You don’t know what you don’t know - until you do.
And this month, we learned that nothing says “happy birthday, friend” quite like a handwritten card that’s been delicately seasoned with dog backwash... Parenthood really is the gift that keeps on giving!

In our November catch up, we chat through the birthday bedlam, the Christmas gifts we've not started purchasing, and the ongoing experiment of raising kids, horses and puppies... a combination we’re convinced should come with its own survival guide.

But woven through the laughs is something softer. With the recent loss of Valegro and Uthopia this week, we found ourselves talking about the horses - and reins - that have slipped through our fingers in more recent times. The ones who carried us, changed us, held our confidence when we couldn’t, and left us trying to recreate that connection again and again. You don’t realise how much a horse becomes part of your life story until you’re suddenly riding the trail without them.

We also get into the joys (and utter bamboozlement) of saddle fitting, the highs and lows of winter pony adventures, and the general juggling act of being equestrian mums trying to keep everyone - and ourselves - vaguely pointing in the right direction.

If you’re listening from the yard, on the school run, or hiding in the boot room for five minutes of peace, we hope this episode brings you a laugh, a nod of recognition, and maybe even a bit of comfort. We’re all learning as we go.

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💡 Top takeaways for this ride:

• Don't ever look up (or too closely at the ball pit contents) at a soft play...
• You don’t know what you don’t know - but you learn by giving it a go!
• You never stop chasing the feeling of that once-in-a-lifetime horse. And, that's ok. The next horse that finds you will be in your life for a reason.

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Early parents. A "late" rider. Perfect timing for sharing the support system we all need.

In this episode, we (your hosts, Katie & Sophie) sit down with amateur eventers - and "salt-of-the-earth" soul-boosters - Gareth Eva & Lucy Strong.

Gareth came to riding only four years ago during a mental health crisis; discovering horses as a lifeline for managing ADHD and rebuilding confidence. Lucy, meanwhile, has been "quietly" steering the family ship since day one - although, it's not always been the perfect picture we all imagine.

Together, they’ve raised their babbling babies to teens, built their riding journeys from scratch, and shown up for their community in ways that make the equestrian world feel kinder, lighter and a whole lot more human.

We chat about:

• 🐴 Starting young on the parenting front, and late in the saddle
• 🧠 Gareth’s mental health journey and how horses help him live with ADHD
• 🎥 Gareth's time on Horse & Country's All Star Academy (…and the heart palpitations that followed!)
• ❤️ What real support looks like at shows, at home, and in the saddle
• 😂 Arguments in the lorry park... and why communication saves the day
• 🌱 Building confidence, community and joy from the ground up

Warm, witty and wonderfully real; this is the "Strong-er Tog-Eva" story you didn’t know you needed!

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💡 Top takeaways for this ride:

• You can start riding (or start over) at any age, and it’s never too late to find your confidence.
• Horses can be a genuine lifeline, offering grounding, routine and support for mental health and ADHD (or neurodivergence).
• The right support system makes everything easier - from parenting to competing to simply enjoying your horse.

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Ho-ho-hold your horses... it’s our Christmas Gift Guide episode! 🎁🐴
Your loving hosts (Katie and Sophie) take the reins on festive shopping, sharing our tried-and-tested gift ideas for kids, young riders, horse lovers, and the unsung heroes who keep every equestrian mum going.

This episode canters through practical picks, pony-approved treats, thoughtful gestures, and budget-friendly gems, all peppered with personal stories, barn banter and the kind of puns that would make Santa snort into his cocoa.

Tune in for a jolly, jingling ride through the world of equestrian gifting… and remember: the best gift of all is your presence (but a new browband never hurts). 😉

🎄 Want the full mini-mag PDF with links, discounts and our partner picks?
Head to the Equestrian Mums Club website to download the complete Christmas Gift Guide and grab your exclusive codes!

(Psssst! Don't forget to sign up for the email newsletter whilst you're at it... so you're the first to hear more on the January Giveaway Series!!)

In this episode of the Equestrian Mums Club podcast, your resident ‘Calamity Janes’ (Katie & Sophie) saddle up for a wonderfully honest chat with BBC broadcaster, director, and producer Lizzie Greenwood-Hughes - about juggling horses, humans, and headlines!

We’re diving into the wild ride of equestrian life meets motherhood - from the emotional highs (and occasional mud-splattered lows) of competition, to how becoming a mum can shake up our confidence and sense of risk in the saddle.

Expect plenty of laughter, a few “been there” moments, and some seriously insightful takeaways about safety, self-care, and staying connected to the passion that keeps us all trotting on - our love for horses.

Lizzie also shares a few golden “Ask the Expert” nuggets from her (very impressive!) media career that we can bring straight into the stable. Because who doesn’t love a bit of pro-level pony wisdom?

🐴 PLUS! An exclusive sneak peek just for our listeners - Lizzie gives us the inside scoop on the upcoming Horse & Country All Star Academy series - now in it's sixth season; this year proudly sponsored by Blackfort Equestrian. Catch Episodes 1 & 2 exclusively on H&C+ from 20th November!

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💡 Top takeaways for this ride:

• Making time for your horse is vital for your sanity (and theirs!)
• Motherhood can totally shift your confidence and your view of risk - and that’s okay.
• Building your horse’s confidence is as important as building your own; it’s a team effort.

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This week, content creator and event rider, Lucy Robinson (aka Footluce Eventing) is joined by her trainer - and former 5* eventer - Justine Ward for a refreshingly honest (and often hilarious!) chat about horses, pregnancy and motherhood.

Lucy opens up about the highs and hurdles of expecting her first baby; including the tough decision to step back from riding after developing pelvic girdle pain early on in her pregnancy. Justine also reflects on her own pregnancies, birth stories and life as a mum of three; sharing the funny, unfiltered(!) moments that come with raising kids alongside horses.

Together they talk support through pregnancy, postnatal wobbles, and the truth about not always feeling “maternal”.

There’s some solid gold advice too: Justine’s mantra to “not overthink it”, Lucy’s refreshingly real outlook on pregnancy, and they provide some joint wisdom as they tackle our first ever listener-submitted Ask the Expert!

And yes... you can expect a Stable Confession (or two!) and plenty of laughter from this truly unruly gaggle of horse girls...

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💡 Key takeaways for you:

• Horses? Babies? Don't overthink it... just get to enjoying it, while you can!
• You are on your own timeline; nobody else's.
• It turns out... you can teach an old dog new tricks!

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Well, equestrian friends, winter is just about hitting us in the UK... *cue horror noises here* Send prayers and sacrifices to all the weather gods you believe in!

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In this episode of the Equestrian Mums Club podcast, we, your dutiful hosts (Katie Allen-Clarke and Sophie Conway) are discussing our latest triumphs and challenges in juggling parenthood and equestrian life. Get to know us and what we've been up to through the month of October - including trying to move house, managing toddler behaviour, and the horror (& confusion?!) that comes with Halloween preparations. We're also touching on the importance of safety around horses and the humorous mishaps that come with parenting whilst on the yard.

P.s. Want a sneak peek into our crystal ball with us?! The episode concludes with a teaser for upcoming guests and a special C-word episode (that's Christmas to you and I, kids!).

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💡 Key takeaways for you:

• Pumpkin picking in October? You do you! (We're confused, and maybe a tad stingy!)
• Sometimes you need a cry to your mum friends - we're all going through it.
• Toddlerhood = turmoil! For all involved. But, there's cute bits too, obvs.

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Heading back to work after maternity leave isn’t just about the job – it’s about learning to juggle nappies, meetings, and mucking out... all before lunchtime. In this episode, we chat about the realities of returning to work as an equestrian mum - from the emotional rollercoaster to the financial factors that shape our decisions.

You’ll hear honest reflections and community voice notes from us, and from EMC community mums finding their feet (and stirrups!) as they navigate childcare, careers, and the never-ending to-do list.

💡 Key takeaways for you:

• Every parent’s journey back to work is different; and that’s okay.

• Sharing your story helps normalise the struggle (we promise, everyone feels it!).

• Finances and feelings are often linked - don’t stress, you’re doing great.

  
  

So grab a cuppa and settle in for a chat that’s equal parts honest, supportive, and full of laughs - because no one said returning to work and riding would be easy with littles, but we’re in it together.

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This episode, we’re joined by the brilliant Bobby Hayler-Wright, who opens up about her journey from dressage stardom to motherhood - and what it really takes to find balance between mucking out, mum life, and maintaining her own identity.

Bobby chats about her early days in the sport, how her approach to fitness and competition has evolved post-baby, and the ever-present tug of mum guilt (we’ve all been there!).

She also discusses the importance of the support network around you, and how her parents, husband, neighbours and clients are all part of that community. She’s honest, funny, and refreshingly real about the juggle - reminding us all that it’s okay to slow down, adapt, and make space for ourselves along the way.

Whether you’re an expectant equestrian mum, already deep in the toddler trenches, or just trying to figure out how to get back in the saddle (literally or figuratively!), this one’s for you.

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In this episode of the Equestrian Mums Club podcast, your hosts, Katie and Sophie, return for a new season - sharing updates on our lives, discussing the challenges of parenting and equestrian life, and introducing new segments for the podcast. We're reflecting on some personal stories, the chaos of juggling family and horses, and the importance of community support. Welcome friends, to Season 2!

Key takeaways for this episode:

• Life is never linear; embrace the chaos!
• Community support is essential for equestrian parents - so make sure you're connecting with people on the same journey.

• New segments will bring fresh insights to the podcast - so... our listeners are encouraged to share their stories and experiences!

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Where else can you find a podcast that truly gives you the realest of deals...?! We promised to discuss with you the rough and the smooth of the pony parenting journey - and this episode is no different... From clingy babies to nervous sweat, personal hygiene chats, awkward toddler heckling and MUCH more.

And, we've got horsey challenges to scale too - from Katie's bitey yearling, to Sophie's puddle-phobic youngster and a few wild rides with Katie's ridden mare, Lottie.

We've chosen the equestrian parenting life, and it would seem that sanity has flown the nest as a result!

This episode, listeners, we're looking for your help with a few of our pony and parenting woes. Can you give us a helping hoof with any of the following topics? If so, let us know, and we could well be featuring you in an upcoming podcast episode!

• Hot topic 1: Biting in young horses (& how to stop it!)
• Hot topic 2: Training the young horse to embrace water
• Hot topic 3: Juggling the horse fitness and workload with limited time to train

As always, we so value our community's thoughts and experience - so please do get in touch... we'd love to hear from you!

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