What makes a good mom? Discovering that you can handle more than you think.

In this special Mother's Day episode of Whinypaluza, host Rebecca Greene is interviewed by her 12-year-old daughter Lillie for a heartwarming and insightful conversation about motherhood, self-compassion, and family dynamics.

Rebecca shares her journey as a mother of three and offers powerful advice for parents struggling with perfectionism and burnout. Through candid questions from Lillie, Rebecca reveals what she's learned over 18 years of parenting and what she wishes she'd known from the start.

Key Takeaways:

→ Self-care isn't selfish: Rebecca explains how she initially thought being a good mom meant it had to be "all about the kids," but learned that taking time for herself actually makes her a better mother.

→ Compassion and grace are essential: Rebecca advises mothers to give themselves more compassion and stop expecting perfection from themselves, their homes, or their children.

→ Children's behavior is rarely personal: When kids act out, it's usually because they're having a hard time, not giving their parents a hard time. Rebecca emphasizes the importance of staying regulated to help children through difficult moments.

→ Focus on effort, not outcome: Rebecca discusses how she encourages her children to put in their best effort rather than focusing solely on grades or results.

 → Showing up consistently matters most: A good mom isn't perfect but shows up for herself and her kids, even when it's difficult, and keeps trying her best each day.

Memorable Quotes:

"I learned how strong I am. I learned how much I can handle." - Rebecca Greene on what motherhood taught her.

"A good mom shows up for herself and her kids. You don't have to do a good job, you don't have to be perfect, you just have to keep going and give it your best." - Rebecca Greene

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Tune in to Whinypaluza with Rebecca Greene to spend every day "laughing, learning, and loving" while gaining honest insights about parenting and life.

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