In this episode of Habit Nerd, Dr. Bree Hurn speaks with author Kasey Edwards about the impact of criticism on personal growth and self-worth. Kasey shares her journey of overcoming societal expectations and the importance of teaching children to handle criticism. They discuss the toxic nature of female competition and the need for supportive relationships. Kasey emphasizes the power of choosing how to respond to criticism and the significance of creating new beliefs to foster self-acceptance. In this conversation, Dr Bree Hurn and Kasey Edwards explore the importance of authenticity, emotional bravery, and the impact of gender norms on mental health. They discuss how competition can be toxic, the significance of fostering a growth mindset in children, and the value of female friendships. Kasey emphasizes the need for boys to express their emotions and the importance of supporting them in naming their feelings. The discussion culminates in a powerful message about self-worth and the necessity of prioritizing friendships and personal well-being.
References discussed in this episodeCriticism card and instructions for adults Emotion WheelCriticism mini-course for kids
Connect with Kasey Edwards and dive deeper into her work!
Follow her on Instagram @kaseyedwardswriter
Website: www.kaseyedwards.com
Books (paperback) Goodbye Good Girl, Hello MeRaising Girls Who Like Themselves Bringing Up Boys Who Like Themselves
AudiobooksGoodbye Good Girl, Hello Me - Raising Girls Who Like Themselves - Bringing Up Boys Who Like Themselves -
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Casey Edwards and Her Work
03:19 The Power of Choosing How to Respond to Criticism
09:39 Empowering Children to Handle Criticism
15:45 Cultural Influences on Female Competition
21:16 Identifying and Overcoming Toxic Beliefs
25:56 Empowering Self-Perception
26:53 The Fig Jam List: Celebrating Achievements
28:22 Building Evidence for New Beliefs
29:34 Navigating Feedback and Criticism
31:15 The Automatic Nature of Habits
36:39 The Power of Choice in Response
40:47 The Good Girl Conditioning
44:30 Emotional Bravery in Boys
48:54 Naming Emotions for Strength
52:32 Accepting and Understanding Emotions
53:46 Celebrating Others' Success
57:12 The Dangers of Toxic Competition
01:01:33 Redefining Success Beyond Grades
01:09:43 The Importance of Female Friendships
01:19:34 Introduction to The Habit Nerd
01:19:35 Strategies for Building Effective Habits
Keywords
habits, criticism, self-worth, generative AI, personal growth, women empowerment, parenting, Kasey Edwards, mental health, self-acceptance, authenticity, mental health, emotional bravery, gender norms, competition, friendships, self-worth, parenting, emotional intelligence, growth mindset