Raising Lifelong Learners

Executive Function Struggles in Homeschooling: Why Smart Kids Can’t Find Their Shoes (and What to Do About It)


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This week’s episode of the podcast is all about executive function—what it is, how struggles in these skills show up in homeschoolers, and, most importantly, what you can do at home to support your child as they grow. Whether your child is gifted, twice-exceptional, or has a neurodivergence like ADHD or autism, these ideas are for you.

Here are some highlights and key takeaways:

  • Executive function is more than organization. It encompasses a whole set of skills: from planning and prioritizing to task initiation, working memory, emotional regulation, and more. Many neurodivergent kids’ intellectual abilities often outpace these essential life skills.
  • Scaffolding and modeling are key. Building executive function doesn’t mean doing it all for them. Instead, break down tasks, provide step-by-step support, externalize plans (think: whiteboards and visual checklists), and consistently model your own planning and problem-solving out loud.
  • Progress, not perfection. Celebrate small wins and keep the focus on growth and effort. Building these life skills is a marathon, not a sprint. Our job isn’t to micromanage, but to guide, equip, and be a safe base as our kids grow into independent problem-solvers.

Whether you’re a parent or educator, this episode is a great reminder: little steps matter—and you’re not alone on the journey!

 

Links and Resources from Today’s Episode

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  • The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners
  • The Homeschool Advantage: A Child-Focused Approach to Raising Lifelong Learners Audiobook
  • Raising Lifelong Learners Membership Community – The Learners Lab
  • Raising Resilient Sons by Colleen Kessler, M.Ed.
  • The Anxiety Toolkit
  • Strengthening Executive Function Skills: A Conversation with Sarah Collins
  • Strengthen Executive Function Skills
  • The Best Books for Teaching About Executive Functions Skills
  • 7 Executive Functioning Activities for Small Children
  • RLL #84: Exploring Education and Executive Function with Seth Perler
  • The Unmeasured Executive Functioning Issue
  • RLL 20: Helping Your Kiddo with Executive Function Skills Struggles | A Listener Question
  • RLL LIVE | Improving Executive Functions

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