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Hey MAMAS!, Today we are exploring financial challenges as parents.

Do you feel the pressure of rising living costs and comparison with families around you? You are not alone! Lets learn how to fight these temptations while being financially transparent with our kids.

We also discuss the evolution of material desires, the impact of consumerism, and teaching financial awareness in a consumption-driven world. We all know we should trust God’s provision but how do we do it? Let’s cultivate an abundance mindset, and balance financial discipline with generosity.

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Hey there, amazing moms! We’re thrilled to welcome you to another episode of the Gather Moms podcast. Today, we’re diving into an oldie but a goodie: ‘If your friends jumped off a bridge, would you?’ We’ll explore the depths of peer pressure, the importance of making wise decisions, and how to support our kids in navigating their own paths. From prepping your kids for sleepovers to preparing them for adulthood there are so many ways this little phrase shows up in strategic conversations. So grab a cup of coffee (or tea!), and enjoy today’s episode!

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Our kids can have BIG emotions and so can we. Depending on how we were raised and our own issues, it can be such a struggle to handle our children’s big feelings. Kate and Rebecca share openly about the ways they’ve grown in this area and the big mistakes they’ve made along the way as they’ve navigated feelings.

Here’s what we want to remember:

Wait: Don’t have a big talk in the middle of an emotional storm

Prep: Make a plan when things are calm

Model: Model what you teach, apologize quickly

We don’t need to be afraid of emotions. We can turn to the God who created our emotions and ask him to guard our hearts and minds. When we give our emotions to him and remember he is with us, we calm down in our spirits and can lead ourselves and our children well.

Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice. Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:4–7)

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Hey Moms! We are beyond excited to share this episode of the Gather Moms podcast with you!

We are diving into the labels and tags we often assign to our kids and discuss the profound impact these labels can have on them. It is so important to affirm our children! Let carefully nurture our children’s hearts and focus on their intrinsic value. We all know our words have a lasting effect so let’s use them for good!

Three main points to consider:

Flipping the Coin: Turn negative labels (like “wild” or “bossy”) into their positive counterparts (like “energetic” or “leader”) to highlight the strengths behind challenging behaviors.

Eliminating Loaded Language: Avoid terms like “always” and “never” that exaggerate and unjustly define a child’s actions, focusing instead on specific behaviors that need addressing.

Behavior over Person: Critique actions instead of character, encouraging growth and learning from mistakes without defining the child by those mistakes.

Making the most of today resource.

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This episode revolves around that all-too-familiar phrase, “leave me alone.” We have all been there!. We need boundaries and some alone but we need to be careful in how we communicate this.

Three ways we see this phrase pop up:
1) Leave me alone, I’m trying to go to the bathroom:
We talk about how important it is to teach our kids common courtesy and respecting boundaries.

2) Leave me alone, I need a few minutes:
We dive into those moments when we’re completely overwhelmed and just need to step back. Self-awareness, delegating tasks, and planning for high-stress situations are key points here.

3) Leave me alone, I’m in a bad place:
We go deeper into issues like depression and severe exhaustion. It’s crucial to recognize these feelings and seek help, be it through prayer, talking to friends, or professional help.

Let’s communicate our needs and find strength through Jesus and our community. Keep your heads up, mamas! We’re all in this together.

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Thumper’s wise words echo in our minds: “If you don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all!” Join us as we delve into how this teaching has shaped our approach to motherhood. We’ll offer heartfelt reflections and practical tips for daily interactions with our kids.

As an added bonus, we get a little Disney quiz to see if you truly are a Disney fanatic or if you need to brush up on your childhood movies. Regardless of how you do, we hope you are encouraged and challenged as we think through a biblical way of parenting and setting an example for your kids.

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Welcome back, moms! In this episode of the Gather Moms podcast, we continue our “Mama Said” series by diving into the powerful impact of the words and actions we use at home.

We share how to create a safe and nurturing environment for our kids with the right balance of boundaries and praise. We talk about the importance of consistent discipline and how we can guide our children to be the same person inside and outside the home. Reflecting on our own upbringings, we uncover the ways our childhoods shape our current parenting practices and emphasize the critical role of integrity.

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This is part two of this two part episode. We are so excited to continue this episode with you because it’s something that’s really close to our hearts.

We shift our focus to honoring our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit and talk through ways to foster healthy practices around food and body image within our families. Learn how to accept compliments graciously, praise our children for their unique attributes, and set strong boundaries against negative weight comments. We emphasize the importance of not comparing our children to others, recognizing that every body is a unique creation by God.

Finally, we reflect on our past, especially our relationships with our mothers, and recognize areas in our parenting where we may need to seek forgiveness. Our hope is that our personal experiences will inspire you to embrace God’s kindness and faithfulness in setting both you and your children free from negative cycles.

We know this journey can be tough, but together, with God’s grace, we can break these generational lies about food and raise confident, Godly kids with a healthy body image.

Let’s jump in, mamas!

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This is part one of this two part episode. We’re diving into a phrases too many of us have heard about our bodies and weight and talking in this episode about food, body image, and breaking those unhealthy family cycles.

We get real about the complicated relationships we have with food and how societal messages from past generations have shaped those views. But we’re not just about the problem – we’re all about solutions, too! We share practical tips on fostering a healthy, God-centered approach to food and body image in our homes.

From learning to receive compliments graciously to praising our children for who they are beyond their appearance, we’re on a mission to make mealtime a positive experience. We highlight the necessity for us, as moms, to model a loving and balanced view of food as one of God’s many gifts. We’re also diving into some Biblical truths about food and our bodies, urging all of us to reject the world’s distorted views and embrace the incredible value and purpose God has given to us.

Let’s identify and stomp out the negative food talk in our homes and set a new legacy of freedom and confidence for our families. By the end of this episode, you’ll feel empowered to be the generational legacy breaker in your home when it comes to food and body image. Change is possible, and we’re here to cheer you on every step of the way.

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Hey Moms! We are super excited to dive into our new season of the Gather Moms podcast. This episode is all about the incredible power of our words as parents. We start by sharing some funny and meaningful ‘mama said’ phrases that we all know and love. Then, we get real about how our words—whether spoken in joy or frustration—have such a big impact on our kiddos.

Our theme this season is ‘Mama Said,’ where we’ll explore those familiar sayings we use and the lessons behind them. We break down how having a teachable, humble, and yes, even weak heart posture can help us use our words to teach, correct, and strengthen our kids. You’ll hear personal stories and get some heartfelt insights into why it’s okay to admit we can’t do it all on our own.

And guess what? We’re launching a 30-day prayer challenge for our kids! I wish I had prayed more intentionally for my children, and this is a chance for all of us to step up our prayer game. Trust me, it makes a world of difference. You’ll get daily prayer themes, a prayer calendar, and even little cards to let your kids know you’re praying for them. This season, we’re digging deep into motherhood, balancing the joys and challenges, and leaning on God’s strength. Remember, it’s okay to not have it all together; there’s so much grace for us. We’re in this together, mama! Can’t wait for you to join us in this new season of the Gather Moms podcast. See you next week!

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