Today, we’re going to discuss what you can do to naturally help your body prepare for sleep without feeling stressed about it.

First, let’s talk about something called the “sleep-starting force.”

This is your body’s natural way of getting sleepy.

There are two critical parts to this:

1. Your Sleep Drive: This is like a battery inside your body that charges up all day while awake. The longer you’re awake, the stronger this battery gets, and eventually, your body needs to sleep to recharge.
2. Your Internal Clock (Circadian Rhythm): This is your body’s schedule, like having an alarm clock inside you. It knows when it’s day and night, helping you feel awake in the morning and sleepy at night.

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If you've ever had trouble sleeping, you've probably tried many different things to help you sleep better.

Maybe you've tried drinking special teas, taking sleeping pills, or even using lavender oil.

You might have spent money on gadgets, tried to make your room perfectly dark and quiet, or followed a specific bedtime routine.

But if you still can't sleep, there's a good reason why all those things haven't worked.

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If you have insomnia, you’re probably exhausted.

You’ve probably tried many things already.

You’ve worked hard to sleep better, but nothing has helped.

You’re not lazy—you’ve put in a lot of effort and maybe even spent money on countless “fixes”.

Still, sleep feels far away.

I have good news: It’s not your fault.

The other things haven’t worked because they didn’t fix the real problem.

The real reason you can’t sleep well is different from what most people think.

Let’s look at what’s really going on with your sleep.

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Just two forces control sleep.

We call them the sleep-starting force and the sleep-stopping force.

The Sleep-Starting Force

The sleep-starting force is what makes sleep happen.

It comes from two natural systems in your body: your sleep drive and your circadian rhythm.

The Sleep-Stopping Force

If your body is built to sleep naturally, why does insomnia happen?

The answer is the sleep-stopping force.

This blocks sleep from happening, even when your body is tired.

The sleep-stopping force is caused by stress, worry, and an overactive nervous system.

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You might feel like nothing can help your sleep.

Maybe you’ve tried doctors and therapists or searched the internet for answers.

Maybe you feel like no one really understands what you’re going through.

That feeling is normal.

But it doesn’t mean there’s no way out.

Let’s look at why people think they can’t fix their sleep—and why they actually can.

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If you’ve ever tried to get help for your sleep problems—whether from doctors, therapists, or online sources—you might have felt like no one truly understands what you’re going through.

You’re not alone in that feeling.

I know, because I’ve been there myself.

The approach I now share didn’t come from just reading studies or theories—it came from my own struggle with insomnia.

I spent years trying everything, feeling exhausted, and searching for something that actually worked.

After nothing helped, I realized I had to find my own way out.

Here’s my story of how I fell into insomnia—and how I finally got my life back.

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As you improve your sleep, know that setbacks are completely normal.

In fact, they are part of the process.

Almost everyone who has overcome insomnia has had some ups and downs along the way.

It feels amazing to start sleeping better after struggling for so long.

You may feel relief, hope, and even excitement as you trust your sleep more and think about it less.

But it’s rare for someone to fully move past insomnia without hitting a few bumps in the road.

Setbacks don’t mean you’re back to square one—they are just part of the journey.

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Back then, during my 5 brutal years of insomnia, I used to wonder:

“What do the steps out of insomnia look like?”

“How long does the recovery take?”

Here’s the breakdown:

Phase 1: Lost & Suffering

Phase 2: Finding Hope

Phase 3: Making Key Behavior Changes

Phase 4: Experiencing Some Anxiety Reduction

Phase 5: Feeling Non-Attachment

Phase 6: Consistently Sleeping Better

Phase 7: Building Further Confidence—and Working Through Setbacks

Phase 8: Life Beyond Insomnia

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One thing that can make working through insomnia easier, faster, and maybe even a little more pleasant is finding the right kind of support.

Why Get Support?

You can try to handle insomnia on your own, but having someone by your side can make the process much smoother and less lonely.

When you have someone to cheer you on or help you figure out your next steps, it can feel like a big weight is lifted.

Support can give you hope and remind you to keep going, even on tough days.

Knowing you’re not alone in your journey makes it easier to stay determined and resilient

However, not all support is helpful.

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Today, I want to share several mindsets that are important to hold while on your journey to overcome insomnia.

1. You Are NOT an “Insomniac”

2. Rough Nights Can Be an Opportunity

3. Bring Out Your Inner Rebel

4. Sleep Problems Are Not to Blame for Everything

5. Find Moments of Gratitude

6. Be Patient

7. Stick to the Plan, Even Through Ups and Downs

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