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In this episode, Mike pulls back the curtain on his journey since 2016—a path of self-discovery that flipped his world upside down. He lays bare a truth that hit him hard: superficial conversation leaves him empty. With raw honesty, he breaks down three levels of conversational intimacy—surface chatter, mental exploration, and the soul-deep emotional core. Drawing from personal resistance and breakthroughs, Mike reveals how craving depth became his guiding light. He connects with his tribe—people seeking transformation through truth and transcendence through love—and invites you to ditch the small talk for something real. Tune in to explore what lights you up and join Mike’s Inner Wealth Mastermind retreat in the Outer Banks, starting next week, where depth isn’t just a buzzword—it’s the mission.

Key Takeaways

1. Depth Trumps Surface Every Time
Superficial talk drains you—real connection fills your soul with purpose.

2. Three Levels Shape Every Exchange
From weather to ideas to emotions, only the deepest level unlocks true intimacy.

3. Resistance Points to Your Power
That restlessness in shallow moments is your soul begging for more.

4. Your Tribe Lives in the Deep End
Scorpio demands truth, Pisces craves love—both reject the shallow end of the pool.

5. Alignment Fuels Transformation
When you lean into what inspires you, relationships become a launchpad for growth.

Notable Quotes

“I had zero appetite and I had zero patience for… superficial conversation.”
 “I wanna know what fears you have. I wanna know where you feel fear.”
 “The thing that most people think is… what’s wrong with you is truly your gift.”
 “They don’t want me to just let them speak a bunch of nonsense and… not address it.”
 “If you’re listening to this… you probably do get bored in level one conversational intimacy.”

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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Mike Kitko is an executive self-mastery coach, speaker and author. He found external success through powerful titles, incomes, and material possessions. He ultimately fell into depression, toxic abuse of alcohol, and the near collapse of his family before he began a journey of internal happiness and success.