Breathe: The Stress Less Podcast

Have you ever thought, I’ll feel more joy when life finally calms down? What if joy isn’t something you have to wait for?

In today’s episode of Breathe: The Stress Less Podcast, Bonnie explores the science of joy—and how choosing joy can actually lift your own well-being too. Bonnie shares a personal story about following a gentle prompting she really resisted initially — and the surprising joy she experienced in her own life after taking action.

You’ll also discover how knowing you are deeply seen and known by God can become a source of joy—and how the joy and love you’ve received from Him can overflow into someone else’s life.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why joy doesn’t have to wait until your stressful circumstances change
- How knowing you are seen, known, and heard by God can lift your heart
- What Hannah’s story teaches us about joy in times of suffering
- What research says about helping positive emotions multiply 
- Two simple ways to choose joy to reap the wellness benefits and grow closer to God

Scripture
“In your presence there is fullness of joy.” Psalm 16:11
“You formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.” Psalm 139:13

Breath Prayer
Inhale: In Your presence…
Exhale: There is fullness of joy.

Resources & Studies Mentioned
"Acts of Kindness & Well-Being" https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0022103117303451

"Sharing Positive Experiences & Well-Being"
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15301629
Henri Nouwen on Choosing Joy:
“Joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.” by Henri Nouwen in his book "Here and Now: Living in the Spirit"
https://link.amazon/B07FPEBYr

 

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Have you ever made a gratitude list—but still felt stressed afterward?

Gratitude is powerful for our emotional wellness—but what if there’s a simple way to experience it more deeply?

In today’s episode of Breathe, Bonnie explores the science of gratitude and a simple “story twist” that can help lift your mood, calm stress, and help you notice God’s goodness in a more personal way. Instead of only naming what you’re grateful for, you’ll learn how vividly remembering the story around your gratitude helps reframes your day and boosts your mood with thanksgiving to God.

Bonnie also shares a personal story from her recent trip to North Carolina, where an unexpected encounter reminded them that gratitude is not just about good things, but the giver God was present in their stories.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why our brains naturally pay more attention to stress and negative experiences—a tendency psychologists call negativity bias
- How gratitude can help redirect our attention toward something good that is also true
- What research on positive autobiographical memories tells us about why vividly remembering a positive experience can lift our mood
- Why savoring the story behind your gratitude may help you experience the positive emotions of that moment again
- How to bring your gratitude story into prayer and notice where God met you personally
- A simple Gratitude Story Twist you can practice when stress starts telling the story of your day

Scripture
“Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; for his steadfast love endures forever!” — Psalm 118:1

“You will be enriched in every way to be generous in every way, which through us will produce thanksgiving to God… overflowing in many thanksgivings to God.” — 2 Corinthians 9:11–12

Breath Prayer
Inhale: I give thanks to You, Lord…
Exhale: Your steadfast love endures forever.

Resources & Studies Mentioned
Negativity Bias:
The Negativity Bias, Revisited: Evidence from Neuroscience Measures and an Individual Differences Approach
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31750790/
Gratitude & Emotional Well-Being:
The Effects of Gratitude Interventions: A Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/37585888/
Positive Autobiographical Memories & Mood:
Research examining how vividly reliving positive autobiographical memories is associated with improvements in mood.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31348599/

 → Read Whispers of Rest: 40 Days to Revitalize Your Soul with God's Love, by Bonnie:
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→ Join Bonnie on Instagram @thebonniegray

 →  Eucalyptus Shower Steamers for instant calm at Bonnie's Soul Care Store

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Have you ever noticed how your surroundings can change the way you feel? 

Friend, beauty isn’t just decoration. The things we see around us can affect how we feel and even influence the rhythms and habits we create.

This week, Bonnie is kicking off a new "Science + Scripture of Wellness Series" on Breathe, exploring one question: What does science tell us about how God designed us, and how does Scripture help us live it?

In this episode, Bonnie shares a recent personal story that made her look at beauty—and the way she cares for her own environment—in a whole new way.

You’ll discover how small cues of beauty can invite you to slow down, create healthier rhythms, and notice more of the beauty God has already placed around you.

In This Episode
— Why your surroundings can affect how you feel and behave
— How visual cues can support healthier daily rhythms
— Why beauty doesn’t have to be frivolous or selfish
— What Jesus’ words teach us about beauty and God’s care
— One simple way to bring more beauty into your everyday space
— How to connect beauty with a soul care rhythm like prayer, journaling, nourishing meals, or rest

Breath Prayer:
Inhale: You make my life beautiful…
Exhale: You make everything beautiful in your time

Scripture:
“He has made everything beautiful in its time.” Ecclesiastes 3:11

“Consider how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these.” — Matthew 6:28–29

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Are you standing at the edge of a life transition, wondering what’s next? Maybe something familiar is ending, but you still don’t know what God has for you in the season ahead.

In this week’s episode, Bonnie shares a tender personal story about losing something irreplaceable—and the surprising realization that changed the way she’s thinking about her own transition into an unknown season. Through Scripture, science, and soul care, you’ll discover how God may give you a direction before He gives you the destination—and how taking one small, meaningful step can help you feel more grounded when life feels uncertain.

Friend, you don’t need the whole map. You just need the next step with Jesus.

Key Takeaways
— Why life transitions can feel stressful—even when the change is good
— The Science: How uncertainty can activate your stress response and leave you feeling anxious, tired, or overwhelmed
— Why you don’t have to figure out your whole future to move forward
— How God may be showing you a direction before He shows you the destination
— A simple soul care practice to help you name the direction of your new season and take one meaningful next step

Breath Prayer
Inhale: You go ahead of me, Lord…

Exhale: I am never alone.

Scripture
“Be strong and courageous... for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” — Joshua 1:9

 → Read Whispers of Rest: 40 Days to Revitalize Your Soul with God's Love, by Bonnie:
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→ Join Bonnie on Instagram @thebonniegray

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Have you ever felt stuck in the blahs—when your days start to feel the same and nothing feels fresh or exciting?

What if trying something new could help lift your mood and bring fresh joy to your soul—even when life itself hasn’t gotten easier?|

In this episode, Bonnie shares how an unexpected conversation during one of the most difficult seasons of her life changed the way she saw her struggle with anxiety —and led her to finally try something she'd always wanted to learn.

Discover the science behind Beginner’s Joy, why learning something new can boost your emotional wellness, and how letting go of perfectionism can help you experience more curiosity, creativity, and joy with God.

Key Takeaways
— Why learning something new can help lift your mood and emotional wellness
— The surprising science behind novelty and Beginner’s Joy
— How God can meet you with something new in the middle of a difficult season

— Why an encouraging voice can help loosen the grip of perfectionism

— One simple Soul Care practice to boost the joy of being a beginner

Breath Prayer
Inhale: I will sing a new song to You, God...

Exhale: I will make music to You.

Scripture
"I will sing a new song to you, O God; I will make music to you." Psalm 144:9

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Have you ever wanted to get together with a friend—but you were too tired, too busy, or maybe even felt guilty because too much time had passed?

What if reconnecting could be simpler than you think—and still give you the joy and connection your wellness needs?

In this episode, Bonnie shares a lunch with a friend during her recovery from an ankle stress fracture—and the surprising moment they both realized how easily guilt can get in the way of reconnecting.

Discover the science behind why time with friends supports your emotional wellness, why shared joy matters to both body and soul, and how letting friendship fit your actual capacity can help you reconnect and experience more joy.

Key Takeaways

— The surprising science behind why friendship supports emotional wellness
— Why shared meals and time together can reduce stress and increase joy
— How guilt can quietly keep us from reaching out to people we love
— Why Jesus invites us into connection without needing us to be perfect
— One simple Soul Glow Up Challenge to let joy in even when you're tired

Breath Prayer
Inhale: Breaking bread and eating together
Exhale: with glad and sincere hearts

Scripture
"They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts." Acts 2:46

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Have you ever known what was best for your health—but still found yourself putting everyone else first?

What if making room for healing isn't about doing more, but letting go of what's keeping you from receiving God's best?

In this episode, Bonnie shares a surprising plot twist in her own healing journey and the life-changing words that helped her rethink her priorities.

Discover the science behind why your environment shapes your decisions, how making space in your calendar can support your emotional and physical well-being, and one simple soul care practice to help you prioritize your health with peace instead of guilt.

Key Takeaways
— Why your environment shapes your priorities more than motivation alone
— The science of decision fatigue and why too many commitments make healthy habits harder
— How God may be inviting you to let go of a good plan to make room for His better plan
— Why giving yourself permission to prioritize your health isn't selfish
— A simple Soul Care Calendar Reset to help you create space for healing this week

Breath Prayer
Inhale: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases
Exhale: They are new every morning

Scripture
“The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning.” — Lamentations 3:22–23

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Have you ever felt guilty for doing something that brings you joy? What if choosing joy isn't selfish—but one of the ways Jesus invites you to receive His kindness and care for your heart?

In this episode, Bonnie shares a touching story of an unexpected act of kindness from a stranger that transformed her understanding of soul care. Discover the surprising science behind joy, why it matters for your brain, body, and soul, and one simple practice that can help you receive God's love and experience greater emotional and spiritual wellness.

Key Takeaways
– What is "default guilt" & How it affects your wellness
– Why choosing joy isn't selfish—and why your brain, body, and soul need it.
– The science of "anticipatory joy" to calm your nervous system and supports emotional wellness
– The surprising connection between receiving kindness and deeper soul healing
– A simple practice to help you let go of guilt and choose joy this week

Breath Prayer

Inhale: God takes great delight in me
Exhale: He will rejoice over me with singing

Scripture

“The Lord your God is with you… He will take great delight in you; He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing." Zeph. 3:17

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What if one simple morning habit could help you sleep better, lower stress, and bring more peace to your day?

In this third episode of the Summer Soul Glow Up series, Bonnie shares how learning the science of morning light helped reset her sleep — and how she's adjusting her summer glow up practice in the midst of a tough season to meet with God and receive His peace.

If you've been waking up anxious, feeling emotionally drained, or longing to begin your day with more hope, this episode will encourage you to discover how God's design for your body can become a pathway to caring for your soul.

Key Takeaways
— Why morning light helps reset your body's internal clock

— The surprising connection between sunlight, sleep, and emotional well-being
— How one simple morning practice can calm fear and renew hope

— Why caring for your body can open your heart to God

— A gentle soul care rhythm to begin each day with peace

Breath Prayer

Inhale: Speak, Lord...

Exhale: I am listening

Scripture

"Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening." 1 Samuel 3:10

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Prioritize self-care the Jesus way and experience rest, renewal, and encouragement for your soul.

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Breathe Joy with Jesus:
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Have you ever felt guilty for taking care of yourself?
What if your skincare routine could become an act of soul care?

In this second episode of the Summer Soul Glow Up series, Bonnie shares how preparing for ankle surgery led her to discover the surprising science of protein and healthy skin—and what Queen Esther teaches about God's heart for caring for ourselves.

If you've been putting yourself last or wondering if self-care is selfish, this episode will encourage you to receive God's invitation to care for yourself with joy, gratitude, and freedom.

Key Takeaways
— Why caring for your outer self can become soul care
— The science of protein, healing, and healthy skin
— What Queen Esther teaches about beauty and your God-given worth
— Why healing begins when you know your priority
— A simple self-care practice to nourish your body and soul

Breath Prayer
Inhale: You are altogether beautiful...
Exhale: There is no flaw in you.
Scripture
"You are altogether beautiful, my darling; there is no flaw in you." — Song of Songs 4:7

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→ Free Devotional Gift

 Download your free devotional: Bonnie’s FREE “Find Your Joy with Jesus: A 4-Day Devotional.”
https://thebonniegray.com/findyourjoydevotional/
Prioritize self-care the Jesus way and experience rest, renewal, and encouragement for your soul.

Take Bonnie's Soul Care Courses:

Breathe Joy with Jesus:
Create Happy Wellness Rhythms to Cultivate Joy with God's Promises
Register at https://thebonniegray.com/soulcareschool/

→  Eucalyptus Shower Steamers for instant calm at Bonnie's Soul Care Store

 Watch YouTube Devotionals:
https://youtube.com/thebonniegray

 Bestselling Books by Bonnie:
https://amzn.to/3NpVYQd

Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.