In this episode of From Mum to Me, Keeley chats with Victoria (aka photographer, podcast host, and mum of two) about that unsettling but oh-so-relatable moment when you realise you've lost sight of who you are beyond motherhood.

They talk about how identity shifts after having kids, the push and pull between doing and being, and what happens when your confidence slowly erodes under the weight of advice, expectations, and exhaustion.

Victoria opens up about rediscovering purpose after motherhood, rebuilding her career, and learning how to integrate creativity, ambition, and motherhood without losing herself in the process. Together, they dive into the messy middle... from juggling young kids and home renovations, to redefining success, reclaiming time, and learning to trust your instincts again.

If you've ever looked in the mirror and thought, "Where did I go?", this one's for you.

Listen if you're feeling: ✨ A bit lost or disconnected from yourself ✨ Tired of juggling everyone else's needs first ✨ Ready to rediscover what lights you up again

Where to find us:

Victoria

• You can find out more about Victoria and her podcast here
• Head over to Insta to see what Victoria has been up to this week here

Keeley

• The Mummy Mixtape - a little playlist that's full of feel good vibes for you to use to get your sparkle back.
• Moon & Dusk - Keeley's biz that helped her start to figure out she could be more than 'just mum'
• Come and hang out on insta with Keeley and see what she's been getting up to this week

Feeling guilty for changing, growing or simply not being the "old you"? You're not alone. In this episode of From Mum to Me, Keeley sits down with Danielle Barrett-Wyatt, the self-love coach behind Self Love Solves Everything, to talk about guilt, growth, self-compassion and reclaiming your sparkle.

Together we explore:

• Why mums (and anyone in a caring role) feel so much guilt when they change or set new boundaries.
• How generational beliefs and societal pressure shape our self-worth.
• Practical ways to shift from self-criticism to self-kindness, including Danielle's "glimmers vs triggers" technique.
• How small self-care rituals (like earrings on the school run or dancing in your kitchen) can transform your mood and confidence.
• Why crying is a superpower and how to reframe it.
• Letting go of the "I should" mindset and embracing "I could" instead.
• Why loving your past self is key to thriving as your current self.

If you've ever felt lost, stuck or like you're carrying mum guilt around like a handbag, this conversation will leave you inspired, hopeful and armed with tools to start loving who you are right now.

Find Danielle on Instagram at @selflovesolveseverything for free consultations, tips and encouragement on your own self-love journey.

The Mummy Mixtape - a little playlist that's full of feel good vibes for you to use to get your sparkle back.

Moon & Dusk - Keeley's biz that helped her start to figure out she could be more than 'just mum'

Come and hang out on insta with Keeley and see what she's been getting up to this week http://www.instagram.com/moonanddusk

In this solo episode of From Mum to Me, Keeley shares how stepping outside her comfort zone (hello, solo trip to Canada ✈️) helped her reconnect with herself after years of putting everyone else first.

From starting Moon & Dusk to flying across the world alone, she opens up about the baby steps, wobbles, and confidence boosts along the way...and why you don't have to be fearless to do things scared.

Whether you're a mum, a creative, or someone who's just feeling a bit stuck, this chat will remind you that small brave steps count, comfort zones can expand, and you're stronger than your fear.

What you'll learn in this episode:

• Why comfort zones feel safe but can also keep you small
• How tiny, doable actions create momentum and confidence
• How jewellery making helped Keeley rebuild her identity after motherhood
• Why "doing it scared" is the fastest way to grow
• Simple ways to anchor yourself when trying something new (yes, jewellery helps here too!)

Listen if you're ready to:

• Stop waiting for the "perfect time"
• Build confidence without a massive overhaul
• Reconnect with the parts of you that got lost in motherhood
• Find easy ways to feel grounded when life feels scary

LINKS

The Mummy Mixtape - a little playlist that's full of feel good vibes for you to use to get your sparkle back.

Moon & Dusk - my little biz that helped me start to figure out I could be more than 'just mum'

Come and hang out on insta with me and see what I've been getting up to this week

Motherhood doesn't always look the way we imagined it would. Even with years of experience working with children, Helen Buteux found herself overwhelmed, doubting if her best was good enough, and struggling to care for herself alongside caring for her baby.

In this episode, Helen shares her journey from occupational therapist to motherhood, the reality of identity loss, and how she discovered the concept of "matrescence", the transformation a woman goes through when she becomes a mother.

Together we talk about the pressure to "get it right," the guilt that comes with needing time for yourself, and why it's so important to look after your mental wellbeing as much as your physical health.

We also chat about:

• Why early years development is so powerful and how play shapes resilience
• What to do when mum guilt sneaks in (and why accepting help is not failure)
• Simple ways to rebuild confidence and rediscover who you are after motherhood
• The cultural pressure to "do it all" and why asking for support should feel normal

This conversation is real, relatable, and full of encouragement for mums who feel like they've lost a little bit of themselves along the way.

✨ Remember – you don't need to go back to the old you. You can grow into a new version of yourself who feels stronger, braver, and more confident.

Links

Helen - Go and find Helen on Instagram here for links to sign up for a 1:1 connection call or to join her Facebook community

The Mummy Mixtape - a little playlist that's full of feel good vibes for you to use to get your sparkle back.

Moon & Dusk - my little biz that helped me start to figure out I could be more than 'just mum'

Come and hang out on insta with me and see what I've been getting up to this week www.instagram.com/moonanddusk

Show Notes – Cross-Platform Optimised

If you're the first to volunteer, the last to leave, and somehow still the one picking up the slack at home and at work, yet your own goals keep getting pushed to the bottom of the list, this episode is for you.

Keeley chats with Anna Campbell, mindset coach and founder of The Good Girl Rebellion, about the invisible rules so many women live by: over-delivering, people-pleasing, and putting themselves last.

In this episode:

• What "good girl conditioning" is and how to spot it
• Why motherhood can amplify it
• Setting boundaries without the guilt trip
• Knowing when you're helping… or just avoiding your own stuff
• Why receiving help is just as important as giving it
• Rebuilding trust with yourself
• Simple journal prompts to reconnect with you outside of your roles

Links & Resources:

• Anna's website: https://www.goodgirlrebellion.com/
• Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/annaccampbell
• Anna's podcast and other goodies https://www.linkedin.com/in/annacampbell-goodgirlrebellion/
• Podcast: Full of Ourselves
• The Good Girl Rebellion book – out 2 Sept 2025 Buy here https://www.goodgirlrebellion.com/ggr-book

• The Mummy Mixtape - a little playlist that's full of feel good vibes for you to use to get your sparkle back.
• Moon & Dusk - Keeleys biz that helped her start to figure out she could be more than 'just mum'
• Come and hang out on insta with me and see what I've been getting up to this week

Who are you really, beyond being a mum, a job title, or the person forever reheating cups of tea?

In this bite-sized solo episode, Keeley shares a funny but oh-so-relatable story about being put on the spot at a networking event and completely freezing when asked to "tell us about yourself." It sparked a bigger question: why do we always fall back on our roles instead of who we actually are underneath it all.

With a little help (and sass) from her daughter, Keeley explores playful ways to rediscover your true self, like describing yourself as a recipe, picking your three defining emojis, or even writing your own wine label.

If you've ever struggled to introduce yourself without listing your job or family role, this episode is for you. It's about identity, playfulness, and remembering that you are more than the hats you wear.

What you'll hear in this episode: • Why "tell us about yourself" makes so many of us panic • The difference between roles and identity • Playful ways to uncover the real you • How kids see identity differently (cue: dinosaur emojis) • A fun challenge for you: describe yourself as a wine label 🍷✨

The Mummy Mixtape - a little playlist that's full of feel good vibes for you to use to get your sparkle back.

Moon & Dusk - my little biz that helped me start to figure out I could be more than 'just mum'

Come and hang out on insta with me and see what I've been getting up to this week

Ever felt like you're carrying the emotional equivalent of your entire 'junk drawer'? Same.

In this episode, we're chatting all things letting go – the physical, the emotional, and even that guilt-laced mug from your uni days.

From hoarding snowboards and scribbles to hanging onto relationships and regrets, this one's your permission slip to drop the weight (without the drama). Just quiet, powerful release.

In this episode:

• Why letting go is so hard (hint: fear's got a lot to answer for)
• How our identities get tangled up in old stuff
• What mugs can teach us about emotional baggage
• 3 small, gentle steps to help you start releasing what's no longer serving you

Whether it's mum guilt, an old friendship, or that pair of jeans from 2014, you don't have to carry it anymore.

Your mental junk drawer is overdue a clear-out, and we're doing it together.

Ever thought about trying something new and instantly heard that little voice saying, "But what if I'm rubbish at it?" Yep — me too.

In this episode, I share what happened when I tried surfing for the first time (at 40, in the rain, and in a wetsuit I nearly cried over). From the anxiety leading up to it, to the self-doubt, to watching my daughter voice the exact fears I was secretly holding onto — this story is about more than surfing.

It's about why trying something new as an adult is so hard, how perfectionism and body image hold us back, and why actually showing up is sometimes the biggest win of all.

Whether it's a creative class, a sport, or just something that's been sitting on your "one day" list — this episode is your nudge to stop waiting for confidence to magically appear. You don't have to be good to start. You just need to be brave enough to try.

✨ You'll hear about:

• Why adults are so resistant to trying new things
• How body image, confidence and perfectionism tie into it
• The power of "just showing up"
• Modelling bravery for our kids
• Why it's okay to suck at something and still love doing it

👉 If you've ever told yourself "I can't do that", I hope this helps you realise — you can. And it might even be fun.

Feeling a bit lost lately?

You're not alone — but what if you're not lost, you've just outgrown who you used to be?

In this bite-sized solo episode, I share how motherhood reshaped my identity and how I started finding my way back to myself through creativity (and molten silver).

Come listen if you need a gentle reframe and a nudge of compassion today 💫

The Mummy Mixtape - a little playlist that's full of feel good vibes for you to use to get your sparkle back.

Moon & Dusk - my little biz that helped me start to figure out I could be more than 'just mum'

Come and hang out on insta with me and see what I've been getting up to this week www.instagram.com/moonanddusk

In this heartfelt solo episode of From Mum to Me, I'm marking a milestone—I'm turning 40 this week (eek!)—by looking back at the last decade and sharing four big lessons I've learned in my 30s.

From juggling toddlers and sleep deprivation to launching a business from scratch, this episode is a love letter to any mum who's ever wondered if she's doing enough, being enough, or simply… enough.

We chat about:

• Why your energy isn't endless (and how to protect it without guilt)
• The importance of being your own biggest cheerleader
• Why it's never too late to pivot (yes—even after motherhood)
• How to actually enjoy the journey, even in the chaos

Whether you're a new mum in the trenches or navigating a big life shift, this episode is a gentle reminder that you're not alone, and you're doing better than you think. 💫

🛍️ Want to see what I create when I'm not recording podcasts? Head over to Moon & Dusk to check out my handmade celestial jewellery—or come and see me at work behind the scenes over on Instagram

Listen to my favourite songs to listen to when I am working in the jewellery studio here