Found It, Fetched It - Gundog Training for Family Life

We’re often told that if a dog is full-on, intense, or hard to live with, the answer is simple: exercise them more.

In this episode, I unpack why that well-meaning advice can quietly make life harder, especially if you’re living with a high-drive gundog, and why more walks, more running, and more “doing” doesn’t automatically lead to a steadier dog.

I talk about the moment many handlers recognise: when your dog feels fast, sharp, and always one step ahead, and you start to feel like you’re reacting rather than leading. Not because you’re doing nothing, but because you’re doing everything, without the right handling system underneath it.

We explore the idea of the supercar on a shoestring, a powerful, capable dog with an engine that’s far bigger than the structure supporting it. I explain why exercise builds fitness, not self-control, and why high-drive dogs don’t come with internal brakes already fitted.

This episode also looks at what’s really draining handler confidence: guessing under pressure, repeating cues, changing your mind mid-moment, and trying to wrestle control instead of steering it. I share why effort alone can’t replace structure, and why following through matters more than piling more on.

If you’ve ever felt like your dog has suddenly changed overnight, or that what worked yesterday doesn’t work today, you’re not imagining it. Dogs don’t walk out with the same brain every day, and understanding that changes how you train and handle them.

Most of all, this episode is here to reassure you: you don’t have a problem dog.

You have a powerful one, and once the handling matches the engine, everything feels lighter.

Holding a Supercar by a Shoestring

A Free Masterclass for Owners of High-Drive Dogs on How to Finally ‘Speak Gundog’ even if You Never Plan to See a Shooting Field. When you sign up, I’ll send you a short reflection, Are You Driving or Just Hanging On, to help you notice whether you’re leading or reacting before the session. Jan 29th 2026 7.30pm

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Have you ever had that moment where everything feels calm…

Then suddenly your dog is gone?

One second you’re walking together.

The next, your gundog has clocked something, made a decision, and acted on it before you’ve even processed what changed.

In this episode, Jo explains why this happens, especially with high-drive gundogs, and why it isn’t a training failure or a reflection of your ability as a handler.

This conversation isn’t about obedience or control.

It’s about understanding speed, drive, and decision-making, so you can stop blaming yourself and start making sense of what’s really going on.

• Why fast gundogs don’t “warm up”, they switch on instantly
• How a dog’s decision-making process works differently to a human’s
• Why you often feel one step behind, even when you’re experienced and committed
• The mismatch between canine instinct and human consequence-based thinking
• Why being told to “try harder” doesn’t help in high-drive moments
• How steadiness and self-control create a vital timing gap you can work with
• Why even very well-trained dogs still need management in certain environments

Jo also shares real-life examples from her own dogs, showing how age, experience, and steadiness change behaviour over time, and why comparison rarely helps when you’re in the thick of it with a young or adolescent gundog.

• Your dog reacts faster than you can think
• You often replay moments afterwards, wondering what you should have done
• You feel calm in theory, but flustered in real-life situations
• You care deeply about doing right by your dog, but feel overloaded in the moment
• You don’t need more motivation, you need understanding

This episode is part of a short series leading into Jo’s free live masterclass, Supercar on a Shoestring, where we go deeper into both the dog’s brain and the handler’s mindset, and how to bring the two into better alignment.

Holding a Supercar by a Shoestring

A Free Masterclass for Owners of High-Drive Dogs on How to Finally ‘Speak Gundog’ even if You Never Plan to See a Shooting Field. When you sign up, I’ll send you a short reflection, Are You Driving or Just Hanging On, to help you notice whether you’re leading or reacting before the session. Jan 29th 2026 7.30pm

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If this episode gave you something, a laugh, a lightbulb, or just the feeling that someone gets it, that's exactly why we make it.

📚 Not sure where to start with your gundog training? Grab the LWDG Gundog Progress Gap Map. Work out where you exactly where you are and what to work on next, no more guessing needed.

In this episode, Jo talks about something that quietly affects so many women training gundogs. Not failure. Not lack of effort. But that frustrating sense of being capable and committed, yet still feeling behind or unsure. Jo shares her own early experiences of training without a clear map, relying on instinct, observation, and scraps of information, while everyone else seemed to have a language she hadn’t learned yet. The dogs were doing “okay”, but the mental noise was exhausting. This episode gently unpacks why that feeling isn’t a confidence problem or an effort problem, but a structure problem.

You’ll hear about

• Why missing structure often gets mislabelled as missing ability
• Why confidence does not come before action, but from clarity and repetition
• How fear of doing it wrong once keeps handlers stuck and second guessing
• Why comparing your inside world to other people’s outside is such a trap
• How learning to read patterns, not personalise problems, changes everything
• Why asking for help is not failure, but one of the strongest forms of independence

Jo also explains why gundogs are more like high performance cars than everyday runarounds, and why trying to train them without the right framework creates unnecessary pressure for both dog and handler.This conversation is about relief, steadiness, and finally naming what’s actually missing so the self blame can ease and progress can feel possible again.

At the end of the episode, Jo invites you to a free live masterclass designed especially for owners of high drive dogs.

Holding a Supercar on a Shoestring

A free training session on how to understand, handle, and enjoy your high drive dog without feeling overwhelmed or behind.

👉 Register here

https://ladiesworkingdoggroup.com/supercar-registration

If this episode landed for you, you are not alone. You are not behind. And you are very welcome in this space with Ladies Working Dog Group

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If this episode gave you something, a laugh, a lightbulb, or just the feeling that someone gets it, that's exactly why we make it.

📚 Not sure where to start with your gundog training? Grab the LWDG Gundog Progress Gap Map. Work out where you exactly where you are and what to work on next, no more guessing needed.

Ever scroll through social media, see a perfectly trained 10-month-old dog, and feel a knot of pressure in your stomach? If you've ever felt behind, second-guessed your progress, or worried that you're "failing" your young dog, this episode is for you.

The pressure to rush our dogs from puppyhood to polished working partner is immense. But the truth is, your dog's development is a biological process, not a competition. Pushing them too fast, too soon, doesn't just create training problems—it can risk their long-term health and your partnership.

In this honest conversation, Jo, Claire, and Jemma pull back the curtain on the "working dog age race." We give you permission to slow down, ignore the noise, and become the most important advocate for your dog's unique timeline.

In This Episode, We Discuss:

• The hidden pressure of the "perfect" young dog on social media and how it fuels our self-doubt.
• Why your dog's physical and mental timeline is non-negotiable (and what's really happening with growth plates and hormones).
• Navigating the messy, unpredictable, and completely normal stage of adolescence—seeing it as a phase, not a failure.
• The crucial link between patience in their first two years and a longer, healthier working life for your dog.
• The real reason a shoot day is the worst place to train your dog, and how to prepare them for the real world without pressure.

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If this conversation resonated with you, and you're ready to trade pressure and second-guessing for steady support, we'd love to welcome you into our community. The LWDG is a space for women handlers to share the real, messy moments of training, get expert guidance, and build unshakable confidence alongside their dogs.

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If this episode gave you something, a laugh, a lightbulb, or just the feeling that someone gets it, that's exactly why we make it.

📚 Not sure where to start with your gundog training? Grab the LWDG Gundog Progress Gap Map. Work out where you exactly where you are and what to work on next, no more guessing needed.

STOP WORRYING: Your gundog doesn’t need to hunt live game to be happy! Are you the devoted dog woman who constantly frets that you're not meeting your working breed’s full needs? You are absolutely not alone. This week on Found It, Fetched It, Jo and LWDG expert Claire Denyer demystify the pressure surrounding breed instincts and fieldwork. We dive into why it’s crucial to provide an outlet for your gundog’s natural drives (hello, ‘self-employed’ dogs!), and why tapping into those instincts in a controlled way actually leads to more control, not less. We talk about the "Pandora's Box" myth, the difference between letting your dog chase a squirrel and teaching true self-control, and why turning a naughty sock thief into a helpful laundry loader is the ultimate partnership goal.

This episode is packed with warmth and practical advice to help you build a stronger bond, prevent behavioural issues, and celebrate the incredible dog you have.Ready to stop worrying and start training with clarity? Join the thousands of women gaining confidence in their training journey! Click the link below to explore the LWDG Society membership and get a complete plan to follow.

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If this episode gave you something, a laugh, a lightbulb, or just the feeling that someone gets it, that's exactly why we make it.

📚 Not sure where to start with your gundog training? Grab the LWDG Gundog Progress Gap Map. Work out where you exactly where you are and what to work on next, no more guessing needed.

Ever found yourself totally confused by the conflicting training advice buzzing around online? It feels like you’re constantly being told to aim for this impossible ideal, a kind of training perfection, that just doesn't seem to work with your chaotic, high-drive gundog. You’re trying to be kind, but your dog is eating the doormat and ignoring your existence. I get it. We’ve been there. This week on Found It, Fetched It, Claire and I are laying it all out: the whole concept of "force free" as it's often peddled online cannot and does not exist in the real world. We champion kindness and reward-based training all day long, but we also live with real dogs who need real boundaries. We want you to feel safe, supported, and confident in saying, "Uhuh, no," when it matters most. Boundaries are not the opposite of kindness; they are the foundation of a safe, happy life for your dog.

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If this episode gave you something, a laugh, a lightbulb, or just the feeling that someone gets it, that's exactly why we make it.

📚 Not sure where to start with your gundog training? Grab the LWDG Gundog Progress Gap Map. Work out where you exactly where you are and what to work on next, no more guessing needed.

Feeling the winter wobble with your gundog training? You are not alone. This episode is a warm hug for anyone feeling guilty that their dog (and their own motivation) has taken a seasonal dip. Join Jo as she explains why both dogs and handlers change in the winter, and how you can adapt your training to be shorter, calmer, and more connected. It’s time to stop fighting the season and start working with it. Listen to the full episode on your favourite podcast app and don't forget to subscribe for more real-life gundog chat!

FREE Workshop 18th Nov : From Mixed Messages to Magic Results

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If this episode gave you something, a laugh, a lightbulb, or just the feeling that someone gets it, that's exactly why we make it.

📚 Not sure where to start with your gundog training? Grab the LWDG Gundog Progress Gap Map. Work out where you exactly where you are and what to work on next, no more guessing needed.

Have you ever watched a friend train their gundog and thought, “Why am I reacting like this, and they’re so calm about the exact same thing?” It’s easy to fall into the comparison trap, feeling like you’re doing it all wrong simply because your approach is different. But what if that difference wasn’t a weakness, but a key to unlocking your most effective training style?

We recently sat down with our brilliant LWDG mindset coach, Emma Liddell, a trained psychotherapist, who has noticed powerful patterns in the way we women handle and train our dogs. Her new framework, The Dog Handler Archetypes, is a self-awareness tool designed to help you understand your core drivers, work with your strengths, and finally soften the edges that might be holding you back. It’s a game-changer that goes beyond obedience and straight to the heart of why you train the way you do.

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If this episode gave you something, a laugh, a lightbulb, or just the feeling that someone gets it, that's exactly why we make it.

📚 Not sure where to start with your gundog training? Grab the LWDG Gundog Progress Gap Map. Work out where you exactly where you are and what to work on next, no more guessing needed.

Ever found yourself peering at your dog's pedigree, trying to piece together a blueprint of who they are? Maybe you’ve felt that mysterious pull of their innate behaviours—that tiny puppy pointing at a feather, or the Springer Spaniel suddenly diving headfirst into a hedge. It can feel like pure voodoo, like trying to bake a perfect cake without truly knowing all the ingredients.

This episonde on the podcast, we’re peeling back the curtain on one of our seven lenses of dog behaviour: Genetics. We’re untangling the genes from the mittens with LWDG Mindset Coach, Emma Liddell, to bring you clarity and a huge dose of reassurance. Because here’s the truth we all need to hear: Genetics create potential, not certainty. Your dog’s behaviour is not their destiny, and understanding this is the key to letting go of the guilt and training smarter, not harder.

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If this episode gave you something, a laugh, a lightbulb, or just the feeling that someone gets it, that's exactly why we make it.

📚 Not sure where to start with your gundog training? Grab the LWDG Gundog Progress Gap Map. Work out where you exactly where you are and what to work on next, no more guessing needed.

Ever wondered, "Is my gundog really allowed to be a gundog?" 🐾 This week, Jo and Vicki are diving into that very question, busting myths and sharing real talk! Hear Vicki's amazing journey with her golden retriever, Tully – from a wild teenager who ignored her, to a calm, confident companion who even rocked a working test! Discover how our LWDG community is a safe, supportive space for all gundog mums, no matter your dog's breed or background.

We'll chat about harnessing those natural instincts, building a rock-solid connection, and how our "Hot Mess Handler" course can truly transform your relationship with your dog. If you're a woman training a gundog and craving understanding, practical tips, and a bit of a warm hug, this episode is for you!

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If this episode gave you something, a laugh, a lightbulb, or just the feeling that someone gets it, that's exactly why we make it.

📚 Not sure where to start with your gundog training? Grab the LWDG Gundog Progress Gap Map. Work out where you exactly where you are and what to work on next, no more guessing needed.