Queer Theology

From Shame To Pride

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In this episode, we delve into the complexities of sex positivity within a spiritual context. We explore the damaging messages received from religious institutions regarding sexuality, the impact of purity culture, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery and healing. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s own desires, navigating shame, and fostering a community that embraces sex positivity. We also get into practical steps for healing and the significance of embodying a positive relationship with one’s body and sexuality.

 

Takeaways

  • The conversation highlights the absurd messages about sex from religious backgrounds.
  • Purity culture can create lasting shame and confusion around sexuality.
  • It’s essential to differentiate between healthy attraction and harmful lust.
  • Healing from sexual shame is an ongoing process that requires self-reflection.
  • Community support is vital in navigating sexual and spiritual journeys.
  • Understanding one’s own values around sex is crucial for personal growth.
  • Sex positivity can coexist with spirituality in a healthy way.
  • The impact of societal norms on individual sexual expression is profound.
  • Engaging in open conversations about sex can help dismantle shame.
  • Embodying a positive relationship with one’s body is essential for overall well-being.

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    Chapters

    (02:31) Exploring Church Messages on Sex  

    (06:31) The Impact of Purity Culture  

    (10:21) Navigating Shame and Sexuality  

    (14:35) Understanding Lust and Attraction  

    (18:30) Positive Experiences and Community  

    (22:36) The Ongoing Journey of Self-Discovery  

    (26:36) Practical Steps for Healing and Growth  

    (30:26) Becoming a Beacon of Sex Positivity  

    (34:42) The Interconnection of Body and Sexuality 

     

    Resources:

    • Join the workshop: Sex-Positive Sexuality
    • Join the Sanctuary Collective Community 

      • If you want to support the Patreon and help keep the podcast up and running, you can learn more and pledge your support at patreon.com/queertheology

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