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I posted a video recently about how my wife reached for the check on our first date—and how much that meant to me. EVEN THOUGH I still paid, the fact that she didn't just expect me to cover it said a lot about her character. But apparently, that hit a nerve.
The comment section BLEW UP with people arguing, some saying a "real man" should always pay, others saying it should be split, and some just straight-up mad at the idea of a woman reaching for the check at all.
So, in today's episode, I want to break this down. Why do people get so triggered over this? Does paying for dinner define masculinity? What does this actually say about expectations in modern relationships?
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By Cole DaSilva5
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I posted a video recently about how my wife reached for the check on our first date—and how much that meant to me. EVEN THOUGH I still paid, the fact that she didn't just expect me to cover it said a lot about her character. But apparently, that hit a nerve.
The comment section BLEW UP with people arguing, some saying a "real man" should always pay, others saying it should be split, and some just straight-up mad at the idea of a woman reaching for the check at all.
So, in today's episode, I want to break this down. Why do people get so triggered over this? Does paying for dinner define masculinity? What does this actually say about expectations in modern relationships?
MY CLOTHING, CHECK OUT: https://amarokaesthetics.com/
CHECK ME OUT ON OTHER SOCIALS: IG = https://www.instagram.com/coleluisdasilva/
TIKTOK = https://www.tiktok.com/@coleluisdasilva/
WAKE UP WITH THE WOLF PODCAST:
APPLE = https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wake-up-with-the-wolf/id1533545890
SPOTIFY = https://open.spotify.com/show/6cOLgWolq6mkOnvNesuTDc?si=8b3c4f153a264e9a

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