In this episode of HomeWord, Dr. Jim Burns welcomes back psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Morgan Cutlip. They dive into the true weight of the “mental load” in marriage, unpacking how this hidden burden shapes daily life and breaking down its three layers—physical, mental, and emotional—while highlighting why that final layer tends to fall heaviest on women. Dr. Cutlip offers practical guidance for couples on how to divide responsibilities, communicate without spiraling into conflict, and build trust so both partners feel supported. She also shares wisdom for dating or engaged couples as they prepare for future roles and expectations at home. Throughout the conversation, Jim and Morgan highlight how resentment can quietly erode intimacy—and how play, fun, and mutual esteem can reignite connection. This episode is a hopeful look at how understanding each other’s needs can lead to more joy, less friction, and a stronger partnership.

Resources:

• A Better Share: How Couples Can Tackle the Mental Load for More Fun, Less Resentment, and Great Sex by Morgan Cutlip
• Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself: 5 Steps for Busy Moms to Banish Guilt and Finally Beat Burnout by Morgan Cutlip
• Morgan Cutlip’s website
• HomeWord Podcast Episode 80-Love Your Kids Without Losing Yourself with Dr. Morgan Cutlip
• HomeWord.com 
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• Dr. Jim Burns’ Blogs
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• Embracing Your Season Podcast with Paige Clingenpeel

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• Doing Life With Your Adult Children
• Understanding Your Teen: Shaping Their Character, Facing Their Realities
• A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity: God’s Plan for Sex and Your Body

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