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In this episode, Mike unpacks the hidden link between what you want, what you expect, and what you actually allow into your life. If you've ever been stuck in massive action but still can't seem to receive what you desire, this conversation reveals the missing piece: deservedness. Mike walks through the creation process — clarity, certainty, and commitment — and reveals how feeling unworthy secretly sabotages your expectations. This one changes the game.

Key Takeaways

1. You Don’t Get What You Want — You Get What You Expect
   Expectation is not a mindset; it’s a nervous system calibration rooted in what you feel you deserve.
2. Deservedness Is the Ceiling of Manifestation
   If you don’t believe you deserve something, your body will reject it — no matter how badly you want it.
3. The Creation Process is Simple, But Not Easy
   Clarity, certainty, and commitment — but the real block is the story of what you’re allowed to have.
4. Self-Sabotage Is Just Expectation in Disguise
   When your external actions don’t match your internal deserving, you’ll unconsciously push it all away.
5. You Can Choose to Deserve It Now
   Worthiness isn’t earned — it’s chosen. And your life will respond the moment your energy shifts.

Notable Quotes

• “You can't always have what you want, but you'll always get what you expect.”
• “When you don't expect to get it, it's because you don't believe you deserve it.”
• “The limitation of our expectation is what we do feel that we do deserve.”
• “I decided to choose to deserve it and take any condition out of the equation.”
• “God is giving us whatever we feel we deserve. God's just waiting for us to raise our deservedness game.”

Call to Action

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💥 Ready to expect more and receive fully?
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In this episode, Mike gets brutally honest about the current season of life and business — and what it feels like when things aren’t clicking like they used to. With vulnerable reflection and zero ego protection, he shares how embarrassment surfaced, what it revealed about identity, and why surrendering to reality is the path to true peace. If you’ve ever been caught between who you thought you were and what life is actually showing you… this one’s for you.

Key Takeaways

1. Teach From Messiness, Not Mastery
   Real leadership is built in honesty. Vulnerability liberates the teacher and the listener.
2. Embarrassment Is a Signal — Not a Shame
   When you feel embarrassment, it's pointing to a false identity you’ve been clinging to.
3. Identity Is Not Reality
   Building a self-concept around outcomes is a trap — especially when those outcomes change.
4. There Is No Winning a War With the Present Moment
   Resistance creates suffering. Surrender creates peace, joy, and integrity.
5. You Don’t Need It to Be Bigger — You Need It to Be Real
   The soul doesn’t want quantity. It wants honesty, alignment, and service.

Notable Quotes

• “You know, I like to say that I teach from messiness, not mastery.”
• “Embarrassment is this disconnect between your reality and your identity.”
• “In a battle between identity and reality, we can either keep doubling and tripling down on trying to make reality look like this identity we’ve built… or we get to let go of the identity.”
• “There’s a saying that a truly humble human being cannot be embarrassed.”
• “Please understand, at this point, I don’t have everything figured out — and that’s why I teach from messiness and not mastery.”

Call to Action

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📘 Inner World, Outer World — The Book
Amazon bestseller. Life-changer. Straight talk on nervous system and soul.
Order your copy here!

🎤 Gateway to Freedom — Mike’s Speaking Event this weekend!
Mike closes out the event with truth, fire, and nervous system liberation. Check out the details here!

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike revisits the five financial archetypes and breaks open the next evolution of money mastery: Monkify Your Money Game. You’ll hear what each archetype looks like in the body, how the nervous system keeps people trapped in familiar financial patterns, and why monkifying your money isn’t about more hustle — it’s about nervous system peace, prosperity, and overflow. This episode is both invitation and ignition for the next level of your money game.

Key Takeaways

1. You’re Wired for the Money You Currently Have
   Every financial circumstance in your life is a match to your nervous system’s calibration.
2. There Are Five Financial Archetypes
   Debt Dweller → Tightrope Walker → Margin Manager → Stressed Success → Money Monk.
3. Your Nervous System Craves Familiarity, Not Prosperity
   Most people aren’t afraid of success — they’re afraid of unfamiliar safety.
4. Overflow Feels Unsafe if You’ve Never Had It
   Even high earners can crash their lives because their bodies reject margin and peace.
5. You Can Rewire Your Financial Frequency
   Through meditation, shadow work, and embodiment practices, your system can evolve.

Notable Quotes

• “Your nervous system, your ego, and your subconscious are all the same things.”
• “You can't lose. You're going to ascend in your nervous system level. You're going to ascend the scale of consciousness, and you're going to ascend your financial archetype.”
• “Your nervous system is built for survival by staying in familiar circumstances, because it knows how to operate there.”
• “Even the webinar, even the webinar — that alone is going to help you understand why you are where you are.”
• “I want to move the needle with you… I’ve got training and I’ve got insights and I’ve got tools that will help move the needle in your life.”

Call to Action

Free Training – Monkify Your Money Game
October 8, 2025 @ 6 PM CST
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Monkify Your Money Game – 5-Week Live Virtual Intensive
Starts October 13, 2025
Train directly with Mike. Meditations, nervous system work, coaching, and radical financial evolution.
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📘 Inner World, Outer World is available now — the blueprint to unlock the life you’re built for.
👉 Order on Amazon

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike breaks down one of the most important — and misunderstood — principles of manifestation: you don’t get what you want… you get what you expect. He dives deep into how expectations are wired into your nervous system, why your ego, subconscious, and body are the same thing, and how negative expectations sabotage success even when you’re doing everything “right.” This is a masterclass in energetic alignment and internal reprogramming — straight from the front lines of personal evolution.

Key Takeaways

1. You Don’t Get What You Want — You Get What You Expect
   Until your nervous system believes it’s safe to receive, it will sabotage anything that doesn’t feel familiar.
2. Your Nervous System, Ego, and Subconscious Are All the Same Thing
   They're just different words for the same internal wiring — the filter through which you create reality.
3. Your Nervous System Was Formed Before You Could Choose
   Childhood beliefs and family patterns shaped your expectations — and they still run the show.
4. Self-Sabotage Is Just Expectation Misalignment
   If you want more than you expect to receive, you’ll subconsciously push it away when it shows up.
5. The Work Is in the Body
   Shadow work, meditation, future embodiment — these aren’t mindset tools, they’re nervous system tools.

Notable Quotes

• “You can't have whatever you want, because you get what you expect.”
• “Your nervous system, your ego, and your subconscious are all the same things.”
• “If you're used to struggling financially, your nervous system literally wants to keep you there because it knows how to operate there.”
• “What I haven't done a great job of is, what do you want? And then dig a layer deeper and say, listen — what do you really expect to have?”
• “In the battle between your wants and your expectations, your expectations will win every time.”

Call to Action

📘 Inner World, Outer World is available now on Amazon —
This book is the map. Your nervous system is the terrain.
👉 Order Now

🔥 Upcoming Experiences:

• Monkify Your Money Game – Starts October 13. Click here for more details and to register. 
• Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive – November 14–15, St. Louis, MO. Click here for more details and to register.

This is where the dream becomes real.

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike reflects on a whirlwind few weeks of book launches, live intensives, retreats, speaking events, and deep nervous system rewiring. From St. Louis to Park City, from tears in shadow work to full-body breakthroughs, this is a raw and honest look at what it really means to be in momentum, hold power, and lead people into their next evolution. If you’ve been watching from the sidelines, it’s time to jump in. This is your invitation.

Key Takeaways

1. Workshops Are Powerful — But Retreats Go Deeper
   When trust is built and safety is established, the nervous system opens — and transformation begins.
2. Meditation Is the Entry Point to Rewiring Your Reality
   Each practice (body scan, future embodiment, shadow work, and the final journey) rewires your capacity to hold power.
3. The Nervous System Can’t Hold What It Doesn’t Feel Safe With
   The reason people sabotage wealth, success, and love is because their body can’t safely hold the frequency.
4. Shadow Work Isn’t About Suffering — It’s About Freedom
   When you feel what you’ve been avoiding, the emotional pressure starts to release and your life starts to shift.
5. This Is Transformational Work — Not Motivational Hype
   The Inner Wealth path is about changing who you are at your core, not just getting fired up and falling back down.

Notable Quotes

• “I've never seen so many tears in my life — and that’s because of the safety.”
• “These two days are an energetic reset.”
• “If you've never been to my workshop, get your ass to the workshop.”
• “You're not creating that emotion in your body — you're revealing it.”
• “This is rebirthing the emotional system, the mental system, the self-concept of who you are.”

Call to Action

📘 Inner World, Outer World is available now on Amazon — and it’s changing lives every single day. Order the Book

🔥 Upcoming Events & Offers:

• Monkify Your Money Game – 5-week virtual workshop begins October 13. Learn more here.
• Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive – November 14–15 in St. Louis, MO. Learn more here.
• Gateway to Freedom Conference – October (Mike speaking live). Learn more here.

🎯 Want to talk about where to start or what’s next for you?
 📩 Email Mike directly: [email protected]

Let’s rewire your life from the inside out.

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Angie Kitko is joined by Kara Dossey — team backbone, soul sciences nerd, charcuterie artist, and client experience queen — for a heart-forward conversation recorded live at the Inner Wealth Mastermind Retreat in Park City, Utah. From grief and growth to party planning and personality tests, this one is a full-circle celebration of healing, friendship, sisterhood, and soul work.

Key Takeaways

1. This Journey Started with Grief
   Kara’s transformation began after losing her father — and it cracked open everything.
2. Healing Is a Return to Self-Love
   From burnout and codependence to autonomy and wholeness, it’s all about coming back to yourself.
3. The Work Doesn’t Have to Be Heavy
   Deep inner work can coexist with Taylor Swift dance breaks and meat flowers.
4. When You Heal, You Find Family
   Kara didn’t just join a business — she found a tribe, a rhythm, and real belonging.
5. Soul Sciences Aren’t a Gimmick
   They’re the blueprint for helping big-energy visionaries bring their work into form.

Notable Quotes

• “I love people telling me, I need you to do ABCD, and I love checking it off the list. Like I thrive on it.”
• “I miss my dad, but like him dying also was one of the best things to happen to me because it allowed me to be who I am right now.”
• “You are more like my little sister… which people also think. They think we are sisters.”
• “I started showing up on all of the mastermind calls and I really started just to lean in — and it just changed my life.”
• “Our retreats can get wild, guys… They don't get too wild, but we try to dance. Staying young. We're dancing. We're having fun.”

Call to Action

📘 Mike's new book, Inner World, Outer World is available now on Amazon!
Order your copy and start the work that will change your life.
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🔥 Want to experience this magic in person?
 Join us for the Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive, November 14–15 outside St. Louis, MO.
Client breakthroughs. Real community. And yes, meat flowers.
👉 Save Your Seat

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike introduces five financial archetypes that reflect the nervous system’s relationship to money, pressure, and success. These archetypes reveal unconscious financial blueprints — from constant debt and scarcity, to peace, overflow, and embodied wealth. Mike walks through each archetype, their behaviors, and how to transcend them using shadow work, gratitude, and future embodiment. If you're ready to stop repeating the same financial cycles, this episode is your roadmap to freedom.

Key Takeaways

1. Your Nervous System Controls Your Financial Reality
   Every financial pattern you live is hardwired into your body — and your body will only allow what it feels safe to hold.
2. There Are Five Financial Archetypes
   The Debt Dweller, Tightrope Walker, Margin Manager, Stressed Success, and Money Monk — each built on different nervous system wiring.
3. You Must Rewire Your Inner World to Change Your Outer World
   Until you shift your internal signal, you’ll keep recreating the same financial patterns.
4. Shadow Work Heals the Past
   Releasing internal conflict, scarcity, and trauma liberates you from unconscious limitations.
5. Gratitude and Future Embodiment Anchor New Realities
   Present gratitude and future state practice retrain your nervous system for overflow and peace.

Notable Quotes

• “Your central nervous system is exactly wired for the circumstances that you keep creating in your life.”
• “You are wired. Our nervous system, our money blueprint is wired for margin.”
• “They look successful, but they don’t feel successful. They feel like it’s all about to fall apart.”
• “He has created immense wealth — and not only is he wealthy on the outside, he’s wealthy on the inside.”
• “We live in an unlimited universe, but the only limitation we have is in our nervous system.”

Call to Action

📘 Inner World, Outer World is available now on Amazon.
Do the exercises, shift your signal, and move from survival to overflow.
👉 Order Here

🔥 Registration is now open for the Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive – happening November 14–15 just outside St. Louis, MO.
Two days of nervous system rewiring, shadow work, and full-body breakthroughs.
👉 Reserve Your Spot

Break the financial blueprint. Become the money monk.

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike shares a recurring theme that’s shown up across clients, conversations, and communities: “As soon as I get over the hump, I’ll finally be able to breathe.” With raw insight and deep spiritual guidance, Mike unpacks why that belief keeps you stuck in cycles of chaos and why real peace doesn’t come from solving problems — but from rewiring the nervous system and mastering your inner world. This is a wake-up call for anyone chasing external relief instead of building inner freedom.

Key Takeaways

1. Life Moves in Themes, Cycles, and Patterns
   We’re not alone in what we’re facing — the same energies show up in different forms for all of us.
2. You Don’t Need the Next Thing to Breathe
   If your inner world stays in chaos, your external life will keep inviting more chaos.
3. Your Personality Creates Your Personal Reality
   Thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and preferences — these form your internal environment and shape your world.
4. Rewiring the Nervous System Changes Everything
   Until you shift the inner signal, you’ll keep recreating the same patterns and pressures.
5. Peace Is a Skill, Not a Circumstance
   Mastering your internal world is the path to sustainable freedom — no matter what’s happening around you.

Notable Quotes

• “As soon as I get over the hump of this challenge, then I’ll finally be able to breathe again… and I said, yeah, yeah, I don’t think so.”
• “He is not wired for peace and harmony and freedom. He is wired for chaos.”
• “If you want to understand what’s happening inside of you, look at your circumstances.”
• “You literally experience your life and you create your life from what’s happening in your nervous system.”
• “Nothing outside of you is real. It’s just an out picturing and a projection of who you are. Change who you are and everything in your life will change — only every single time.”

Call to Action

Inner World, Outer World is available now on Amazon —
This isn’t just a book. It’s a complete framework for rewiring your nervous system and transforming your reality. Order Here

Join us in person at the Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive — November 14-15, 2025 in St. Charles, MO.
You’ll shift your internal signal, release what no longer serves, and walk out broadcasting a new frequency. Reserve Your Seat

Stop waiting to get over the hump. Rewire the pattern now.

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike and Angie reflect on the launch of Inner World, Outer World — the book, the party, and the process that brought it all to life. They share what made this launch different from 2019’s The Imposter in Charge, how sobriety and receivership changed everything, and why this moment feels like a full-circle homecoming. This episode is celebration, testimony, and deep personal revelation — all in one.

Key Takeaways

1. The Book Launch Was a Celebration of Becoming
   Not just a launch, but a sacred ceremony to honor transformation.
2. Sobriety Made Space for Presence
   This launch was experienced clean — awake, grounded, and open to joy.
3. The Business Had to Realign to Truth
   After the explosive growth of 2023, realignment became necessary — and liberating.
4. Community Carried the Moment
   Sponsors, students, friends, and allies made this event unforgettable.
5. Receivership Is the Next Evolution
   From giving endlessly to allowing love and support to fully land.

Notable Quotes

• “I was in and out of sobriety. I was in and out of recovery. I had one more relapse after that, I believe.”
• “We actually had a book signing at a Barnes and Noble or something like that… I opened a bag and I found a bottle of pills.”
• “This one was different. This one was a lot different.”
• “We let people love us. That was the win.”
• “The working title for my next book is Built to Give, Rebuilt to Receive.”

Call to Action

Inner World, Outer World is available now on Amazon.
 This is the book that reflects your inner journey — and transforms your outer reality.
 Order Here

More seats have opened for the Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive — August 22–23 in St. Charles, MO.
 Join us in person and do the work that sets you free.
 Save Your Seat

Let your inner world lead. Let your next level rise.

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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In this episode, Mike dives fully into the power of the central nervous system and how it shapes your entire life. From survival states like insecurity, inadequacy, and insignificance to the pure creative power of inspiration, Mike unpacks the role your nervous system plays in your business, relationships, self-worth, and peace. If you’ve ever chased success to soothe your pain, this episode will help you understand why nothing external can bring relief — and how to finally release what’s trapped inside.

Key Takeaways

1. Your Nervous System Drives Everything
   What you believe, how you feel, what you accept, and what you receive is filtered through your nervous system.
2. Most Entrepreneurs Are Building from Survival
   Insecurity, inadequacy, and insignificance drive the majority of performance, but never bring peace.
3. You Can’t Outperform a Wounded Nervous System
   You can grow revenue and still wake up in cold sweats if your nervous system stays wired for fear.
4. You Can Rewire It All
   Through presence, drilling, and shadow work, you can release the pain of the past and rewire for inspiration and creation.
5. Master Your Body — Not Just Your Business
   If your emotions rise and fall with your bank account, you’re not free — you’re enslaved.

Notable Quotes

• “Most people are looking to rearrange external circumstances to overcome a nervous system full of suffering.”
• “Your central nervous system is playing a much bigger role in the quality of your life than you might think it is.”
• “The bank account didn’t create the emotion — it revealed it.”
• “If your emotions go up and down with your bank account, you’re not money’s master — you’re money’s bitch.”
• “As you let go of insecurity, inadequacy, and insignificance, inspiration naturally takes over.”

Call to Action

If you’re done living from fear,
 If you’re tired of chasing success just to escape pain,
 If you’re ready to feel peace in your body that matches the profit in your bank account…

🔥 Click here to Join us for the Choose Your Destiny Live Intensive — August 22–23
🔥 Click here to Pre-order the new book, Inner World, Outer World, launching August 19th
🔥 Click here to Start rewiring today with the Meditation Bundle at innerwealthglobal.com

Manage your body separate from your business.
Rewire your nervous system — and master your life.

Music Credit: "What's Left of Me" by Wes Hoffman & Friends

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