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In this episode, Mike and Angie drop in from Cancun after the most powerful Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive they’ve ever led. They share the raw truth of what happened, how it didn’t go as expected, and what it means to surrender even when the outcome doesn’t match the energy. This is a behind-the-scenes look at trust, spiritual evolution, and the deep medicine of leadership in uncertain seasons.

Key Takeaways

1. Even the Most Aligned Outcomes Aren’t Always Predictable
   You can serve powerfully, have deep impact — and still experience a different result than expected.
2. Post-Event Stillness Is Non-Negotiable
   After you give fully, your body and nervous system require space to empty and recharge.
3. Surrender Is the Season
   This moment is about trust — not control, force, or hustle. The how and when are not your job.
4. Messiness Over Mastery
   Teaching from uncertainty creates deeper leadership than pretending to have it all together.
5. The Work Is Real and Always Evolving
   No matter how successful, leaders are always growing, learning, releasing, and listening.

Notable Quotes

• “Shadow work will help you do that. You put yourself into the experience that you're trying to avoid. You visualize the experience. You feel the experience. And then as you feel and amplify, you begin to breathe and release all the emotion that you've just dredged up.”
• “Life is not difficult. It's lack of trust in life that makes life so difficult.”
• “If a coach ever teaches from a place like they have it all figured out, run — run as hard and as fast as you can away from them.”
• “When you share your messiness, you gain people in your life who accept that we’re all messy together.”
• “The ego wants to control. The ego wants to make shit happen. The ego wants to be responsible for things happening.”

Call to Action

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In this episode, Mike breaks open the truth behind emotional storage, nervous system release, and the real work of personal freedom: Shadow Work. This isn’t about coping. It’s about healing the unprocessed emotions that are still running your life from the inside. If you’re ready to stop reacting, stop holding it all in, and start releasing what’s not yours to carry — this episode is your how.

Key Takeaways

1. Shadow Work Is About Releasing What’s Stored, Not What’s New
   Most emotions aren’t new — they’re old wounds triggered again. Shadow work clears the internal pressure.
2. You Can’t Think Your Way Out of Stored Emotion
   You have to feel it. Amplify it. Breathe through it. And release it with presence.
3. The Nervous System Stores Emotional Residue
   Unprocessed experiences live in the body until they're moved through consciously.
4. The Drill Method Is the Tool
   Drop into the body. Recognize. Inquire. Listen. Let go. It works because it goes beyond mindset.
5. Letting Go of Low-Level Energy Raises Your Reality
   Peace, power, and overflow are on the other side of clearing shame, guilt, fear, and grief.

Notable Quotes

• “Shadow work will help you do that. You put yourself into the experience that you're trying to avoid. You visualize the experience. You feel the experience. And then as you feel and amplify, you begin to breathe and release all the emotion that you've just dredged up.”
• “Emotion is like an orange and a knife. The knife doesn't create the juice. The knife just reveals it.”
• “You don't reach for the higher levels. You let go of the lower levels.”
• “You just allow yourself to go deeper into it and explore and allow yourself to let it go.”
• “Every single time I do shadow work, something amazing happens.”

Call to Action

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Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike returns to the heartbeat of Inner Wealth — the Creation Process. He walks through the three energetic pillars of manifestation (clarity, certainty, and commitment), and how these apply to every part of life: business, relationships, money, health, and purpose. This is more than a teaching — it’s an invitation to shift from passive wishing to full-body embodiment, and it’s the exact framework that drives transformation inside the Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive.

Key Takeaways

1. Clarity Is Power — Most People Just Don’t Know What They Want
   Until you can name it, you’ll keep defaulting to what’s familiar or convenient.
2. Certainty Is a Nervous System Frequency, Not a Thought
   You must feel it in your body, not just hope for it in your mind.
3. Commitment Means Embodiment, Not Effort
   You don’t get what you want by force — you get it by becoming a match for it and letting it in.
4. Resistance Lives in the Body — and It Must Be Cleared
   Meditation, shadow work, and somatic tools remove the blocks to receiving.
5. When Clarity and Certainty Align, Life Delivers With Ease
   It's not magic — it’s alignment. And the process works every single time.

Notable Quotes

• “The reason that most people don't have what they want is because they don't know what they want.”
• “Certainty is a feeling in your body. It's a belief, it's a knowing, it's an expectation that the level of clarity will show up.”
• “Impatience is fear. Wherever you're impatient, it's because there's some level of insecurity, inadequacy, or insignificance inside of you.”
• “Commitment is more about receiving than it is creating. It's in receiving more than it is struggling to get it.”
• “In order to get what you want, you need to expect it.”

Call to Action

🎯 Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive
📍 St. Charles, MO | 🗓 November 14–15 | ⏰ 9 AM – 5 PM CST
This is the room. Two days of clarity, nervous system work, live meditations, and internal transformation.
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Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike returns to the foundational — but rarely mastered — concept of Healthy Selfishness. He shares how giving without receiving leads to depletion, why most people are unconsciously afraid to receive, and how deserving, expecting, and receiving are actually nervous system conditions — not mindset problems. This episode is a permission slip to stop playing martyr, start playing big, and rewire your body for reciprocity, worthiness, and overflow.

Key Takeaways

1. You Are Not the Meat Suit — You Are the Awareness Navigating It
   Understanding this distinction is the beginning of every transformation.
2. The Nervous System Is Wired for Familiarity, Not Fulfillment
   If you're conditioned to overgive, you’ll feel unsafe receiving until your body is reconditioned.
3. Selfishness Is Just a Triggered Word — Not a Truth
   What we call “selfish” is often just healthy boundaries and energetic reciprocity.
4. Deservedness, Expectation, and Receptivity Are Somatic
   You can’t out-think these — you have to feel and rewire them in the body.
5. You Were Built to Give — Now It’s Time to Learn to Receive
   Until you receive, your giving will always have a ceiling… and an expiration.

Notable Quotes

• “The greatest lie ever perpetuated in human history is that it’s better to give than receive.”
• “For almost my whole life, I was living as if these beliefs were true.”
• “Your nervous system has one task and one task only — and that’s to keep you alive.”
• “The limitation of our expectation is what we do feel that we do deserve.”
• “I deserve what I want. I expect what I want. I receive what I want — because I’m worth what I want.”

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If you’re bumping into the ceiling of what you feel you deserve, expect, or can receive — there’s nervous system work to do.
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In this episode, Mike explores the hidden energetic truth behind the words “yes” and “no” — not just in your external decisions, but in your internal alignment. Through powerful stories, lived experiences, and embodiment of the Gene Keys, he reveals how trust, resistance, and commitment shape your reality. This is a raw and radiant conversation about creation, surrender, and what becomes possible when you stop forcing life and start saying yes to what you truly want.

Key Takeaways

1. You’re Always Saying Yes or No — Even When You’re Silent
   Every thought, emotion, and belief is either aligned with your desire… or with your resistance.
2. Trusting Life Is a Practice, Not a Personality Trait
   Mike didn’t always trust life — but experience taught him that life becomes supportive when you stop fighting it.
3. Creation Requires Clarity, Certainty, and Commitment
   This three-part formula is how you energetically become a match for what you desire.
4. You Are Always Creating — Whether You Know It or Not
   Saying “no” to your desires (by aligning with fear or doubt) is still a form of creation — just one you don’t want.
5. Life Is an Ally — But You Have to Let It Be
   When you stop getting in the way, life starts delivering what you’ve been wanting all along.

Notable Quotes

• “Embarrassment is this disconnect between your reality and your identity.”
• “We're either saying yes to what we want or to what we don't want.”
• “When we don't get in the way of life, life brings us what we need.”
• “99% commitment equals zero commitment.”
• “Say yes, only yes, to what you want — and no to everything else, including worry, doubt, and fear.”

Call to Action

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Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike unpacks the hidden link between what you want, what you expect, and what you actually allow into your life. If you've ever been stuck in massive action but still can't seem to receive what you desire, this conversation reveals the missing piece: deservedness. Mike walks through the creation process — clarity, certainty, and commitment — and reveals how feeling unworthy secretly sabotages your expectations. This one changes the game.

Key Takeaways

1. You Don’t Get What You Want — You Get What You Expect
   Expectation is not a mindset; it’s a nervous system calibration rooted in what you feel you deserve.
2. Deservedness Is the Ceiling of Manifestation
   If you don’t believe you deserve something, your body will reject it — no matter how badly you want it.
3. The Creation Process is Simple, But Not Easy
   Clarity, certainty, and commitment — but the real block is the story of what you’re allowed to have.
4. Self-Sabotage Is Just Expectation in Disguise
   When your external actions don’t match your internal deserving, you’ll unconsciously push it all away.
5. You Can Choose to Deserve It Now
   Worthiness isn’t earned — it’s chosen. And your life will respond the moment your energy shifts.

Notable Quotes

• “You can't always have what you want, but you'll always get what you expect.”
• “When you don't expect to get it, it's because you don't believe you deserve it.”
• “The limitation of our expectation is what we do feel that we do deserve.”
• “I decided to choose to deserve it and take any condition out of the equation.”
• “God is giving us whatever we feel we deserve. God's just waiting for us to raise our deservedness game.”

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Already in progress — join now and catch up inside.
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• Choose Your Destiny Live — Nov 14–15, St. Louis, MO
• Gateway to Freedom — Replays and speaker highlights coming soon

💥 Ready to expect more and receive fully?
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Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike gets brutally honest about the current season of life and business — and what it feels like when things aren’t clicking like they used to. With vulnerable reflection and zero ego protection, he shares how embarrassment surfaced, what it revealed about identity, and why surrendering to reality is the path to true peace. If you’ve ever been caught between who you thought you were and what life is actually showing you… this one’s for you.

Key Takeaways

1. Teach From Messiness, Not Mastery
   Real leadership is built in honesty. Vulnerability liberates the teacher and the listener.
2. Embarrassment Is a Signal — Not a Shame
   When you feel embarrassment, it's pointing to a false identity you’ve been clinging to.
3. Identity Is Not Reality
   Building a self-concept around outcomes is a trap — especially when those outcomes change.
4. There Is No Winning a War With the Present Moment
   Resistance creates suffering. Surrender creates peace, joy, and integrity.
5. You Don’t Need It to Be Bigger — You Need It to Be Real
   The soul doesn’t want quantity. It wants honesty, alignment, and service.

Notable Quotes

• “You know, I like to say that I teach from messiness, not mastery.”
• “Embarrassment is this disconnect between your reality and your identity.”
• “In a battle between identity and reality, we can either keep doubling and tripling down on trying to make reality look like this identity we’ve built… or we get to let go of the identity.”
• “There’s a saying that a truly humble human being cannot be embarrassed.”
• “Please understand, at this point, I don’t have everything figured out — and that’s why I teach from messiness and not mastery.”

Call to Action

🧘‍♂️ Monkify Your Money Game — 5-Week Nervous System Training
Live virtual intensive — Already in motion, but you can still join.
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📘 Inner World, Outer World — The Book
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Mike closes out the event with truth, fire, and nervous system liberation. Check out the details here!

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike revisits the five financial archetypes and breaks open the next evolution of money mastery: Monkify Your Money Game. You’ll hear what each archetype looks like in the body, how the nervous system keeps people trapped in familiar financial patterns, and why monkifying your money isn’t about more hustle — it’s about nervous system peace, prosperity, and overflow. This episode is both invitation and ignition for the next level of your money game.

Key Takeaways

1. You’re Wired for the Money You Currently Have
   Every financial circumstance in your life is a match to your nervous system’s calibration.
2. There Are Five Financial Archetypes
   Debt Dweller → Tightrope Walker → Margin Manager → Stressed Success → Money Monk.
3. Your Nervous System Craves Familiarity, Not Prosperity
   Most people aren’t afraid of success — they’re afraid of unfamiliar safety.
4. Overflow Feels Unsafe if You’ve Never Had It
   Even high earners can crash their lives because their bodies reject margin and peace.
5. You Can Rewire Your Financial Frequency
   Through meditation, shadow work, and embodiment practices, your system can evolve.

Notable Quotes

• “Your nervous system, your ego, and your subconscious are all the same things.”
• “You can't lose. You're going to ascend in your nervous system level. You're going to ascend the scale of consciousness, and you're going to ascend your financial archetype.”
• “Your nervous system is built for survival by staying in familiar circumstances, because it knows how to operate there.”
• “Even the webinar, even the webinar — that alone is going to help you understand why you are where you are.”
• “I want to move the needle with you… I’ve got training and I’ve got insights and I’ve got tools that will help move the needle in your life.”

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October 8, 2025 @ 6 PM CST
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Starts October 13, 2025
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Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike breaks down one of the most important — and misunderstood — principles of manifestation: you don’t get what you want… you get what you expect. He dives deep into how expectations are wired into your nervous system, why your ego, subconscious, and body are the same thing, and how negative expectations sabotage success even when you’re doing everything “right.” This is a masterclass in energetic alignment and internal reprogramming — straight from the front lines of personal evolution.

Key Takeaways

1. You Don’t Get What You Want — You Get What You Expect
   Until your nervous system believes it’s safe to receive, it will sabotage anything that doesn’t feel familiar.
2. Your Nervous System, Ego, and Subconscious Are All the Same Thing
   They're just different words for the same internal wiring — the filter through which you create reality.
3. Your Nervous System Was Formed Before You Could Choose
   Childhood beliefs and family patterns shaped your expectations — and they still run the show.
4. Self-Sabotage Is Just Expectation Misalignment
   If you want more than you expect to receive, you’ll subconsciously push it away when it shows up.
5. The Work Is in the Body
   Shadow work, meditation, future embodiment — these aren’t mindset tools, they’re nervous system tools.

Notable Quotes

• “You can't have whatever you want, because you get what you expect.”
• “Your nervous system, your ego, and your subconscious are all the same things.”
• “If you're used to struggling financially, your nervous system literally wants to keep you there because it knows how to operate there.”
• “What I haven't done a great job of is, what do you want? And then dig a layer deeper and say, listen — what do you really expect to have?”
• “In the battle between your wants and your expectations, your expectations will win every time.”

Call to Action

📘 Inner World, Outer World is available now on Amazon —
This book is the map. Your nervous system is the terrain.
👉 Order Now

🔥 Upcoming Experiences:

• Monkify Your Money Game – Starts October 13. Click here for more details and to register. 
• Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive – November 14–15, St. Louis, MO. Click here for more details and to register.

This is where the dream becomes real.

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike reflects on a whirlwind few weeks of book launches, live intensives, retreats, speaking events, and deep nervous system rewiring. From St. Louis to Park City, from tears in shadow work to full-body breakthroughs, this is a raw and honest look at what it really means to be in momentum, hold power, and lead people into their next evolution. If you’ve been watching from the sidelines, it’s time to jump in. This is your invitation.

Key Takeaways

1. Workshops Are Powerful — But Retreats Go Deeper
   When trust is built and safety is established, the nervous system opens — and transformation begins.
2. Meditation Is the Entry Point to Rewiring Your Reality
   Each practice (body scan, future embodiment, shadow work, and the final journey) rewires your capacity to hold power.
3. The Nervous System Can’t Hold What It Doesn’t Feel Safe With
   The reason people sabotage wealth, success, and love is because their body can’t safely hold the frequency.
4. Shadow Work Isn’t About Suffering — It’s About Freedom
   When you feel what you’ve been avoiding, the emotional pressure starts to release and your life starts to shift.
5. This Is Transformational Work — Not Motivational Hype
   The Inner Wealth path is about changing who you are at your core, not just getting fired up and falling back down.

Notable Quotes

• “I've never seen so many tears in my life — and that’s because of the safety.”
• “These two days are an energetic reset.”
• “If you've never been to my workshop, get your ass to the workshop.”
• “You're not creating that emotion in your body — you're revealing it.”
• “This is rebirthing the emotional system, the mental system, the self-concept of who you are.”

Call to Action

📘 Inner World, Outer World is available now on Amazon — and it’s changing lives every single day. Order the Book

🔥 Upcoming Events & Offers:

• Monkify Your Money Game – 5-week virtual workshop begins October 13. Learn more here.
• Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive – November 14–15 in St. Louis, MO. Learn more here.
• Gateway to Freedom Conference – October (Mike speaking live). Learn more here.

🎯 Want to talk about where to start or what’s next for you?
 📩 Email Mike directly: [email protected]

Let’s rewire your life from the inside out.

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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