February 25, 2025

From Betrayal to Breakthrough – Understanding the Wound and Embracing the Healing Journey | Dr. Debi Silber, PhD

39 minutes

In this episode of Energy Medicine, Dr. Mary sits down with Dr. Debi Silber, founder of the Post-Betrayal Transformation Institute, to explore the profound effects of unhealed betrayal on our health, work, and relationships.

Betrayal isn’t just emotional—it can manifest physically, mentally, and more, leading to chronic stress, illness, and a loss of trust. Dr. Debi shares the groundbreaking discoveries from her PhD research, revealing why betrayal is a distinct trauma requiring its own healing process.

Together, they dive into the five proven stages of healing, common symptoms of Post-Betrayal Syndrome, and the critical shifts needed to move forward. If you’re struggling to rebuild after a betrayal, this conversation offers powerful insights to help reclaim your personal power and thrive beyond the pain.

Tune in to learn how to recognize betrayal’s hidden impact and take the first steps toward true transformation.

Key Takeaways:

Betrayal as a Unique Trauma: Unlike other traumas, betrayal shatters trust and creates deep wounds in identity, relationships, and self-worth.
Post-Betrayal Syndrome: Unhealed betrayal can result in physical, emotional, and mental symptoms, including chronic stress, anxiety, exhaustion, and an inability to trust.
The Five Stages of Healing from Betrayal:

First Stage – Before the trauma happens
Second Stage – Shock & Trauma (D-Day): The moment betrayal is discovered, leading to emotional and physical distress.
Third Stage – Survival Mode: Instincts take over, and people focus on just getting through each day, often staying stuck in anger or self-protection.
Fourth Stage – Adjusting to a New Normal: A shift begins as individuals acknowledge the reality of their situation and start making changes.
Fifth Stage – Rebuilding the Self: Deep healing occurs as self-worth is restored, and new, healthier patterns emerge.

Why Time Alone Doesn’t Heal Betrayal: Many people carry the wounds of betrayal for decades, proving that healing must be intentional and actively pursued.

Contact Dr. Debi Silber:

Podcast: https://thepbtinstitute.com/podcast/

Website: https://thepbtinstitute.com/

Quiz: https://thepbtinstitute.com/pbs-quiz/

Books & Other Resources: https://thepbtinstitute.com/store/

Contact Dr. Mary:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dr.maryesanders/

Free Gift: https://www.drmarysanders.com/meditations

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February 25, 2025

From Betrayal to Breakthrough – Understanding the Wound and Embracing the Healing Journey | Dr. Debi Silber, PhD

39 minutes

Tune in to learn how to recognize betrayal’s hidden impact and take the first steps toward true transformation.

Key Takeaways:

Betrayal as a Unique Trauma: Unlike other traumas, betrayal shatters trust and creates deep wounds in identity, relationships, and self-worth.
Post-Betrayal Syndrome: Unhealed betrayal can result in physical, emotional, and mental symptoms, including chronic stress, anxiety, exhaustion, and an inability to trust.
The Five Stages of Healing from Betrayal:

First Stage – Before the trauma happens
Second Stage – Shock & Trauma (D-Day): The moment betrayal is discovered, leading to emotional and physical distress.
Third Stage – Survival Mode: Instincts take over, and people focus on just getting through each day, often staying stuck in anger or self-protection.
Fourth Stage – Adjusting to a New Normal: A shift begins as individuals acknowledge the reality of their situation and start making changes.
Fifth Stage – Rebuilding the Self: Deep healing occurs as self-worth is restored, and new, healthier patterns emerge.

Why Time Alone Doesn’t Heal Betrayal: Many people carry the wounds of betrayal for decades, proving that healing must be intentional and actively pursued.