We’re living in a validation economy—where attention is measurable, approval is public, and absence feels loud. In that system, power stops being informational and starts being personal. That’s where fixation begins.

This episode continues last week’s conversation on power + projection, and takes it one layer deeper: how people accidentally turn leaders, mentors, communities, and “access” into idols—and why it almost always ends the same way: admiration → entitlement → rupture → villain.

We break down the neuroscience behind why social platforms (and modern business culture) amplify childhood wounds through intermittent reinforcement, and how that reward schedule trains your nervous system to scan, chase, and attach. Then we unpack the psychological mechanics that drive the spiral:

• Salience assignment (one person becomes “outsized” in your mind)

• Relief coupling (their attention lowers your tension; their absence spikes it)

• Meaning inflation (neutral signals become threatening)
  

You’ll also learn what I call idolatry without consent—when your expectations were never agreed to, but your nervous system acts like a contract exists anyway. That’s when disappointment hardens into moral certainty, and the idol becomes the abuser overnight.

I’m also giving you:

• 5 signs you’re slipping into fixation

• ELI questions to expose the blind spot before it costs you relationships, identity, or credibility (click HERE to download the PDF)

• 5 ways leaders can buffer damage early (roles, expectations, boundaries, and direct correction)
  

If you’re chasing proximity, visibility, or approval to feel safe—this episode will confront you. If you’ve been on the receiving end of someone else’s fixation—this episode will protect you.

Because eventually, idolatry requires a villain. So stop building pedestals you’ll later want to burn down.

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Power doesn’t “ruin” people. It reveals their childhood wounds.

In this episode of Decoded, Bizzie Gold breaks down power projection—what happens when authority, hierarchy, or feedback gets interpreted through unresolved identity wounds… and personal responsibility becomes unbearable.

You’ll learn why some people can zoom out, self-correct, and stay grounded in objective reality—while others collapse into splitting, victim narratives, and “toxic boss / narcissist / cult” labels the moment evaluation shows up.

This episode covers:

• Metacognition (thinking about your thinking) and why it’s the #1 trait of high performers

• Why “toxic environments” are often distorted relationships to power, not just abuse of power

• The Brain Pattern Spectrum: abandonment-oriented vs rejection-oriented attention styles

• Situational awareness vs reputation management (and how that changes everything in workplaces and relationships)

• Co-regulation vs self-regulation and why co-regulation fuels projection in authority dynamics

• The psychology of splitting: when complexity becomes intolerable and everything turns “all good / all bad”

• How resentment + comparison erodes work quality, then gets reframed as exploitation

• Why leaders get labeled “narcissistic” for enforcing standards, deadlines, and boundaries

• How these patterns scale from relationships → organizations → institutions → politics
  

If this episode creates friction: good. Friction is useful—if you can metabolize it into radical ownership instead of projection.

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Menopause isn’t the downfall we've been led to believe. It’s actually a woman's brain’s remodel opportunity.

In this episode, Bizzie talks with Dr. Mindy Pelz, New York Times bestselling author of Fast Like a Girl, Eat Like a Girl, and Age Like a Girl, about what really happens to the female brain after 40. PenguinRandomhouse.com+1

They break down how declining estrogen rewires your brain, why people-pleasing suddenly stops feeling “sticky,” what’s behind the spike in divorces initiated by women after 40, and how to treat midlife as a biologically-timed chance to restore who you were always meant to be.

If you’re between 40–55 (or love someone who is), this conversation will change how you see mood swings, boundary shifts, and the story you’ve been told about aging.

In this episode, we cover:

• The “Midlife Brain Remodel” and why menopause is actually a brain and identity reset, not just a hormonal crash

• How estrogen shaped your relational, people-pleasing brain in puberty – and what changes when it declines after 40

• Why the brain becomes less interested in pleasing everyone and more wired for clarity, boundaries, and leadership

• The role of culture and parenting styles in creating self-sacrificing women vs self-centered, highly boundaried women

• How this rewirement pulls both extremes back toward center

• The oxytocin shift in midlife and what that means for attachment, connection, and codependency

• Why 70–90% of divorces after 40–50 are initiated by women, and how to use this phase to renegotiate, not just burn it all down Sunday Paper PLUS

• The dark side: increased suicide risk for women 45–55 and the massive neurotransmitter changes happening under the surface Dr. Mindy Pelz

• Midlife as a restoration window: returning to your original design before conditioning, religion, culture, and family wiring

• How Dr. Mindy personally rewired her relationship to rest, work, and even surfing – and what that looked like in real time

• How Age Like a Girl reframes menopause as your chance to come home to yourself and step into your most honest, powerful season yet PenguinRandomhouse.com+1
  

• Age Like a Girl (preorder / order): via major retailers and independent bookstores 

• Dr. Mindy Pelz

• The Resetter Podcast 

• Decoded Podcast

• Break Method & Brain Pattern Mapping

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 What if immortality isn’t the next frontier — it’s the next illusion?

In this episode of Decoded, Bizzie Gold sits down with biohacker and longevity insider Dylan Gemelli for a raw, unfiltered look at the truth behind anti-aging science, peptide therapy, and the spiritual limits of human life.

From his time in prison to building a multimillion-view platform in the biohacking world, Dylan’s story exposes the underbelly of the “forever” industry — where science, marketing, and morality collide.

Bizzie and Dylan pull back the curtain on:

• The real science (and misinformation) behind peptides

• Why God built a stop sequence into human lifespan

• How the body’s design proves intelligent creation

• The link between distorted perception and physical disease

• The future of anti-aging medicine (and where Big Pharma can’t go)
  

If you’ve ever chased longevity, this conversation might stop you in your tracks — in the best possible way.

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You tried to parent the opposite of how you were raised. Fair. But the pendulum swing often recreates the same harm with softer packaging. In this episode, we unpack 12 common “conscious” or “gentle” moves that destabilize a child’s brain and identity—and what to do instead. We cover momentum over remorse, input → output, discipline that targets motive (not mess), and how to build structure that still leaves room for spontaneity and independent thinking.

What you’ll learn

• Why opposite-of-your-parents often equals same harm with new symptoms

• The first fail: being the “chill” parent and how it breeds Abandoned–Hold-It-All-Together

• Structure vs. spontaneity: the middle path that actually builds trust

• Age-appropriate truth and real ownership that rewires patterns fast

• Discipline that addresses why the behavior happened, not just what happened

• School and skill pressure: how to set expectations without breaking the kid

• Bedtime boundaries, quitting rules, and consequence design tied to true motivation

• The attention-for-sickness loop and how to end it

• Step-parent integration timing that prevents resentment

• The 8 Break Parenting Keystones to anchor your home
  

Tools & frameworks mentioned

• ACB Pathway and pattern reflexes

• Input → Output lens for every parenting choice

• The 8 Break Parenting Keystones (age-appropriate truth, consistency, self-measurement, more)
  

Try this tonight

• Ask your child to “grade” your attention from 1–10 at day’s end for one week. Adjust live.

• Pick one chore they complete entirely solo; give specific feedback after, then raise the bar.

• Define one clear, measurable school expectation and a runway to get there.

  
  

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In this episode of Decoded, Bizzie Gold expands on last week’s conversation—taking the concept of healing beyond the personal and into the global.

She explores how the micro mimics the macro, and how both individuals and societies fall into the trap of pendulum swings—overcorrecting from one extreme to another instead of finding sustainable equilibrium.

Bizzie dives into:

• The repeating structures of healing from the individual to the collective

• How progressivism vs. fundamentalism mirror unhealed internal dynamics

• Why pendulum swings aren’t pattern opposition—they’re dysfunction in disguise

• The decline in resilience across generations

• How emotional rewiring and data-driven self-accountability can stop the chaos
  

She ends with a challenge: Who are we really—and what do we want humanity to become?

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What does healed actually look like? In this free-flow episode, Bizzie Gold breaks down the difference between healing and being healed — and how surrender, honesty, and behavioral evidence define progress.

From panic attacks and sweat lodges to airplane turbulence and parenting, this is an unfiltered look at how emotional rewiring really happens — season by season, not all at once.

👉 Follow for part two next week, where Bizzie dives into the macro scale of healing and how this impacts culture and civilization as a whole.

In this episode, Bizzie breaks down:

• The difference between healing and being healed — and why most people confuse the two

• How to identify real evidence of progress (not just awareness)

• The concept of Controlled Surrender and how it rewires fear

• A raw personal story about overcoming panic, claustrophobia, and control

• Why perfectionism kills growth — and what “being healed” actually looks like

• How to recognize when you’re in a new season of refinement

• The truth about relapse moments and why they don’t make you a fraud

• What it means to give yourself and others grace while staying accountable

  
  

  
  

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Can women actually have it all — motherhood, ambition, and intimacy — without losing themselves?

Bizzie Gold and Cait Scudder (founder of The Millionaire Mother) tear down the tradwife vs boss-babe binary and show what a well-resourced woman really looks like.

Episode Topics:

• Ambition and motherhood without burnout

• Polarity and intimacy when you’re the breadwinner

• Money taboos, manifestation vs hustle, and true sustainability

• Building a business designed for motherhood
  

Listen to learn why it’s not “go big or go home.” It’s go big and go home.

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What if your panic attacks, brain fog, or depression weren’t actually “mental health” at all?

In this episode of Decoded, Bizzie Gold sits down with Dr. Stephanie Peacock—functional health consultant specializing in cases mainstream medicine often dismisses as “mystery symptoms.” Together they pull apart how mold toxicity, mast cell activation syndrome (MCAS), histamine intolerance, and SIBO can hijack the brain and masquerade as psychiatric illness.

You’ll learn:

• How MCAS and histamine intolerance mimic anxiety, panic attacks, and PMDD

• Why airtight homes, chemicals, and EMFs fuel the rise of mold illness

• Testing that’s actually worth the money—and what’s just noise

• How nervous system regulation is half the healing process

• The link between hormones, histamine, and debilitating cycles of mood swings

• Why detox, peptides, and stabilizers can sometimes turn symptoms around
  

This conversation is for anyone who’s ever felt dismissed, drugged, or told it’s “all in your head.” Mental health doesn’t happen in a vacuum—and sometimes the root cause is hiding in your gut, immune system, or environment.

Resources & links

• Home testing: ERMI/HERTSMI dust tests + Building Biologist/IEP

• Labs: Urine mycotoxins (RealTime Labs, Vibrant Wellness, Mosaic Diagnostics), stool analysis, HTMA

• Guest: Dr. Stephanie Peacock – stephaniepeacock.com | IG/TikTok @dr.stephpeacock | Host: Holistic Hub Podcast

IEP/Building biologist recs:

• Andrew Melrose https://melrosemoldsolutions.com/

• PJ Harlow https://pjharlowwellness.com/ 

• Rachel Graham https://www.householdwellness.co/ 

Testing:

• Real time labs mycotoxins urine panel

• Vibrant wellness total toxin panel

• Stool testing through Genova diagnostics

• HTMA

Dr. Stephanie Peacock Links:

• IG: https://www.instagram.com/drstephpeacock/?hl=en

• TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drstephpeacock 

• Website: https://stephaniepeacock.com/ 

• Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/holistic-hub-podcast/id1731851860

  
  

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The mental health system has been recycling the same theories for over 100 years—Freud, Jung, the DSM. But rates of depression, anxiety, and suicide keep climbing. Something’s broken.

In this episode, Bizzie Gold unpacks the Rosenhahn Experiment, the myth of the chemical imbalance, and why diagnosis is built on shaky ground. Then she reveals how data-driven solutions like Brain Pattern Mapping are disrupting psychiatry and creating sustainable healing.

If you’ve ever questioned labels, therapy loops, or why nothing seems to work—this episode will change how you see mental health forever.

You’ll discover:

• How labels distort reality and keep people stuck

• Why the DSM is more insurance codebook than science

• The myth of the chemical imbalance and missing biological markers

• How self-deception and distorted perception drive mental illness

• Why data-driven solutions like Brain Pattern Mapping are the real future of healing
  

This is a hard-hitting look at why the system is failing—and the data-driven alternative that actually works.

👉 If you know in your hear that it’s time to start asking the right questions, even if it agitates them system - you’re in the right place. 

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Keywords: Rosenhahn Experiment, DSM psychiatry, mental health diagnosis, chemical imbalance myth, data-driven mental health, Brain Pattern Mapping, Break Method, mental health disruption, psychology experiment, psychiatry critique, sustainable healing.