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Episode 139: Nick Pollard - The Problem With People-Pleasing


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Nick Pollard, "The People Displeaser," is a speaker and life coach who advocates for honest, authentic living through mindful boundaries, free of people-pleasing.

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(00:00) Intro

(01:00) When Nick's was homicidal and suicidal

(04:09) Nick's father

(09:10) How Nick got his life together

(18:08) Why Nick focuses on people-pleasing

(23:25) Symptoms of a people-pleaser

(26:44) Why do people become people-pleasers?

(31:23) Your rules for life and a personal bill of rights

(37:23) Establishing personal boundaries

(42:39) Confronting fear and quotes from Jim Hollis

(49:16) People-pleasers often have few same-sex friends

(57:11) When should former people-pleasers leave relationships?

(01:09:15) Nick's relationship deal-breakers

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