In this episode of Submission Part 2: Boundaries, Triggers & Traumas, we confront one of the greatest deceptions shaping marriages and families today.Our generation is obsessed with therapy trends, self-protection, and man-made fictions. We’ve traded God’s design for psychological language that soothes the flesh but never heals the spirit.👉 Full disclosure therapy leaves you suspicious instead of healed.👉 Generational “no-contact” preaches estrangement instead of honor.👉 Boundaries have become fortresses of fear instead of standards of righteousness.But here’s the truth:God did not design you with triggers.Boundaries without the Spirit are strongholds.Sons and daughters of God should not be governed by trauma, but moved by the Spirit.We are raising up a culture of believers discipled by psychology instead of transformed by Scripture—and it’s leaving homes out of order, marriages broken, and covenants without peace.In this episode we unpack:✅ Why boundaries are today’s language for strongholds✅ Why unclean spirits and fools are the only ones “triggered” in Scripture✅ How submission is about consecration, not control✅ How to stop studying your spouse’s sin and start walking in God’s peaceThis is a prophetic warning and encouragement: your boundaries are giving power to your spouse’s sin. But the blood of Jesus has the final word.📖 Key Scriptures: 2 Timothy 1:7, James 3:18, Proverbs 3:5–6, Galatians 5:16, Philippians 4:6–9, 2 Corinthians 10:4–5

Most Christian marriages aren’t stuck because of communication issues, intimacy struggles, or personality differences.
They’re stuck because of disorder — rebellion against God’s design for marriage, leadership, submission, and covenant.

In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable reality:
You can’t pray for restoration while resisting the order God established for it.

➔ If you’re still clinging to control, you’re fighting God.
➔ If you’re manipulating outcomes, you’re delaying healing.
➔ If you refuse submission to God’s design, you’re forfeiting the very breakthrough you’re asking for.

We walk through how control and manipulation take root in marriages,
how submission has been distorted by culture and religion,
and why true biblical order is the key to deliverance, restoration, and generational blessing.

You’ll learn:

• Why biblical submission isn’t about domination or silence

• How rebellion subtly hardens your heart (even when you think you’re "protecting" yourself)

• How disorder in your home invites chaos, strife, and spiritual strongholds

• What it really means to walk in the power, strength, and covering of God’s order

If you’re tired of surface-level advice…
If you’re desperate to see real change in your marriage…
If you’re ready to confront the spiritual roots that are holding you back—

This episode is for you.

🎙️ Listen now — and let the Holy Spirit open your eyes to the order that unlocks restoration.

Your marriage wasn’t designed to be fruitless, barren, or broken. But if it feels that way, you need to know this—the enemy has been working overtime to keep it that way.

Satan blinds, seduces, and strangles marriages—stealing their spiritual sight, twisting their design, and keeping spouses trapped in cycles of strife, lack, and division. But God’s design has never changed.

In this episode, we’re exposing the real spiritual war over your marriage and why so many couples stay stuck in deception, false judgment, and unrepentance. We'll uncover:

• 🔥 How Satan steals spiritual sight to keep your marriage fruitless
• 🔥 The danger of delayed repentance and why you can’t afford to wait
• 🔥 How self-righteous judgment keeps you trapped in the old law
• 🔥 The difference between barrenness and pruning—and what God is actually doing in your marriage
• 🔥 Prophetic truth to break the enemy’s hold and restore God’s original design

If you’ve been pleading with God for breakthrough in your marriage but feel stuck, this episode is for you. It’s time to open your spiritual eyes, step into alignment with God’s design, and start bearing the fruit of righteousness.

Are You Labeling Your Spouse… Or Are They Spiritually Captured?

We are living in the times that 2 Timothy 4:3-4 warned us about—where people reject sound doctrine in favor of teachings that satisfy their itching ears. And right now, Satan is gaslighting marriages with false labels.

Many spouses believe they’re married to a narcissist, a Jezebel, or an Ahab—and while we won’t pretend these things don’t exist, we also won’t ignore the massive plague of deception surrounding these labels.

The truth? Most spouses aren’t married to a narcissist. They’re married to a spiritually captured individual—governed by the flesh, deceived by unclean spirits, and lacking the wisdom, knowledge, and understanding of Christ.

And if you’ve been exhausted in your stand for marriage restoration, it’s not because you’re standing—it’s because you’re accusing. Demonic work is tiring. Satan is using your therapists, pastors, friends, and biased research to keep you in accusation instead of intercession.

In this episode, we expose the spiritual conditions behind destructive behavior in marriage

• Double-mindedness – Divided in heart, torn between flesh and spirit
• Hardened hearts – Spiritually blind, calloused, and resistant to truth
• Dull minds – Losing the ability to discern and understand
• Divided sight – Operating in deception rather than clarity

Using Scripture, spiritual wisdom, and years of marriage coaching, we break down why these conditions are fueling marital destruction—and why the solution isn’t a worldly label, but the power of God to deliver, disciple, and restore.

This episode will challenge you. But if you’re ready to stop using Satan’s blueprint and start walking in biblical restoration, healing, and breakthrough, listen now.

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Is God ignoring your spouse’s sin, or are you still living under the old law? Many believers are unknowingly governed by the law—trained to look for what is wrong, what is missing, and what is not being upheld. This mindset fuels hyper-vigilance, hyper-criticism, and hyper-legalism, leaving many feeling exhausted, anxious, and spiritually stuck.

In this episode, we unpack how the law blinds you from what God is resurrecting, how spiritual discernment is necessary to see beyond the surface, and why transformation in marriage requires stepping into the new covenant. Through scripture and practical insight, we challenge the mindset that keeps marriages in bondage and explore how to walk in the Spirit, not the letter of the law.

Scriptures referenced: 1 Corinthians 15:56-57, 2 Corinthians 3:14-18, Galatians 2:19, Romans 7:6, Romans 8:14-17, James 3:13-18, and more.

For more resources on marriage restoration, visit MarriageRevivalHub.com.

Breaking Stubborn Strongholds in Marriage

In Season 2, Episode 2 of The Established Family Podcast, we tackle the topic of breaking the strongholds that affect every aspect of our lives—from our own minds and marriages to our families and future generations. This episode unpacks how false authority and entrenched spiritual deceptions create these fortresses and why many fail to recognize the need for active participation in dismantling them.

Drawing on powerful biblical passages (such as Psalm 18:2, Psalm 27:1, 2 Samuel 22:2-3, and 2 Corinthians 10:4) and the teachings of Jesus in Matthew 12:29, we explore:

• How to distinguish between the symptoms of sin and the underlying stronghold.
• Practical steps for walking in truth, repentance, obedience, and spiritual maturity.
• The importance of aligning with God—the true stronghold—to overcome every obstacle.

Whether you’re facing recurring challenges in your marriage or seeking deeper spiritual renewal, this episode offers practical insights and encouragement to break free and experience lasting restoration.

What if your stand for marriage isn’t as Godly as you think?Many spouses believe they’re standing in faith, waiting for God to restore their marriage—praying, repenting, and holding on. But what if faith alone isn’t enough? What if your stand has become an idol? What if your obedience is incomplete?In this episode, we’re breaking down the hidden dangers of standing for your marriage the wrong way. We’ll expose false stands that look spiritual but are actually rooted in disobedience, fear, and self-preservation. We’ll walk through biblical examples of people who thought they were following God but were actually resisting His will—and how to avoid making the same mistakes in your marriage restoration journey.This is the season of faithful standing—the kind that produces real fruit. But that requires more than hope. It requires action. It requires obedience. It requires truth.⚡ If you're serious about standing the right way, join the Marriage Revival Hub now at MarriageRevivalHub.com. Inside, you’ll find masterclasses, teachings, and a community of spouses fighting for marriage restoration the right way—with wisdom, discernment, and strategy.

In the final installment of The Jezebel Series, we’re diving deep into the emotional, mental, and spiritual dynamics that destroy marriages and uncovering the biblical blueprint for restoration. This episode is not just about recognizing what’s broken—it’s about contrasting it with God’s perfect design for marriage and family.

We’ll press on the uncomfortable truths and challenge the lies that keep you bound:

If you’ve been defensive, blame-shifting, or dismissing hard truths in your marriage, it’s time to compare the condition of your soul to what scripture says about God’s design for restoration. Because restoration isn’t about returning to brokenness or cycles of dysfunction—it’s about returning to covenant.

With a prayer inspired by Paul’s letter to the Colossians, we’ll guide you through how to realign with God’s will for your life, walk in moral courage and personal integrity, and uproot the lies of the enemy.

Let’s take an account of where our hearts and homes stand and declare freedom from the curses of domination, apathy, and narcissism that threaten to steal your legacy.

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MAKE SURE YOU STAY FOR THE END WHERE WE FORGIVE AND RELEASE in order to walk in FREEDOM from these SPIRITS!

In Part 2 of our deep dive into the Jezebel and Ahab spirits, we’re going beyond awareness and into action. If you've recognized the oppressive hold these spirits have on your marriage—or if you feel like the patterns of control, manipulation, or spiritual complacency are keeping you from true freedom—this episode is for you.

Today, we confront the strongholds directly, uncovering how these spirits embed themselves in our lives and marriages, and why only Godly authority can drive them out. Prepare to walk in the power and authority of your God-given identity as we break the chains of control, rejection, and false peace.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

1. The True Path to Spiritual Freedom in Marriage

2. Exposing the Tactics of Jezebel and Ahab in Relationships

3. Why Legalism and Therapy Can’t Heal Spiritual Oppression

4. Embracing Godly Authority and True Deliverance

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In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most challenging but essential topics in marriage restoration: exposing and breaking the Jezebel and Ahab spirits operating within relationships.

Many couples struggle without understanding the underlying spiritual influences driving division, control, and passivity in their marriage.

If you’re exhausted from feeling like you’re the only one fighting for God’s will in your marriage, or if you’ve hit a ceiling in your relationship, this episode is for you.

Together, we’ll uncover these powerful spirits that attack covenant, reveal the biblical truths about their influence, and walk through the path to reclaiming your marriage under God’s authority.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode: