Reinvention Room with Allison Hare

EP84: Grieve Better with Libby Carstensten


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Host Allison Hare interviews Grieve Better Podcast host, Libby Carstensten, speaker, grief coach and yoga instructor, who is teaching people how to validate emotions and get better at feeling them

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Show breakdown:

  • Libby’s journey through grief [2:00]
  • Libby’s deep insights  [11:12]
  • 45 types of grief [15:29]
  • Toxic positivity [20:15]
  • Feeling it all [28:48]
  • Invalidating people’s experiences [39:29]
  • Normal vs. familiar [44:00]
  • Working with people’s intense emotions [50:23]
  • Permission to feel [55:20]
  • Quotes: 

    • “We are not promised tomorrow, the only moment we have is the one we are in” - Libby Carstensten
    • “Unresolved grief is usually unmet hopes and expectations for life” - Libby Carstensten
    • “To live fully really means to allow things to die; not just people but jobs, friendships, relationships with money” - Libby Carstensten
    • “Grief is about being able to hold conflicting feelings… We don’t have to choose one or the other. We actually have the capacity to hold both” - Libby Carstensten
    • “It’s not about feeling better, it's about getting better at feeling” - Libby Carstensten
    • “Any type of suffering leads us to heart awakening” - Libby Carstensten
    • “When you choose to press pause or numb out, do it while paying attention” - Libby Carstensten
    • “The physical relationship ends but the emotional relationship doesn’t” - Libby Carstensten
    • “Grievers don’t want to be fixed, they want to be heard” - Libby Carstensten
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      Libby Carstensten Links:

      • Libby Carstensten website: https://www.libbyc.com
      • Instagram: @libberated
      • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/libberated/
      • Linked-In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/libbycarstensen
      • Email Libby: [email protected]
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        Libby’s book recommendations:

        • The Grief Recovery Method Handbook https://www.griefrecoverymethod.com/books/grief-recovery-handbook
        • When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times - Pema Chodron https://www.amazon.com/When-Things-Fall-Apart-Difficult/dp/1611803438
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