Hijackals use chemistry to manipulate and control you. They exploit it to feel they have power over you. It is a significant part of trauma-bonding. Get clear on what's really happening when you think you're in love, rather than knowing you're being used. 

HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

• What lust, attraction, and attachment have to do with creating toxic relationships
• Why #Hijackals want to recreate their trauma from a position of control
• What part trauma-bonding plays in thinking you have chemistry with a toxic person
• How #Hijackals depend on the chemistry to keep you hooked in a toxic relationship, a verbally abusive relationship
• How misused chemistry can lead to emotional abuse

Chemistry may draw you back to a relationship of narcissistic abuse and emotional trauma. You may confuse it with love. It isn't love. Don't be fooled. Stop the trauma-bonding, too!

Big hugs!

Rhoberta

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