Thankfulness can feel surprisingly slippery—especially when the holiday meant to celebrate gratitude often leaves us rushing, coordinating, cooking, or collapsing on the couch. Psalm 100:4–5 invites us to slow down and remember why gratitude matters in the first place: God is good, His love endures, and His faithfulness covers every generation. When our hearts return to that truth, thanksgiving becomes more than a holiday feeling—it becomes a posture shaped by God’s presence, not our circumstances.

Highlights

• True gratitude goes deeper than holiday traditions or surface-level appreciation.

• Thanksgiving can be stressful—travel, expectations, or loneliness—but God steadies our hearts in every situation.

• Being thankful includes recognizing the blessing of people who want us close during the holidays.

• Reaching out to someone who’s alone can ignite genuine gratitude in them and in us.

• A thankful heart grows as we reflect on God’s goodness, salvation, and enduring faithfulness.

• Gratitude is something to cultivate year-round, not just on one busy Thursday.

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Having Genuine Gratefulness This Thanksgiving

By Vivian Bricker 

Bible Reading:

“Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations.” - Psalm 100:4-5 

Thanksgiving shouldn't be known as just a day of feasting. Rather, it should be a day dedicated to genuine thankfulness. Due to all the preparations that need to be done, it can sometimes feels like the only thing we are thankful for is when the day is finally over. 

Depending on your own living situation, Thanksgiving might look like traveling to three different locations to spend time with family, or maybe it looks like spending time at home alone. When we reflect on our own Thanksgiving experiences, we need to consider what it truly means to be thankful. Sure, traveling all weekend for Thanksgiving can feel daunting and stressful, but we have to ask ourselves, “Isn't it worth it to spend time with my loved ones?”

For those who don't have extended family and aren't traveling for Thanksgiving, traveling would be something to be thankful for, as it means you have people who care about you and truly want you there for the holiday season. Imagine if you had nowhere to or spend the holiday with, and how lonely that would be.

I still acknowledge that spending Thanksgiving on the road can be stressful as well. For many people, they have to travel very long distances or go to multiple places in one day. However, with God, we can still be thankful regardless of our situation.

My family and I are close-knit, so we stay together for Thanksgiving. My uncle lived by himself, and every year we would give him a big Thanksgiving meal plate, and my dad would spend time with him since all of his own family had passed away. Sadly, there are many people just like my uncle. Although he is now in Heaven, he spent most of his life alone. If you want a heart of thankfulness this year, try to spend time with a family member or friend who is by themselves. It will mean the world to them, and it might also help you become more thankful for what you have in your own life. 

The goal for Thanksgiving is to express true thankfulness. Not a thankfulness that is only surface-level, but a true thankfulness that reaches to the inmost parts of our souls. This is a thankfulness that is rooted in God. When we acknowledge the many blessings of God in our lives and the very gift of salvation, we will finally be able to open our hearts to being thankful. 

Intersecting Faith & Life:

The Bible tells us, “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name. For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations” (Psalm 100:4-5). As this Psalm states, we need to enter the Lord’s courts with praise, give Him thanks, and praise His Name. His love endures forever, His faithfulness continues through all generations, and He is good. By knowing these things and taking them to heart, we will become more grateful for our wonderful Savior and thankfulness will start showing up in our daily lives.

Reach out to a loved one who is living alone, or be happy when you have to make the long trip to meet up with family members who live in another state. Allow yourself to be thankful for the beautiful blessings God has placed in your life. 

Every good gift comes from the Father (James 1:17). Continue to cultivate this thankfulness beyond the Thanksgiving season and hold onto it for the rest of your days. 

Do you have trouble being thankful on Thanksgiving? What are some ways you can reach out to a loved one this Thanksgiving to help them know they are not alone?

Further Reading:

1 Thessalonians 5:18

Colossians 3:15

Colossians 4:2 

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