Growing Consciousness

This episode is a story about a lady troubled in finding meaning in life, gaining different perspective after listening to life story of old lady.  This episode explains on how to view positive side of life and gain happiness from simple things in life. 

Youtube Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xophMW77Jpg

In this audio I focus on Jealousy, How it is ruining our relationships and making our lives terrible. And I give you guys 3 ways through which you can get rid of jealousy and be able to celebrate other people's success.

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Benefits of having good learning attitude

My name is Sudarshan Jassani Purohit. I hail from a small but beautiful district jaisalmer (Rajasthan). I had my primary education (till 10th standard) from Kendriya vidhyalaya jaisalmer. My parents say that i have very inquisitive nature from birth. i try to question and find solution to everything around me, i think because of that i have good hunger for learning. I was good at maths and kota (hub of coaching classes) is not very far from jaisalmer so i started preparing for JEE in kota and fortunately cracked it with AIR of 308.

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Jaisalmer is in the list of backward districts in india and cracking IIT where people know only about ITI was completely because of past good karmas.

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I did my engineering in EE from IITM. In my 2nd year i went to pune for an internship. CEO in that company was earlier a prof at IITM. Working their i understood that i can utilize my full potential only if i run an organization. i will be taking my own decisions, will be working on many thing like technology, marketing , operations etc and obviously if it clicks i will have lot of money and fame. Having that in mind i attended many lectures from different entrepreneur and as soon as i came out of IIT i started my own company (Zenify.in which got sold to nestaway.com ) with my two friends. I had high will but no skills to run a company and then i started learning leadership. Read more than 70 books on leadership and strategies. Learning leadership has changed me as an individual. Actually leadership is about having good attitude and character. i was able to get rid of many of my mental problems like anger, jealousy, fear, indiscipline, negativity, selfishness etc. Because of the growth of my consciousness (which is leadership) i am more happy and successful individual. 

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Later i read autobiography of yogi (by paramhansa yoganada) and understood that if you grow your consciousness you have everything. As god is at highest consciousness and he has everything like that if we grow our consciousness we will have everything.

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 A successful businessman was growing old and knew it was time to

Instead of choosing one of his Directors or his children, he decided

The young executives were shocked, but the boss continued. "I am going

A man named Jim was there that day and he, like the others, received a

Every day he would water it and check to see if it had grown. After

Jim kept checking his seed but nothing ever grew. Three weeks, four

Six months went by -- still nothing in Jim's pot. He just knew he had

A year finally went by and all the young executives of the company

Jim felt sick to his stomach, it was going to be the most embarrassing

He took his empty pot to the boardroom. When Jim arrived, he was

When the CEO arrived, he surveyed the room and greeted his young

executives. Jim tried his best to hide in the back.

"My, what great plants, trees, and flowers you have grown," he said.

"Today one of you will be appointed the next CEO!"

All of a sudden, he spotted Jim at the back of the room with an empty

When Jim got to the front, the CEO asked him what had happened to his

The CEO asked everyone to sit down except Jim. He looked at him, and

Jim couldn't believe it. He couldn't even grow his seed!

"How could he be the new CEO?" the others asked.

The CEO replied, "One year ago today, I gave everyone in this room a

As he was a kid, his father as a horse trainer was moving from stable to stable, from ranch to ranch, training horses. Thus, the boy‘s school career was constantly interrupted. One day, when he was a senior, teacher asked him to write about what he wanted to be when he grew up. He did not hesitate a minute and wrote seven-page paper about his aim to be an owner of a horse ranch, he wrote many details and drew a location of buildings and stables and even a detailed house plan.

Two days later he received his paper back with letter „F“ on the front page. After class he came to teacher and asked: „Why did I receive an F?“. The teacher responded: „This dreams is so unrealistic for a boy like you, who has no money, no resources and who comes from a family who travel places to places. There is no possibility that you will reach your great goals one day.“ Then the teacher offered to rewrite the paper with more realistic attitude.

The boy went home and asked his father, how should he act. The father answered: „This decision is very important for you. So you have to make your own mind on this“.

After several days the boy brought the same paper to his teacher. No changes were made. He said: „Keep the F and I will keep my dream“.

Now Monty Roberts owns 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of 200-acre horse ranch and he still has that school paper, which now is framed over the fireplace.

Remember, you have to follow your heart and never let anyone to steal your dreams.

Many a times we are highly positive about ourself but because of influensive negative people around us like our parents or our teacher we also become negative and because of that we get low self esteem and low self conidence.

Other will say that we cant do it but we dont have to listen to them. we have to keep our thought positive in adverse situation.

Monty roberts were able to handle the negative people well was able to motivate himself , he was able to stand up and take responsibility of his dream and he was able to believe on himself.

If you want to larn the above 4 attitude then you can watch my 4 videos:

1. how to handle negative people?

2. be a motivator for yourself and others

3. take responsibility and become successful

4. how to ensure success for your kids and other family members

 One night after dinner, a teacher began checking her students’

On reading the last note, she began crying while silent tears rolled

Her husband saw this and asked, “Why are you crying, my dear? What happened?”

The wife replied, “Yesterday at school, I gave my 1st-grade students a

“Okay, but why are you crying?”

The wife woefully replied,  “Listen to what one of my students wrote:

My wish is to become a smartphone. My parents love smartphones very

When my father gets home from work, he says he’s tired but he always

If my parents are doing some important work but the phone rings, it

They play games on their phones, not with me.

When they are talking to someone on their phone, they won’t stop to

That’s why my wish is to become a smartphone.”

After listening to the note, the husband got emotional and asked the

She replied, “Our son”.

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Gadgets are beneficial, but their purpose is to bring us ease, not to

Children can observe and understand everything that happens to them &

If you want to learn how to create a strong bond with your family

We become angry either by negative people if they say something negative to us or by negative result of your actions like if we loose a game or by negative incident happened to us like our car broke down in between or by material things like we could not get food as per your taste. Now when ever we get angry our temperature increases, our tone change and we dont see the total picture , we dont see the timing and we just out burst with full negative energy. Remember the outburst with fill negative energy has direct impact on our health because of anger our immune system deteriorate, chances of heart attack increase, we might get mental stroke, we might go into depression, it impact our lungs also and ultimately it reduces our life span.

Anger has very bad impact on our health and others health who are facing our anger. 

so here are the ways of how to control it well:

1. When ever we face a negative incident what we usually do is we try to think of al the negative things happened in past and by that we become more negative. Keep past incident in past and dont exaggarate the situation by thinking all the past negative incidents.

2. When ever we are angry try not to take any physical action. When we are angry we are full with negative energy and we take wrong action and decision that time. These action which we take when we are angry hamper our relationship in long term because actions are remembered more than the words. 

3. Best way to control anger is by thinking positive and not letting negative thoughts  to control your mind at all. One good positive statement which i use is its not the action its the response which make the difference. What ever negative has happened to me the only thing which will make the difference will be how do i response it. If i will be responding it positively then situation will be better and if i will respond negatively then situation will be worse. Like to make sound by clapping we need both the hand if one hand is higher than other than we will not be able to make a sound. So if one person is higher which means if he is positive then he will be able to control the situation. Other positive statement is that we must always keep relationship higher than situation. however other person is behaving i will never let my relationship hamper by reacting negatively. i will forgive my family memebers for their mistakes because i will keep relationship higher then situation. i will not think negative about my family members. To learn how to keep relationship higher then situation you can see my video how to improve relationship?

4. Let say if we were not able to control ourselves and became negative in these negative situation and outburst then only option left with us is asking for forgiveness. When we ask for forgiveness its not that we will become lower then other person it just that we mean relationship more that that situation. We can actually ask for forgiveness because we also became negative that time. If we were able to keep ourselves positive then we would not have got the anger and there were no fight.

Use the points i mentioned in my video and not let any negative situation make your angry. bye bye.