The Guilt Girl

Even Sophie Makes Better Choices Than You: How To Stop People Pleasing In Decision Making


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In this episode, Grace Bithell discusses the complexities of decision-making, particularly in relation to people pleasing and the guilt that often accompanies choices. She emphasizes the importance of separating choices from their consequences and advocates for values-guided decision-making as a way to alleviate guilt. Grace also highlights the necessity of disappointment in life and relationships, encouraging listeners to embrace their values and make choices that align with them, even if it means disappointing others.

takeaways

  • People pleasing can lead to guilt and indecision.
  • Making choices often involves balancing personal desires with others' expectations.
  • Disappointment is a natural part of relationships and decision-making.
  • It's important to separate choices from their consequences to reduce guilt.
  • Values should guide decision-making rather than fear of disappointing others.
  • Understanding that not all hard consequences are bad can help in decision-making.
  • Radical acceptance of the imperfection in choices can lead to greater peace.
  • Identifying personal values can clarify decision-making processes.
  • Disappointing others can sometimes be necessary for personal growth.
  • It's essential to trust that loved ones will support you even when you disappoint them.
  • keywordspeople pleasing, decision making, consequences, values, self-sacrifice, relationships, choices, guilt, acceptance, commitment therapy

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