Do you ever hesitate to try something new because you’re afraid to get it wrong — even something that could bring you joy?

In today’s episode, Bonnie shares a heartfelt story about letting go of control. You’ll discover how creative expression can calm anxiety, awaken joy, and help you connect with God’s peace in a deeper way.

Learn the surprising brain-science behind why creativity soothes your nervous system and how expressing yourself freely can become an act of worship and wellness.

Key Takeaways:
 Why the fear of “getting it wrong” keeps you stuck in stress mode
 The science of creativity — how it lowers anxiety and restores calm
 How to invite God into your creativity and let go of perfection
 One soul care step to try this week to lower anxiety & spark joy

 Breath Prayer:
Inhale: I am God's masterpiece
Exhale: created to do his work

 Scripture:
“We are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things He planned for us long ago.” — Ephesians 2:10

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Have you ever kept your feelings hidden because you thought voicing them was weakness? Or felt silenced by shame, fear, or the thought, “I shouldn’t complain”?

Friend, with God, your feelings matter. In this week’s episode, Bonnie shares her powerful story of returning to what once felt like a place of silence as a child and how it became the stage where she testified to God’s healing and love.

You’ll discover why hiding your feelings keeps your body stuck in stress, and how naming them becomes the doorway to peace, healing, and joy. Through scripture, science, and a simple soul care practice, Bonnie will help you release the weight of silence and draw closer to God.

Key Takeaways:
 Why silence isn’t strength — and how God calls you to bring your whole heart to Him
 Turning points in Bonnie’s story: how panic attacks became peace through writing her God-stories
 The science: hiding emotions raises cortisol, while naming them lowers stress and releases “peace & joy” chemicals
 Why scripture shows us that voicing feelings — like David in the Psalms or Jesus weeping — is part of true faith
 A simple writing practice to help you name your feelings, remember God’s goodness, and experience peace

 Breath Prayer:
Inhale: I will remember the deeds of the Lord
Exhale: I will remember your miracles of long ago.

 Scripture:
“I will remember the deeds of the Lord; yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago. I will consider all your works and meditate on all your mighty deeds.” — Psalm 77:11–12

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Do you ever find yourself stuck in a worry loop — replaying conversations, imagining worst-case scenarios, or circling endless what-ifs?

In this week’s episode, Bonnie shares how remembering God’s goodness can break the worry loop and bring calm to your soul. You’ll also hear the science behind why positive memories help rewire the brain, and learn a soul care practice you can try this week to anchor yourself in God’s presence instead of anxiety.

Key Takeaways:
 What the worry loop is — and why it steals your peace

 Why remembering God’s goodness calms worry and restores faith
 The science of “memory reconsolidation”: how recalling joy refreshes your brain and body

 How pulling out old photos can become a powerful wellness & worship practice

 The spiritual truth: you are never invisible — your story is treasured by God

 Breath Prayer:
I
Inhale: I remember You, Lord

Exhale: You bring peace to my heart

 Scripture:

“On my bed I remember you; I think of you through the watches of the night.” – Psalm 63:6

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Struggling with anxiety or longing for peace? In this week’s episode, Bonnie shares how writing your God-story can become a lifeline of calm, courage, and faith — and why your words matter more than you think.

Through her personal testimony of journaling during a season of panic attacks, you’ll discover how expressive writing brings emotional healing, helps you see God’s fingerprints in your story, and even strengthens your legacy of faith.

Key Takeaways:
 Why writing your God-story heals anxiety and calms your body

 Turning points you can use in Bonnie's healing journey – from panic attacks to peace and wellness
 The spiritual truth: your story matters to God and your wellness

 The science of expressive writing: how 15 minutes lowers stress and restores peace
 A simple “Your Story Matters” practice you can try this week

Breath Prayer:
Inhale: My story matters to You, Lord
Exhale: I will not keep silent.

Scripture:
“Let the redeemed of the Lord tell their story.” – Psalm 107:2

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This past week, the news has been heavy and unsettling. In the wake of tragedy and fearful headlines, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and weighed down by negativity. But you don’t have to stay stuck in fear.

In this week’s episode, Bonnie shares how to break free from negativity’s grip and discover how God renews your mind with peace. Through scripture, science, and soul care practices, you’ll learn how to quiet the noise, recognize the small new beginnings God is planting in your life, and take one step that brings clarity, calm, and hope.

Friend, you don’t need to figure out the whole picture. You just need one faithful step—and the reminder that God’s power shines through you, even in jars of clay.

Key Takeaways:

Why negativity bias makes painful news cling to us more than positive experiences
 How focusing on meaningful, positive action rewires your brain for peace and resilience
 What Jesus’ parable of building a tower teaches us about releasing and rebuilding with Him
 Why you are called to be Christ’s ambassador in this generation
 A simple soul care practice: take one small step toward the “tower” God is building in your life

 Breath Prayer:

Inhale: We have this treasure in jars of clay…

Exhale: to show this surpassing power is from God

 Scripture:
“Now we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this surpassingly great power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed.” – 2 Corinthians 4:7–9

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Fall is a season of change — kids head back to school, leaves begin to turn, and new routines take shape. But while transitions can be exciting, they can also stir up anxiety. What do I let go of? Where do I go next? Will God really be with me in this new land?

In this week’s episode, Bonnie shares a tender story from her own life — launching one son into college, preparing another for his final years at home, and sensing God’s invitation to step into a new season for herself. Through scripture, science, and soul care, she explores how to face transitions not with fear, but with courage and peace.

Friend, you don’t need the whole map. You just need one word, one small step, and the reminder that God goes ahead of you.

Key Takeaways:

Why transitions trigger stress in the brain (even good ones)
How naming your season lowers stress and increases resilience
Why courage doesn’t mean no fear — it means walking hand in hand with God
A personal story of breaking generational patterns and stepping into a Jubilee season
A simple soul care practice to help you name and embrace your new season

Breath Prayer:
Inhale: You go ahead of me, Lord…
Exhale: I am never alone.

 Scripture:
“Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or in dread of them, for the Lord your God is the One going with you. He will not desert you or abandon you… The Lord is the one who is going ahead of you; He will be with you. Do not fear and do not be dismayed.” – Joshua 1:6, 8

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Have you ever noticed how wearing something new, or adding a pop of color, can instantly lift your mood? Science shows that what you wear isn’t just functional — it can actually change how you feel, boost your mindset, and spark renewal from the inside out.

Yet many women hesitate to give themselves this kind of attention, telling themselves it’s “unnecessary” or “shallow.” But friend, nurturing yourself with beauty and refreshment is not frivolous. It’s soul care.

In this final episode of our Summer Soul Glow Up series, you’ll discover the psychology of why style and color affect your emotions, how even small wardrobe refreshes can lighten your inner load, and a soul care practice to invite God’s newness into your daily life.

I’ll also share a fun and meaningful story about taking my son Caleb back-to-school shopping — and how one small wardrobe refresh unexpectedly led to one of the biggest changes in his school routine.

Key Takeaways:
 The science of enclothed cognition — how what you wear impacts your mindset
 Research on color therapy and why certain colors lift mood and calm stress
 Why giving yourself attention isn’t shallow — it’s sacred
 A personal story of how a simple wardrobe refresh led to a lighter load and unexpected joy
 A soul care practice to refresh one item this week and invite God’s newness into your life

Breath Prayer:
Inhale: You are doing a new thing
Exhale: You are making a way

Scripture:
"See, I am doing a new thing; now it springs up, do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland." Is. 43:19

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Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in survivor mode — just trying to get through the day, pushing past your own needs, and wondering if joy will ever really come?
So many women believe they must wait until they’re “healed enough” or “whole enough” before joy is possible. But friend, joy isn’t the end result of healing. Joy is part of the healing.

In this episode, you’ll discover how neuroscience and Scripture show us that even the smallest joys — a laugh, a sweet moment, or something as simple as a s’more by the fire — can begin to rewire your heart from survival into belovedness.

I’ll share a tender personal story of how God used a summer evening with my kids to show me it’s never too late for joy, and how choosing joy — even in the middle of tears — is a sacred step of healing.

Key Takeaways:


Why small joys help rewire your brain out of survival mode
 How “false safety mechanisms” from trauma silence your desires — and how to break free
 Why Jesus invites you to taste joy even before you’re fully healed
 A personal story of how a simple summer night with my boys became a moment of healing joy
 A practical soul care practice to take one small joy step this week

Breath Prayer:

Inhale: Those who sow in tears 
Exhale: will reap with shouts of joy

 Scripture:
“Those who sow in tears will reap with shouts of joy.” Psalm 126:6

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Do you ever find yourself feeling stuck — when your days all start to look and feel the same?

One of the hidden stressors we often overlook is emotional stagnation. When our brains aren’t being challenged with fresh experiences, our emotional well-being dips — to stress or low mood.

In this special episode, I sit down with Grammy-nominated violinist and teacher Joseph Christianson to explore the soul care power of music and learning something new. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why learning something new can help you break out of emotional stagnation and feel more joy
How music combines creativity, mindfulness, and joy to refresh your spirit
A simple technique from Joseph to overcome perfectionism and embrace learning with joy
A practical soul care challenge to boost your joy

 Breath Prayer:
 Inhale: I will sing a new song to you
Exhale: I will make music to you

 Scripture:
 “I will sing a new song to you, O God; I will make music to you.”  Ps.144:9

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Have you ever walked into a space and instantly felt lighter, calmer, or inspired — just because of what you saw? Beauty isn’t just decoration. Science shows that what surrounds you can change how you feel, help you break stress cycles, and even make new habits stick.

Yet many Christian women hesitate to add beauty to their own lives — worrying it’s “selfish” or “unnecessary.” But friend, God designed beauty as a gift to restore your soul. It’s not extra. It’s essential.

In this episode, you’ll discover how adding beauty into your space can renew your spirit and spark joy — inside and out. You’ll learn the neuroscience of why beauty matters, how visual cues can help you stick to life-giving rhythms, and a simple soul care practice to bring God’s peace and joy into your daily environment.

I’ll also share a personal story of the surprising way adding color to my own bedroom has transformed my mornings — giving me a more peaceful start to the day and helping me connect more deeply with God.

Key Takeaways:


  The neuroscience of how beauty lowers stress and boosts motivation


  Why visual cues are powerful triggers for building new habits


  How God uses beauty to reflect His care for you — it’s not “extra,” it’s essential


  A personal reflection on “clothing yourself with Christ” and embracing His beauty in your life


  A practical soul care challenge to add one beauty cue to your environment this week


 Breath Prayer:
 Inhale: You make all things beautiful
 Exhale: in your time

 Scripture:
 “He has made everything beautiful in its time.”
 Eccl.3:11

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