Join Elizabeth Stevenson from New Direction Family Law and her colleague Ashley Oldham as they discuss the unique challenges of military divorces. In this episode, they delve into the nuances of divorce for military families, covering topics such as pension division, custody arrangements, and the Uniform Deployed Parents Custody and Visitation Act. Ashley, a board-certified family law specialist with extensive experience in military divorces, provides valuable insights on jurisdiction, survivor benefits, and child support. Whether you're a service member or a spouse, this episode is packed with essential information to help navigate the complexities of military divorces.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:38 Military Divorce Overview

02:33 Jurisdiction in Military Divorces

03:54 Custody Issues in Military Divorces

09:49 Division of Military Pensions

15:55 Domestic Violence and Military Personnel

17:25 Military Support Programs and Conclusion

Join Sarah Hink and Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they chat with guest attorney Matt McGonagle about crucial aspects of business creation, estate planning, and protecting your business in the event of divorce or death. They discuss the importance of having proper legal agreements like operating agreements and shareholders' agreements, and dive into the complexities of trusts, estate planning, and marital protections. Learn how to safeguard your business and assets against unforeseen life events in this insightful podcast episode.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:54 Matt McGonigal's Legal Expertise

01:15 Business Creation and Protection

03:43 Divorce and Business Ownership

06:27 Trusts and Estate Planning

15:22 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

Learn more about Matt McGonagle, a board certified specialist with the North Carolina State Bar – Estate Planning and Probate Law

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In this episode, Sarah J. Hink and Ava K. Jennette from New Direction Family Law discuss the procedural steps involved in obtaining a domestic violence protective order (DVPO) in North Carolina. They offer advice on resources such as local domestic violence resource centers and highlight the essential details needed in the complaint form, including specific allegations and dates. The discussion includes what to expect during the ex parte hearing, service of the abuser, and the return hearing. They also cover the potential consequences of violating a DVPO, the importance of including all relevant incidents in the complaint, and the role of Legal Aid in assisting victims. The episode provides comprehensive guidance for those looking to pursue or defend against a DVPO, emphasizing the importance of legal representation.

00:00 Introduction to the Episode

00:30 Understanding Domestic Violence Protective Orders

01:39 Filing for a Protective Order

02:25 Details and Allegations in the Complaint

06:30 The Ex Parte Order Process

08:47 Preparing for the Return Hearing

09:57 Defending Against False Allegations

13:17 Consequences of Violating a Protective Order

17:56 Renewing a Protective Order

19:56 Final Advice and Resources

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Join Sarah Hink and attorney Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they delve into the intricate process of filing for absolute divorce in North Carolina. Learn about the requirements such as the mandatory one year and one day physical separation, the importance of resolving property and alimony issues beforehand, and the nuances related to service and court filings. They also discuss unique scenarios involving military service and incompetency. Whether you're doing it yourself or seeking professional help, this episode provides essential insights to guide you through the divorce proceedings.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:39 Understanding Absolute Divorce

01:33 Filing for Divorce in North Carolina

04:06 Checklist Before Filing for Divorce

05:17 The Divorce Filing Process

06:18 Service Issues in Divorce

07:53 Court Procedures and Attorney Involvement

14:02 Special Cases and Unique Scenarios

16:27 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Understanding Prenuptial Agreements: Protecting Your Future and Assets

In this episode of New Direction Family Law, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink discuss the importance of prenuptial agreements, especially for individuals entering second marriages or who have children from previous relationships. They explain how prenups can protect personal assets, manage debts, and anticipate changes in circumstances, such as starting a business. The conversation also touches on the misconceptions about prenups, the emotional and financial implications, and the necessity of discussing finances openly before marriage. Tune in for real talk on romance, prenups, and safeguarding your future.

00:00 Introduction and Importance of Prenups

01:01 Meet the Team

01:37 Discussing Prenups and Common Misconceptions

03:05 Debt and Financial Transparency in Marriage

06:16 Prenups and Business Ownership

10:31 Changing Prenups: Legal Advice

10:41 Prenups and Children: Legal Limitations

11:11 Prenups and Infidelity Clauses

11:25 Public Policy and Prenups

12:22 Prenups and Coercion

12:55 Timing and Prenups

13:29 Prenups for Second Marriages

14:10 Strange Prenup Clauses

15:11 Postnups: Similarities and Differences

15:58 Prenups and Business Ownership

17:03 Prenups: Personal Decisions and Legal Advice

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In this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the complexities and emotional challenges of separation and divorce. They share practical advice on handling separation, especially in cases of domestic violence, financial complications, and child custody. They also introduce Cam Heinsohn, their new marketing and business development manager. The conversation touches on real-life scenarios, legal strategies, and the emotional toll of ending a marriage, aiming to provide guidance and support for those going through such a difficult time.

00:00 The Hardest Part of Separation

00:58 Introducing the New Podcast Member

02:04 Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation

05:43 Handling Separation Conversations

11:39 Navigating Separation: Initial Steps

12:08 Living Arrangements and Legal Implications

13:27 Financial Responsibilities During Separation

15:44 Court Orders and Legal Actions

18:39 Consulting an Attorney: When and Why

20:48 Emotional and Practical Support

21:28 Finding Strength and Moving Forward

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In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullshit Guide to Divorce,' experienced attorneys Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the vital role of parenting coordinators in high-conflict divorce situations. Learn how parenting coordinators, either attorneys or mental health professionals, are appointed to assist co-parents in making decisions and improving communication. 

Discover how this essential service can help avoid prolonged court battles, reduce legal fees, and ensure the best interests of the children are prioritized. Tune in for expert insights on how to navigate co-parenting challenges effectively.

00:00 Introduction to the Exit Strategy

00:18 Meet the Attorneys

00:42 Understanding Parenting Coordinators

01:05 Role and Appointment of Parenting Coordinators

01:51 Challenges in Co-Parenting

03:53 Legal Implications and Court Involvement

05:03 Benefits of Parenting Coordinators

07:22 Practical Advice for Co-Parents

17:16 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullsh$t Guide to Divorce,' hosts Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law are joined by Jason Deshayes, CEO of Cook Wealth. They discuss the crucial role of financial planning and tax preparation in the context of divorce. Topics include tax liabilities, the importance of transparency in joint tax filings, handling separate and joint accounts, and the significance of consulting with CPAs and financial advisors. The episode aims to educate listeners on making informed financial decisions during and after a divorce, ensuring a smoother transition from victim to victorious and from bitter to better.

00:00 Spotting Financial Red Flags in Relationships

00:21 Introduction to the Exit Strategy Podcast

00:53 Meet the Expert: Jason Dehe from Cook Wealth

01:34 The Role of Spouses in Tax Preparation

02:38 Understanding Joint Tax Returns and Liabilities

03:37 The Importance of Financial Transparency in Marriage

04:08 Navigating Financial Conflicts During Divorce

05:22 The Benefits of Filing Taxes Separately

07:31 Managing Separate and Joint Bank Accounts

10:08 Handling CPA Conflicts During Divorce

13:59 Dividing Assets: Brokerage vs. Retirement Accounts

16:08 Navigating Financial Confusion

17:21 The Role of Financial Advisors

17:58 Tax and Wealth Management

18:30 Cash vs. Retirement Funds

19:26 Alimony and Tax Implications

21:16 Pre-Planning for Divorce

23:52 Financial Planning for Smaller Budgets

29:10 Services Offered by Wealth Management Firms

31:43 Conclusion and Contact Information

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Join Elizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they explore the often misunderstood topic of annulments and how they differ from divorces. They discuss various grounds for annulments in North Carolina, including bigamy, mental incapacity, and underage marriage with parental consent. Elizabeth and Sarah also touch on some complex cases they’ve encountered and provide insights into legal protections and agreements that can safeguard your future. Whether you're considering an annulment or a divorce after the holidays, this informative discussion will help you understand your options.

00:00 Holiday Wishes and Legal Choices

00:04 Understanding Annulments

01:09 Legal Grounds for Annulments in North Carolina

01:48 Bigamy Cases and Legal Implications

04:00 Age and Mental Capacity in Marriage

06:49 Impotence and Annulment

09:51 Consent and Manipulation in Marriage

11:14 Hallmark Movies and Mistaken Beliefs

11:40 Fraud in Marriage: Proving the Case

14:14 Annulment vs. Divorce: Legal Differences

15:23 Cohabitation Agreements and Property Rights

17:12 Prenups and Postnups: Protecting Your Assets

19:36 Final Thoughts and Holiday Wishes

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Summary: In this episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law share the top ten essential tips and advice for navigating through a divorce. They cover both legal and personal aspects, offering practical insights and supportive guidance to help listeners manage this challenging period in their lives. From financial independence to emotional support, these tips aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of what to expect and how to handle various situations during a divorce.

Key Points:

1. Your Kids Will Be Okay
   • Emphasize the importance of shielding children from conflict.
   • Tips on co-parenting and maintaining a healthy relationship with your children.
2. Love Your Kids More Than You Hate Your Ex
   • Avoid speaking negatively about your ex in front of your children.
   • Focus on your children's well-being rather than on past grievances.
3. There's Always a Way to Make It Work Financially
   • Discuss strategies for financial independence.
   • Importance of understanding your financial situation and planning accordingly.
4. Don't Use Your Attorney for Emotional Support
   • Seek professional counseling for emotional needs.
   • Focus on using your attorney for legal advice and strategy.
5. Things Might Get Worse Before They Get Better
   • Prepare for potential escalation of conflict during the process.
   • Stay focused on long-term outcomes and personal growth.
6. Focus on Yourself and Set Boundaries
   • Prioritize self-care and establish clear boundaries with your ex.
   • Use tools like Our Family Wizard for communication.
7. Unfriend or Block Your Ex on Social Media
   • Avoid the temptation to stalk or engage with your ex online.
   • Protect your mental health by limiting exposure to potentially upsetting content.
8. Treat Communications as Though They Will Be Read in Court
   • Always maintain a respectful and factual tone in written communications.
   • Understand that any communication could be used as evidence.
9. Surround Yourself with Supportive People
   • Lean on friends, family, or support groups for emotional support.
   • Avoid people who encourage negative or aggressive behavior.
10. Don't Rush into Dating After Divorce
    • Take time to heal and reflect on your past relationship.
    • Ensure you are emotionally ready before starting a new relationship.

Resources Mentioned:

• Our Family Wizard and other co-parenting tools.
• Professional counselors and therapists.
• Support groups and online communities for divorced individuals.

Call to Action:

• Follow New Direction Family Law on TikTok for more tips and insights.
• Reach out to a professional counselor for emotional support.
• Consult with an attorney to understand your legal rights and options.

Conclusion: Divorce can be a challenging and emotional journey, but by following these ten tips, you can navigate it more effectively. Focus on your well-being, seek appropriate support, and take one step at a time to ensure a better future for yourself and your children.