What can we learn from our children as they grow up?

In this heartfelt episode of Whinypaluza Wednesday, host Rebecca Greene and her husband Seth reflect on the valuable life lessons they've learned from their middle child, Ella, who just turned 16. Rebecca shares how our children often become our greatest teachers, offering wisdom and perspective that can transform how we approach life's challenges. Through personal stories and honest reflections, this episode reminds parents that while we guide our children, they also have profound lessons to teach us.

Rebecca opens up about her journey as Ella's mother, from the unexpected early arrival that taught her flexibility to the daily examples of mindfulness and authenticity that Ella embodies. As her daughter reaches this milestone birthday, Rebecca shares how Ella's unique approach to life—her thoughtfulness, her ability to set boundaries, her individuality, and her unconditional love—has shaped Rebecca's growth as a person and parent. The conversation reveals how children can be mirrors, showing us our strengths and areas where we need to evolve.

Key Takeaways

✓ Life happens while you're making plans - Ella's premature birth and NICU stay taught Rebecca that flexibility and adaptability are essential parenting skills. Plans don't always unfold as expected, and that's okay.

✓ March to your own drum - Ella demonstrates the power of authenticity, choosing her path rather than following trends. From celebrating her birthday with a simple game night instead of an elaborate party to questioning information before accepting it, Ella shows the importance of thinking independently.

✓ Live in the moment - Ella's natural ability to be present—whether photographing something beautiful or truly listening to others—reminds her parents to slow down and appreciate what's happening right now instead of constantly racing to the next thing.

✓ Self-care is non-negotiable - Unlike her mom, who loves saying "yes" to everything, Ella models healthy boundary-setting by knowing when to rest, regroup, and decline activities that would deplete her energy. She prioritizes her needs without guilt.

✓ Be a fully present listener - Ella's exceptional listening skills make her a great daughter and a valued friend. She demonstrates that sometimes the most helpful response isn't advice but simply being fully attentive to what others say.

Quotes from the Episode

"Our kids are our greatest teachers, and my kids teach me so many lessons. I think they teach us as much as we teach them." — Rebecca Greene

"If I could go back, I would put things into such a different perspective for myself. The most important thing is that mom is okay and baby is okay." — Rebecca Greene

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