Why does December feel different this year and how do we find our footing when everything shifts?

Rebecca and Seth settle in for Whinypaluza Wednesday to talk about the emotional, messy, funny reality of a December that looks completely different from years past. With Max away at college, winter storms rolling in, traditions shifting, and a to-do list that seems to regenerate overnight, this episode walks through how to stay grounded and joyful even as your holiday season changes.

They explore sadness, nostalgia, new family rhythms, letting go of perfection, and how to stop making December a stress marathon. It is warm, relatable, and the perfect reminder that you get to design a holiday season that fits your life, not your expectations.

Six Key Takeaways:
→ Your December can change and still be meaningful
When kids get older or move away, traditions shift. You can reshape them with intention instead of pressure.

→ Less can feel like more
Fewer gifts. Fewer commitments. Fewer decorations. More peace. More joy. More presence.

→ Holiday emotions are real and valid
Sadness when saying goodbye. Relief when the storm passes. Gratitude when everyone is home again. All of it belongs.

→ Delegation is a holiday survival skill
Your kids can decorate. They can bake. They can help. You do not need to carry the whole season on your shoulders.

→ Ask yourself what you truly want to do and what you want to skip
Gingerbread houses might be a yes. Holiday cards might be a no. Give yourself permission to choose what supports your joy.

→ Quality time beats quantity with older kids
When your kids return from college, they want a connection. Conversations. Shows. Meals. Presence. This is the real gift of the season.

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