Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in survivor mode — just trying to get through the day, pushing past your own needs, and wondering if joy will ever really come?
So many women believe they must wait until they’re “healed enough” or “whole enough” before joy is possible. But friend, joy isn’t the end result of healing. Joy is part of the healing.

In this episode, you’ll discover how neuroscience and Scripture show us that even the smallest joys — a laugh, a sweet moment, or something as simple as a s’more by the fire — can begin to rewire your heart from survival into belovedness.

I’ll share a tender personal story of how God used a summer evening with my kids to show me it’s never too late for joy, and how choosing joy — even in the middle of tears — is a sacred step of healing.

Key Takeaways:


Why small joys help rewire your brain out of survival mode
 How “false safety mechanisms” from trauma silence your desires — and how to break free
 Why Jesus invites you to taste joy even before you’re fully healed
 A personal story of how a simple summer night with my boys became a moment of healing joy
 A practical soul care practice to take one small joy step this week

Breath Prayer:

Inhale: Those who sow in tears 
Exhale: will reap with shouts of joy

 Scripture:
“Those who sow in tears will reap with shouts of joy.” Psalm 126:6

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Do you ever find yourself feeling stuck — when your days all start to look and feel the same?

One of the hidden stressors we often overlook is emotional stagnation. When our brains aren’t being challenged with fresh experiences, our emotional well-being dips — to stress or low mood.

In this special episode, I sit down with Grammy-nominated violinist and teacher Joseph Christianson to explore the soul care power of music and learning something new. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why learning something new can help you break out of emotional stagnation and feel more joy
How music combines creativity, mindfulness, and joy to refresh your spirit
A simple technique from Joseph to overcome perfectionism and embrace learning with joy
A practical soul care challenge to boost your joy

 Breath Prayer:
 Inhale: I will sing a new song to you
Exhale: I will make music to you

 Scripture:
 “I will sing a new song to you, O God; I will make music to you.”  Ps.144:9

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Have you ever walked into a space and instantly felt lighter, calmer, or inspired — just because of what you saw? Beauty isn’t just decoration. Science shows that what surrounds you can change how you feel, help you break stress cycles, and even make new habits stick.

Yet many Christian women hesitate to add beauty to their own lives — worrying it’s “selfish” or “unnecessary.” But friend, God designed beauty as a gift to restore your soul. It’s not extra. It’s essential.

In this episode, you’ll discover how adding beauty into your space can renew your spirit and spark joy — inside and out. You’ll learn the neuroscience of why beauty matters, how visual cues can help you stick to life-giving rhythms, and a simple soul care practice to bring God’s peace and joy into your daily environment.

I’ll also share a personal story of the surprising way adding color to my own bedroom has transformed my mornings — giving me a more peaceful start to the day and helping me connect more deeply with God.

Key Takeaways:


  The neuroscience of how beauty lowers stress and boosts motivation


  Why visual cues are powerful triggers for building new habits


  How God uses beauty to reflect His care for you — it’s not “extra,” it’s essential


  A personal reflection on “clothing yourself with Christ” and embracing His beauty in your life


  A practical soul care challenge to add one beauty cue to your environment this week


 Breath Prayer:
 Inhale: You make all things beautiful
 Exhale: in your time

 Scripture:
 “He has made everything beautiful in its time.”
 Eccl.3:11

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In today’s busy, burnout-prone world, joy can feel like a luxury. But here’s a surprising truth: nearly 1 in 3 adults hasn’t shared a meal with someone outside their household in over a month. And yet, science shows that simple connection — like eating together or laughing over a board game — is one of the most powerful ways to restore our emotional well-being.

In this episode, you’ll learn why joy is meant to be shared — and how God uses ordinary moments of togetherness to calm your nervous system, lift your mood, and spark healing from the inside out. You’ll discover the soul care science behind connection and the spiritual invitation to let joy back in — not someday, but now.

Key Takeaways:

 The neuroscience of why shared meals reduce stress and increase connection

 How playing a board game boosts dopamine and builds joy


A grace-filled perspective on hospitality that makes it easier to invite others in

Why ordinary moments of joy are some of the most sacred
 A two-part soul care tip to help you glow from the inside out — no perfection needed

 Breath Prayer:

Inhale: they broke bread together
Exhale: with glad and sincere hearts

Scripture:
“They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts.”
Acts 2:46

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This week on Breathe, we’re talking about something that keeps so many women from experiencing real joy: guilt — especially the hidden kind that whispers, “You don’t deserve this.”

Have you ever felt bad for doing something that made you happy? Like taking a break, saying no, or choosing what’s good for your soul? You’re not alone — and it’s not your fault.

In this episode, Bonnie shares a deeply personal story from her childhood — a pink outfit, a heart full of hope, and the moment joy was lost. But she also shares how Jesus met her in that memory — and how He can meet you in yours too.

Key Takeaways:
 How your brain uses visual cues to form habits (both good and bad)

 The neuroscience of why clutter creates stress and how to reset your mind

 Why your environment matters when building new rhythms of rest and joy


A simple soul care practice called the “Summer Soul Toss” to refresh your space — and your spirit

 Breath Prayer

Inhale: Your steadfast love never ceases.

Exhale: Your mercies are new every morning

 Scripture:
“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning.”Lamentations 3:22–23

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This week on Breathe, we’re talking about something that might be stealing your joy without you even realizing it: visual and emotional clutter.

If your environment feels messy, your mind might feel the same way — scattered, overwhelmed, or stuck in old patterns.

In this episode, Bonnie shares a surprising story of how one painful moment helped her realize that healing sometimes starts with what you remove — not just what you add.

Key Takeaways:
How your brain uses visual cues to form habits (both good and bad)

The neuroscience of why clutter creates stress and how to reset your mind

Why your environment matters when building new rhythms of rest and joy


A simple soul care practice called the “Summer Soul Toss” to refresh your space — and your spirit

Breath Prayer:


Inhale: Your steadfast love never ceases.

Exhale: Your mercies are new every morning.

Today's Scripture to Write on Your Heart:
“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning.” - Lamentations 3:22–23

Plus, Bonnie shares a sneak peek of something special coming next week — a new course designed to help you turn soul care into joyful action, with a bonus tool to help your body release serotonin and feel calm and renewed.

Want to find out what kind of care your body and emotions need most right now?
 Take Bonnie’s FREE 2-minute Soul Care Quiz at soulcarequiz.com

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Feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or stuck in survival mode? Take this free personal wellness assessment and discover which of the 4 types of soul care — emotional, physical, spiritual, or social — will help you replenish your peace and joy with God.

 → Take the free quiz at https://soulcarequiz.com

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Did you know that stepping into the sunlight is one of the most powerful ways to boost your mood and restore your soul?

In this episode of the Summer Soul Glow Up series, Bonnie shares how God's creation of light is not only a spiritual gift — it's also a scientific one. You'll discover how natural sunlight impacts your emotions, your energy levels, and even your sleep. Plus, Bonnie shares a personal story of how starting her mornings in the light transformed her emotional wellness during a difficult season of insomnia and burnout.

This episode will inspire you to take one simple step — go outside and soak up the sunshine — and remind you that God created light to help your body and spirit heal.

Key Takeaways from Today’s Soul Care:
How sunlight increases serotonin and improves your mood

Why God designed light as a powerful form of healing

How habit stacking helps you build joyful, life-giving rhythms

A soul care practice to help you begin your day with calm and joy

Breath Prayer:
Inhale: Let there be light…
Exhale: And God saw that it was good.

Scripture of the Week:
Genesis 1:3 – “And God said, ‘Let there be light,’ and there was light. And God saw that the light was good.”


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Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt like the outside you doesn’t reflect the vibrant, joyful person you used to be inside?

In this second episode of the Summer Soul Glow Up series, Bonnie invites you to rediscover the sacred beauty of caring for yourself — not just spiritually, but physically and emotionally too. Learn how small acts of outer care, like skincare or dressing in what makes you smile, can become powerful soul care practices that awaken your joy, calm your nervous system, and reconnect you with God’s delight in you.

Through biblical encouragement, science-backed wellness insight, and a vulnerable personal story about Queen Esther and skincare, Bonnie helps you let go of guilt and embrace a summer of sacred renewal.

Tune into this episode to remember: your glow isn’t just about how you look — it’s about how loved, worthy, and renewed you feel in God's presence.

 Key Takeaways from Today’s Soul Care:
• Why outer self-care can be sacred and soul-renewing
• How physical care helps lower stress and calm your body
• A story from Queen Esther that reshaped Bonnie’s view of skincare
• How to stop putting yourself to the side and start showing up for you
• A soul care ritual to help you begin glowing again this summer

Breath Prayer:
Inhale: I am altogether beautiful...
Exhale: There is no flaw in me

Scripture of the Week:
Song of Songs 4:7 — “You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you.”

Featured Resource: FREE Soul Care Quiz at soulcarequiz.com
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 → Take the free quiz at https://soulcarequiz.com

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Do you ever feel like summer is slipping by while you’re just trying to hold everything together — and forgetting what brings you joy?

In this episode, Bonnie kicks off the Summer Soul Glow Up series with an encouraging invitation to stop putting yourself to the side and start creating space for what lights you up. You'll learn why joy isn't selfish — it's soul care. And how the atmosphere you create with your emotional presence shapes the memories you're making with those you love.

Through personal story, science, and scripture, Bonnie shares how joy is not just a nice extra — it’s a God-designed key to your emotional and spiritual wellness.

 Tune into this episode to rediscover your God-given permission to enjoy life again — and take the first step in your summer soul glow up.

 Key Takeaways from Today’s Soul Care:

Why joy is essential to your emotional and physical wellness

How anticipatory joy boosts dopamine and helps lower anxiety

Why your glow-up blesses others (and brings joy to God)

A soul care practice to help you start your joy-filled summer with intention

 Breath Prayer:
Inhale: Delight yourself in the Lord...
Exhale: And He will give you the desires of your heart.

 Scripture of the Week:
 “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart.” Psalm 37:4

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Do you ever feel like you’re just not enough — no matter how much you do or how hard you try to hold everything together? Maybe you’ve been the strong one for so long, but deep down you’re quietly wondering… Does anyone truly see me?

You’re not alone — and you don’t have to keep hiding your heart.

In this episode, Bonnie shares how emotional neglect and affectional deprivation create deep wounds in the nervous system — and how Psalm 139 offers healing through the power of being seen, known, and loved by God.

 Tune into this episode to rediscover your worth, experience how wonderfully God made you, and feel His tender presence with practical soul care tools rooted in scripture and neuroscience.

 Key Takeaways from Today’s Soul Care:
• How emotional neglect affects your nervous system and brain chemistry
• What “yada” means in Hebrew — and how God experiences your emotions
• Why Psalm 139 can help heal feelings of invisibility and unworthiness
• Three soul care practices to help you feel seen, known, and loved
• A breath prayer to help you release self-doubt and rest in God’s love

Breath Prayer:
Inhale: I praise You…
Exhale: For I am wonderfully made.

Scripture of the Week:
Psalm 139:14
“I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Marvelous are Your works, and I know this very well.”

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