Parent Like A Psychologist

Episode 116: Why Your Child Won’t Try New Things - And How to Help Them Gently Build Flexibility


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Does your child burst into tears when dinner looks different, refuse a birthday party invite, or panic at the thought of trying swimming lessons? You’re not alone — and it’s not stubbornness or “bad behaviour.” In this episode, we unpack what’s really going on when kids resist new experiences and how you can support them with compassion and confidence.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
The real reason behind inflexibility — why children with autism, ADHD, anxiety, or sensitive temperaments crave sameness and find change so overwhelming.
🧠 The mindset shift parents need to better understand their child’s reactions and reduce conflict.
🧺 Why prevention is 90% of the work when it comes to behaviour — and what to do before tricky moments happen.
🧒 Practical strategies to gently build flexibility, including:
• Offering meaningful control and choices
• Using visuals, social stories, and play-based exposure
• Introducing small, manageable steps that reduce anxiety
• Celebrating tiny wins to build confidence
💛 How to respond calmly in the moment — with empathy, coaching, and connection (not pressure)
💬 The exact language to validate your child’s feelings, reduce fear, and encourage resilience
🌱 Why progress — not perfection — is the goal when supporting a child who finds new things hard

If your child struggles with change, unpredictability, anxiety, or big feelings, this episode will help you understand them more deeply and guide them forward with kindness.

You’ll walk away with tools to:
✔ Prevent overwhelm and meltdowns before they happen
✔ Support your child to try new things at their pace
✔ Build their emotional skills, courage, and resilience over time

For parents wanting extra support in teaching these skills at home, I also share how we can work together through Chaos to Calm.

Press play to feel calmer, more confident, and equipped to help your child approach new experiences with courage — one small step at a time.

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