Addiction doesn’t just affect the person using—it shakes the entire family, often turning parents into emotional opponents. When one wants to fix and the other wants to avoid, communication breaks down and your relationship can suffer. This episode offers a guide to rebuilding unity, even in crisis.

• Understand the common parenting roles—like fixer vs. avoider—and how they create friction during addiction struggles.
• Learn practical ways to reconnect with your partner through calm communication, shared values, and boundaries.
• Discover how couples counseling, education, and emotional honesty can strengthen your relationship and help you support your loved one more effectively.

Tune in now to learn how to heal together, support each other, and stay strong as a team—because your connection matters just as much as your child’s recovery.

🌱 Family Hope Support — Special Offer for Podcast Listeners (Australia Only)

Loving someone with a drug or alcohol problem can feel exhausting — the worry, the guilt, the fear, the sleepless nights. It wears you down.

At Family Hope Support, Wendy Brewer and Paul King offer combined one-to-one support sessions grounded in counselling insight and lived experience. Finally get the care & help you need to navigate a loved one's addiction. 🎉: Family Support Listeners Get 30% off every one-to-one support session — use code FAMILYHOPE at checkout.

👉 Claim your discount at familyhopesupport.com and start feeling less alone. You don’t have to do this by yourself

💛 Support the Podcast (Worldwide)

If our podcast has helped you feel a little less alone, you can now support our work through Ko-fi. Your contribution helps us keep creating this show and reach more families who need hope and guidance.

👉 https://ko-fi.com/familyhopesupport

This podcast provides practical guidance and support for families navigating the challenges of substance abuse disorder, offering insights from addiction recovery experts, family therapy, and support groups like Al-Anon and Family Drug Support, with a focus on understanding how to help and support loved ones dealing with addiction, including heroin addiction, through counselling and treatment options.

DISCLAIMER 

Every family is different — if you’re supporting someone through addiction, please make decisions that are right for you, ideally in consultation with qualified professionals and appropriate support networks.