When Vernita Bostick suddenly lost her boyfriend in 2019, her world was turned upside down. As a stand-up comedian, she found an unexpected way to process grief — by using humor alongside raw honesty to share her journey.

In this episode, Vernita opens up about navigating the pain of sudden loss, creating a supportive community for grievers on Instagram, and finding meaning through both laughter and vulnerability. Her perspective shows that while grief is no joke, humor can be one of the most powerful tools for healing.

This conversation is filled with insight, courage, and the reminder that even in heartbreak, we can find ways to connect, cope, and carry on.

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  DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio approaches death differently. Each guest shares raw stories of grief, loss, or unique perspectives that challenge the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn’t end—it evolves. After losing his father on September 11th at just 12 years old, David discovered the power of conversation. Through laughter, tears, and honest dialogue, DEAD Talks helps make it a little easier to talk about death, mourning, trauma, and the life that continues beyond it.

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