Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships

Have ADHD? Why You Might Be An Unwitting Hijackal Magnet


Listen Later

Toxic relationships are created when a partner exploits the vulnerabilities of the other. If you have ADHD tendencies, you may easily miss red flags as you pay attention to the charms, and are intrigued by the possibilities of the fake future they paint so readily.


Fear and shame also play a part you need to recognize. Hijackals have a honed sense of recognition of vulnerabilities. They are on high alert, looking for these to use to their advantage. You can be the most successful person and they'll see you as a challenge. Not good, at all!


Diann Wingert shares her insights and studies to help us understand why people with ADHD may not see toxic relationships clearly, and stay too long even though they are experiencing emotional abuse.



HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • How ADHD affects your ability to see red flags when you meet someone new
  • Traits women with ADHD have that makes them more susceptible to toxic relationships
  • Why intuition sometimes fails to discern patterns of manipulation when ADHD is present
  • Why verbal abuse and emotional abuse are sometimes not enough to make someone with ADHD leave a narcissist
  • Reasons that people with ADHD fail to leave toxic relationships and to recognize emotional trauma


GUEST: DIANN WINGERT


Diann Wingert is a mindset and productivity coach for female entrepreneurs who identify with the traits of ADHD, officially diagnosed or not. During her 20-year career as a licensed psychotherapist, Diann saw many brilliant and ambitious women struggle with unidentified ADHD, including Diann herself. Since her own mid-life diagnosis, she now mentors women who are “driven but distracted” to get focused and overcome procrastination, perfectionism, and people-pleasing so they can craft a life and business they love.


Diann offers both individual and small group virtual coaching and mentoring to women all over the world. She is a dynamic podcast guest on the topics of ADHD in high ability women, the mental health challenges of entrepreneurship, self care for the self employed and how women can cultivate an entrepreneurial mindset.


GIFT FOR YOU: Wow! Diann is offering you three things at NO cost:

6 Steps to ADHD Mastery, The Driven Woman's Roadmap and the ADHD Signature Strengths Quiz.

https://www.diannwingertcoaching.com/free-stuff


CONNECT WITH DIANN WINGERT :

WEBSITE: https://www.diannewingertcoaching.com

PODCAST: The Driven Woman https://www.diannwingertcoaching.com/podcast

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/diannwingertcoaching

YOUTUBE:  

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/coachdiannwingert/

LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/diannwingertcoaching/

TWITTER: 

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.


FOLLOW DR. SHALER...

WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.com

PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com

FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor

TWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

PINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler


-------------------------------------------------------------

I'M HERE TO HELP YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT'S GOING ON AND WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ABOUT IT!

If you want to learn more, share, ask questions, and feel more powerful within yourself and your relationships,

join my Support Circle now.

Off social media, safe discussion + videos + articles + webinars + personal home study program + group Ask Me Anything Calls with me.

WOW! Join now. Dr. Shaler's Emerging Empowered Community. 

----------------------------------------------------------------------

#toxicshame #adhd #add #attentiondeficitdisorder #attentiondeficityhyperactivitydisorder #whyadhdcausesmetomiss #impulsivitywithadd #missingredflags #diannwingert #thedrivenwoman #adhdcoachforfemaleentrepreneurs #femaleentrepreneurswithadhd #diannwingertcoaching #ihaveadhd #adhdandtoxicrelationships

#passiveaggressive

#relationshipadvice #tipsforrelationships #Hijackals #toxicpeople #hijackalabuse #mentalhealthmatters #MHNRNetwork #RhobertaShaler #narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #stoptoleratingabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #unhealthyrelationships #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #passiveaggressive #notgoodenough #relationshiphelp #verballyabusive #stopemotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #emotionaltrauma

Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/hijackals-conflict-toxic-people-narcissist.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic RelationshipsBy Dr. Rhoberta Shaler

  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7

4.7

43 ratings


More shows like Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships

View all
Stuff You Should Know by iHeartPodcasts

Stuff You Should Know

78,360 Listeners

Normalize therapy. by Caleb & Verlynda Simonyi-Gindele

Normalize therapy.

350 Listeners

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett by DOAC

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

8,295 Listeners

Girls Gotta Eat by Dear Media

Girls Gotta Eat

29,125 Listeners

Love and Abuse by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert

Love and Abuse

836 Listeners

Dateline NBC by NBC News

Dateline NBC

47,838 Listeners

Choose In by Roxanne Kennedy Granata

Choose In

89 Listeners

A Bit of Optimism by Simon Sinek

A Bit of Optimism

2,229 Listeners

LoveWork: Skills for a Relational Life by Jerry Sander, LCSW & Kristy Gaisford, LCSW

LoveWork: Skills for a Relational Life

24 Listeners

Betrayal: Weekly by iHeartPodcasts and Glass Podcasts

Betrayal: Weekly

7,797 Listeners

The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle by Anna Runkle

The Crappy Childhood Fairy Podcast with Anna Runkle

325 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,252 Listeners

Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships by Bre Wolta

Heartbreak to Wholeness: Untangling the Mindf*ck of Narcissistic Relationships

30 Listeners