Do you feel like ghosting your therapist? Claire gives you some insight into why you might be wanting to do this and shares some tips on other approaches you can take. Plus, she answers a question from a listener whose spouse does not want help for his addiction.

 

Check out Claire’s recommendations for resources on addiction: 

• Al-Anon 
• Narconon 
• American Addiction Centers
• Understanding and Helping an Addict by Andrew Proulx
• Codependent No More by Melody Beattie

 

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Perhaps you have a will and an advance directive, but will your loved ones know your WiFi password after you die? Amy Pickard started her company, Good to Go!, to ensure that your friends and family aren’t left wondering who your electric company is or if you’re subscribed to Hulu or Netflix after you’re gone. Amy tells Claire why she started Good to Go!, what it actually takes to get your affairs in order, and why she thinks our culture needs to reframe how we think and talk about death. 

 

Resources from the show

• Learn more about Good to Go! Parties and the Departure File

 

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Do you have a crush on your therapist? Claire gives you some insights into why this may be happening and gives you a tip on what to do about it. Plus, she answers a question from a listener whose family disapproves of the guy she loves.

 

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Do you wonder what your therapist thinks of you? Claire gives you some tips on ways to dig a little deeper into the relationship you have with your therapist. Plus, she answers a question from a listener interested in starting therapy for his compulsive sexual behavior.

 

Check out Claire’s recommendations for resources on sex addiction: 

• Sex Addiction 101 by Robert Weiss
• Sexual Compulsives Anonymous, Sex Addicts Anonymous, and Sexaholics Anonymous
• Center for Healthy Sex  

 

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By the time we’re adults, most of us have a good sense of how the world works and how we fit into it. But what are you supposed to do if something happens that shakes all you thought you knew to the ground? Psychiatrist Kali Cyrus is a Black, queer, cis woman who all of a sudden felt incredibly unsafe in the world with the rise of Donald Trump and the societal shifts that followed. Kali tells Claire about the moment it all became too painful for her to bear, how she retreated from the world as a result, and how she pulled herself out of the safe but small bubble she created for herself.

 

Resources from the show

• Check out Dr. Kali Cyrus’s website

 

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Underneath the anger, fear, and hopelessness many of us feel right now after the Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade lies grief. Claire’s expertise in this field is invaluable right now and we wanted to share her appearance on V Interesting with V Spehar with you. V asks Claire for tips on how to process your own personal grief, what it means to be grieving collectively with so many people, and how to handle loved ones with whom you disagree on this issue. Plus, Claire and V game-plan the best places to cry at work. You know, in case it comes up.

 

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Were your parents able to teach you every life lesson perfectly when you were a kid? Claire gives you some tips on how to make up for what you didn’t get when you were young by reparenting yourself now. Plus, she answers a question from a listener who is concerned her issues with mental health will negatively affect her children.

 

Check out these books Claire recommends about reparenting yourself:

• Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson
• Mothers Who Can’t Love by Susan Forward and Donna Frazier Glynn
• Mother Hunger by Kelly McDaniel
• Healing Your Lost Inner Child by Robert Jackman

 

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Putting yourself out there — the good, the bad, the ugly — in the social media age can be a high-risk, high-reward endeavor, to put it mildly. Few people know that quite as well as writer, director, producer, and actor Lena Dunham. Lena shot to superstardom at only 24 years old when her hit HBO show “Girls” debuted in 2012 and has been living her life very much in the public eye ever since. Lena tells Claire about her lifelong love of self-expression and creativity, how being so open about the hard things in her life actually helps her heal, and how her relationship with womanhood, grief, and loss intersects with her writing. Plus, Lena and Claire discuss how early experiences shaped their views on Roe v. Wade.

 

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Have you heard of breathwork? Claire gives you some tips on how to get into this interactive meditation technique that aims to center you, move emotions through your body, and relax the parasympathetic nervous system. Plus, she answers a question from a listener who is navigating the healthcare system and wants to know how to be a better patient.

 

Check out Claire’s recommendations for getting into breathwork: 

• Read Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art by James Nestor
• Follow Jay Bradley on Instagram @breatheonitwithjay 
• Check out Erin Telford’s website
• Learn more about Black Girls Breathing

 

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Do you take time to notice, appreciate, and reflect on the good things happening in your life? Claire gives you some tips on how to cultivate more gratitude every day. Plus, she answers a question from a listener who wants advice on how to handle her relationship with an abusive parent.

 

Check out these two books Claire recommends about reparenting yourself:

• What My Bones Know by Stephanie Foo
• Buy Yourself the F*cking Lillies by Tara Schuster

 

Do you have something you want Claire’s help with? Send her a question to be featured on an upcoming episode by emailing us at [email protected] or submitting one at www.bit.ly/newdayask.

 

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